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The pursuit of sincere feelings and a happy marriage is an eternal topic. In fact, this problem has long been solved, and real examples of both ancient and modern times abound. There are kind people who compile these real examples of success into a book:

A collection of inductive sharing and theoretical methods for seeking marriage", which is available on the Internet and can be searched to see. If you really want to pursue sincere love and a happy family, don't underestimate these little stories, Bijing is a real and successful story in life, which can stand the test of practice. One or two examples, you can say that it is accidental, and a large number of them, and they have been passed down for a long time, cannot be said to be accidental.

The main point of this article is that a happy marriage can be achieved through the practice of Buddhism, and in fact, the practice of Buddhism has a wider effect of accumulating good fortune. You can use the keywords "reading the scriptures", "chanting Buddha induction", "release induction", etc., to find a large number of wonderful articles on the Internet, including almost all people's pursuits: health, wealth, career, promotion, further education, etc., all aspects.

So, how do you go about it?

1. Reading the Tibetan Sutra is a common practice method in Buddhism. Insist on washing your hands and sitting upright every day, reading the Dizang Sutra from beginning to end (it is better to read it several times), forming a habit, and persevering, that is, practicing the Dizang Sutra, the longer you persist in it, the better, and the greater the change in fate;

2. The Dizang Sutra can be obtained through the following ways: 1. Online**; 2. Search with the keyword "free marriage Tibetan scriptures", and you can find the ** of free marriage; 3. Use the keyword "Honghua Society" to find the homepage of Honghua Society for free scriptures, and there is a version of the scriptures in it, which is free; 4. Go to a nearby temple and please; 5. Through **search and audio search, find the ** and audio of the Jizo Sutra for learning.

Third, you can learn through many large forums. For example, "Xuanhua Venerable Master's Dharma Treasure Network", "Honghua Society", "Dizang Forum", "Dizang Forum", "China Liberation Alliance" and so on.

Husband and wife are flying separately in the face of the same forest bird! It seems that your relationship is not so good as it seems! Men only respect the woman who has come through the ups and downs with him! It's all like this, and the two of them have a good talk.

You two really love each other, and I don't recommend you to borrow money to get married. Because the debts owed by the woman when she marries are still paid by the two of you.

How many sisters are there?

If she is an only child, she can communicate with her parents well.

If you are not an only child, if you are honest, the money you give to his family will be someone else's in the future, and what does it have to do with your wife.

Let's talk about things clearly, my family is your mother's family, what are you still worried about. If you want so much money to come back, it's not your wife who will take it.

It's mainly the mother-in-law who says it's useless behind her back.

The water spilled by the married girl has nothing to do with her mother's family.

Go for it! It's time to test the depth of your feelings.

If you really love each other, what can you get by borrowing some money, and you will pay it back slowly in the future, and you won't be able to come back if you lose it.

It depends on what kind of person your girlfriend is, whether she values you or your money.

It depends on your ability, the rich second generation must not be much, if you are motivated, it is good, and if you have the direction of preparation, you will get twice the result with half the effort. Smart girls are looking for the future, not just money.

If you hesitate because of money, it means that she doesn't love you enough, and after you get married, you will often be noisy because you don't have money. Think twice.

You'll have to break up.

Now if you like you these days, you must also have money, otherwise you will be, crying in BMW and not laughing on the bicycle, similar to yours.

Tell her that I have less money today, but I promise that I will never let you live the life you have after we get married.

A man should stand up to the sky and not hang himself from a tree.

Your love foundation is not solid, so coordinate it well!

borrowed money to get married, and after the marriage, cao died and she went.

He takes a fancy to you, or to your money.

Divide it, he fancy your money is not your person.

Let's break up! She's in it for your money.

The woman who keeps asking for money and doesn't mention marrying you is obviously dating you for money, so break it off as soon as possible, lest no one get the money in the future. I've seen too many examples of this.

Your girlfriend keeps asking you for money, but she doesn't mention marriage, which proves that your girlfriend is very materialistic, only values your money, not sincerely, wants to be with you, you have to think about it, do you really like your girlfriend, if you don't like you, end it as soon as possible.

I have been asking for money, such a girl has some material, it is recommended that you communicate with the woman more, maybe she has something unspeakable, everyone opens the skylight and says bright words is the best.

This situation shows that she values your money, not planning the future with you, you can't meet her requirements without a bottom line, but to mention marriage with her, to see what kind of attitude she has, if you avoid or show that you don't want to get married, it's better to break up, and it's a waste of time and money to continue.

Talk about your girlfriend yourself, if the other party keeps asking for money, then put forward your own idea is to agree to get married, see what kind of attitude the other party is, if the other party does not agree to marry you, then you can choose to separate from him at this time, it is possible, she really doesn't want to marry you.

Then you have to say no to your girlfriend's request appropriately.

Your girlfriend only knows how to take blindly, but doesn't know how to give, so you have to stop the loss in time.

You can communicate well with your girlfriend, you need to know what your girlfriend's specific thoughts are, so that you can solve the problem between the two of you according to the actual situation.

Your girlfriend may just want to be with you all the time, but she doesn't want to marry you, it may be an irresponsible idea for you, you can ask your girlfriend if she wants to marry you, if your girlfriend doesn't want to marry you, then you just break up with her.

I think if your girlfriend always asks you for money, but never mentions marriage, then this situation can only mean that your girlfriend may be a more realistic person and has no intention of being with you. To be truly together, maybe all she wants is money.

Then don't give money, and then tell the other party that you are going to save money to get married, and the person who really loves you is understandable.

