How to train to make yourself cheerful and love to talk to people

First, learn to listen. Let people speak, observe how others express their thoughts, attract everyone to listen, and make people happy. Keep in mind the strengths of others and then practice. Listen before you speak.

Second, pass on more information to others. Tell others what you see, hear, and think, and think of yourself as a radio announcer. Don't worry too much.

Of course, it is necessary to take care of the listener's psychology and pay attention to respecting the other person's feelings. You know, spreading information and knowledge is not only a matter of character, but also our duty!

Third, develop a variety of hobbies. When talking to people, you need to talk about the right topic. Only if you have a wide range of interests and knowledge can you bring something useful to others, or you can interject when others are talking energetically.

Fourth, be good at asking questions. Appropriate questions not only solve their doubts, but also give people face and increase the interaction between the two parties. The best way to gain knowledge is through communication with people.

Maybe you can try to find an entry point into the topic of conversation with others. If so, you might as well boldly ask a question about that aspect to arouse the interest of others, so that you may be able to talk to others a little more, and open your closed heart a little more. You don't need to be afraid to say anything wrong, it's good to speak up about what you think, whether it's right or wrong.

Speak more, actively help those in need, and generously share what you have with others. It is believed that this is one way to get you to the other side of extroversion. I hope it can be useful to you.

It is said that boys are very arrogant, they are not as calculating as girls, and you can try to date them. I used to be very introverted, but now I tell myself that it doesn't matter if I lose face now, and it is a big mistake to lose face at a critical time, maybe you will never be able to hold your head up, be confident, and believe in yourself.

Hehe, I used to be very introverted, now it's much better, I used to talk to others and still tremble, see people take the initiative to say hello, smile more, contact friends more, the most important thing is to be correct, everything is treated with a normal heart, and it will not be so introverted. Oh, and I forgot to tell you that I also read a book on how to get out of introversion, and I wrote down the key points. It's really useful to take it out every day.

If my words help you, please give me your points, because I need points to ask questions now.

Sometimes it is necessary to take the initiative to communicate with others, and you have to learn skills: observe the words and deeds of the other party, you can cater to him appropriately, and make yourself humorous.

Make friends with more cheerful and straightforward people, naturally there will be more words, and you can also do fitness at ordinary times, which will help relax your mood and reduce the pressure brought by life and work, and people will also reach a little more.

It's easy to do, and if you make your face thicker, you will naturally be more cheerful. I'm like this, I think I went from a boy who blushed even when talking to girls to someone who dared to take the initiative to talk to girls, which can be seen to be effective.

It is to participate in more foreign-related activities, join in the fun, and naturally you will be infected by the atmosphere, and over time, I believe you will be able to.

The first thing to do is to exercise more.

Keep yourself in good spirits.

Be humble.

Ask more about things you don't understand.

When you spend time with friends, learn to listen and understand what others are feeling.

I think everyone will love to communicate with you.

Mainly rely on your own usual, talk to others more, chat, try to make yourself lively, but you can't let others look at you and have a feeling of annoyance, that is, there is a degree of problem in doing things, grasp it yourself,

Go and make a good friend with a cheerful personality, and you will gradually become cheerful after more contact between the two. I guess you're going to ask me how to make such a friend, go get close to her, and she'll be your best friend.

Oh, then go to those big hotels to work as a waiter for a few months, I used to work in the hotel for half a year, I have changed a lot there, I have more guests in the hotel, what kind of people have seen, and I have seen a lot of things, it is easy to hone a person, you should be able to try.

Actually, you have to solve this problem fundamentally! First of all, think about why you are talking to this person!

Secondly, if you really don't have anything to say, ask others what they have been busy with lately, and they will definitely say that they are busy or something! As long as the topic is taken out, there will naturally be something to say.

Don't force yourself to talk to others! Not necessarily! Hehe!

Try to speak in front of people.

Most of the girls are very cheerful and go to learn from them.

Men are under a lot of social pressure, and it is inevitable that they will not be cheerful.

Sometimes girls are influenced by boys and become uncheerful.

When a happy pig is cheerful, ha.

You have to be happy to be cheerful, carefree to be happy, go to find childhood, heh.

Talk to your family and get in touch with each other

You are an introvert

If you don't want anything in your heart, you will naturally be cheerful, how can you be cheerful if you are always worried.