At this time, you have to communicate with her well to see what she thinks, does she just want to have fun and not want to get married? If you really don't want to get married, you don't want to waste money and time.

You ask her directly, ask her what she thinks, if it's not positive, just break up, and you may not be able to be together in the end.

Then you should directly let the other party give a clear answer, you can't drag it out like this, if the other party is still like this, break off the relationship, and ask for the money given to her before.

Your girlfriend may just want to use you as her cash cow, or want to exploit you well, so you should still recognize the true face of your girlfriend, if there is a girl in the world, then break up directly.

If you really always ask for money, you have to think about her motives for being your girlfriend. I don't think it's the man who pays for the relationship between men and women, and it's even more wrong for her to ask you for money.

For the question you said, I think I've talked to him for so long, you think it's good, two people can talk about marriage, he just borrows money, but doesn't talk about marriage, I think such a girlfriend should not talk about it, this is not enough to swallow the elephant, just know to borrow your money, and when it comes to marriage, he is silent,

In this case, I talked about a girlfriend who kept asking for money, but I didn't mention marriage.

Then you can say that I am saving money to get married now, and I want to save the money for after we get married. Now let's save a little if we can. Don't give it to her every time, that's fine.

You should reduce the first two to him, communicate with him whether he wants to get married, and don't give him money if he doesn't get married.

Then you need to have a long mind to see if she really wants to marry you, and you refuse to try it once.

I think it's very likely that I'll treat you as a meal ticket. If you don't like it very much, you should break up immediately, otherwise you will leave you if you encounter difficulties in the future.

People should not be too stubborn, and must have a flexible and changeable state in order to adapt to the current social environment.

With such excellent conditions as you, you can be completely flexible, and this flexibility is: "people move to live".

Unexpectedly, my girlfriend didn't do it anymore! What to say: five years of affection. You lied to me. You're a scumbag!

This family is a gourd without a mouth. Honestly, won't say. My girlfriend brought her family to the door, and they were scared to death! Find me.

Auntie, I listened and rushed to it immediately. If the ability to do so, boys generally buy a house before marriage, because the marriage law stipulates that buying a house before marriage is personal property and has nothing to do with the spouse for a few years.

Yiyi's boyfriend's family doesn't have so much money, can he force his boyfriend's family to borrow money to buy a house? I thought, what if I am in a hurry and the marriage is simply not married? Even if you borrow money with the power of the famine, you can only pay the down payment on the house, and the monthly bank repayment is very, very high.

Is it possible that you can still think that foreign debts and loan repayments are the business of your boyfriend's parents and have nothing to do with you young people? This is contrary to the Chinese nation's transmission of virtues and will not work at all. Whether your marriage is happy or not mainly depends on whether you really love each other, as long as you truly love each other and work together, I believe that in the future, there will be milk, bread, house, and everything.

The man's family can't afford to buy a house, which means that the man's family's economic conditions can't meet your needs, and you two have to work hard to have a better life after marriage, I don't know if you want to?

If the answer is no, then you can enjoy your single life until the man who meets your requirements appears.

If the answer is yes, then you need to lower your requirements, or you can negotiate and find a compromise.

In a situation like yours, your boyfriend's family is not very wealthy, and he has the money to get married but has no money to buy a house, and you are a little conflicted in your heart, and you don't know what to do if you think about it?

You can discuss it with your girlfriend, the house will be bought sooner or later, you can borrow it from relatives and friends first, and make a down payment. Then the two of them will pay off the loan together. The premise is that your girlfriend must be able to accept a loan to buy a house.

My girlfriend asked me to buy a house and get married, and if the money was not enough, the two parties could communicate to see if it could be slowed down. Or make a down payment and the couple will take on the mortgage together. If your girlfriend agrees, then you must treat her well for the rest of your life.

I think for this situation, you can communicate the actual situation with your old girlfriend to see if you can get the money or earn money to buy a house, or choose to borrow money to buy a house first, which can be communicated by both parties, there is no need to hide it.

You can tell your girlfriend truthfully. If you really don't have the money to make a down payment to buy a house, you can tell your girlfriend honestly that your girlfriend who loves you will think about it for you.

Summary. Okay, if you feel that your girlfriend's family conditions are too poor and you are hesitant to get married, then it is strongly recommended that you never marry her, and breaking up quickly is a good thing for you and her. Getting married is a very important thing, and you must think about it before you think about it.

The relationship between the right family and the family plays a very important role in the stability of the relationship after marriage. If the family backgrounds of the two of you are too different, even if you reluctantly get married, you will encounter a lot of problems after marriage in the future. Before getting married, girls will also consider the man's family, and boys can naturally consider the girl's family background.

If the woman's family background is particularly poor, then it means that after you get married, the woman's family will not have any help and help in your life, and there will even be a drag. When you think about this, it's actually reasonable, and it's normal to hesitate.

My girlfriend's family background is so poor, what should I do if I am a little hesitant to marry her?

Good. Oh my God, you've said a great job! Can you elaborate on that?

Okay, if you feel that your girlfriend's family conditions are too poor and you are hesitant to get married, then it is strongly recommended that you never marry her, and breaking up quickly is a good thing for you and her. Getting married is a very important thing, and you must think about it before you think about it. The feeling of being in the right place has a very important role in the stability of the relationship after marriage.

If the family backgrounds of the two of you are too different, even if Zheng Rang reluctantly gets married, there will be a lot of problems after marriage in the future. Before getting married, girls will also consider the man's family, and boys can naturally consider the girl's family background. If the woman's family background is particularly poor, then it means that after you get married, the woman's family will not have any help and help in your life, and there will even be a drag.

When you think about this, it's actually reasonable, and it's normal to hesitate.