People live to make their lives happier and happier, and a happy life must be earned by their own efforts. In order to pursue his own happiness, he has the desire to fight for it, and for the goal of life, people must work hard, find fun in their work, make their monotonous work full of fun, make themselves carefree, physically and mentally healthy, live peacefully and comfortably, and live happily every day.

The optimistic attitude of man will make you mentally young forever. When you move towards the goal you are striving for, it will increase your joy and self-confidence. You will naturally form an optimistic mindset, and happiness will always be with you!

I believe that while you achieve your life goals, you have also obtained the life partner of your dreams, and I wish you a happy life. You will be able to get the greatest happiness psychologically, and you will have a happy day! I believe that if you can grasp your happy and happy life and achieve the goal of your dreams, you will become an optimistic and open-minded person!

1. Have more contact with people with cheerful personalities.

2. Introverts usually have an inferiority complex, and they should overcome their inferiority complex, 3. Compare their own strengths with the shortcomings of others, so that they can give themselves confidence, 4. Don't care too much about other people's opinions when doing anything.

Open your heart, let go of everything, first take the initiative to talk to others, so that you can slowly become talkative, and after a long time, others will think that you are cheerful.

Tell you a very simple way to write a diary Maybe, you don't have no friends, you may feel that no one is trustworthy Maybe, a bad mood is just an excuse for boredom Maybe, you are unwilling and not used to communicating with others, autism is the name you give yourself for loneliness.

I think a person has a complex personality.

Cheerful or not lies in the system.

own mentality, such as bai

If you have a good attitude, you will.

Zhi develops towards the good side, friends are.

DAO is used to communicate with each other, as long as you pay attention to observation, you can always find friends who are consistent with your personality and interests, natural communication is essential, if you just blindly close yourself off, try to ask if you can find it, will your mood be good, you lack communication with people, you will naturally become hesitant, lack of energy makes you more autistic, so adjust your mentality, take the initiative to communicate with everyone, read more books, enrich your mind, pay attention to observe everyone's communication methods, you are attentive, Naturally, I blended myself into my friends.

In fact, it's very simple, that is, it looks at things very lightly, but it is difficult to do, this is a matter of mentality, and it is recommended that you specialize.

Friends are the first thing they do when they wake up every day.

It is to say loudly to yourself in the mirror: I am the best! I remember that Carnegie, the world's master of psychology, once told a story:

One of his students is unhappy every day, and he is upset by many things such as work, family, career, and friends. One day, after listening to Carnegie's lesson, he was walking home worriedly when he suddenly came across a man with disabled legs, walking on the sidewalk with his hands propped up, and this man said to him with a smile on his face: Hello!

This person had a sudden inspiration: a disabled person can be so carefree and happy! And why should I be unhappy if I am a man of sound limbs and a career?

When he returned home, he immediately communicated with Carnegie and received a positive answer, and since then the man has become happy and healthy, and his career is thriving.

Talk more, just the process (don't worry about offending people when you open your mouth, you have to believe that others can I too.)

How introverts can improve their relationships.

The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change", this is the eternal truth. So, don't try to change your personality and the character of others, because that's in vain!

Indeed, when you force yourself to change, you are not yourself, and likewise, you lose your true happiness. And that kind of change can only be a temporary superficial phenomenon, when you devote yourself to real life again, you find that those changes will no longer exist. Especially in emergencies and important events, your initial reaction is still attributed to your most honest personality.

So, try to change a little bit so that you can fit in with the needs of this colorful society, but don't expect to change yourself too much, then it's not you, you say?

Just work hard in everything, and as for the result, don't be too pushy! Try to overcome it, as long as you don't let yourself lose yourself of happiness.

Character is born with it, we don't need to deliberately change for whom or what, we don't even know ourselves, but it doesn't matter, the important thing is that we need to know what we want, it's enough. If you are tired of living like this, you can choose another way, you have to learn to be open-minded if you are introverted, and slowly, you will be happy; Of course, introverts don't mean that they can do it by being flamboyant. First:

Learn to laugh happily, smile at yourself and others; Second: cry if you want to, don't suppress yourself; Third: Spend more time with friends and don't let yourself be alone.

Maybe you will live a good life in this way, when you can speak loudly and perform boldly, you will find that you will still be timid, because your character has not changed, but there is a little more smart color in your character, that is, courage and happiness, I think you will not need to change anything at this time......Because ...... happyIntroversion disappeared ......No more worries. But you haven't changed yourself, you're still you, introverted but happy and brave!!

Play with friends and communicate more.