Girlfriend is unfaithful to me and dishonest 20

Hello! Seeing you like this, I am really sad for you, but the twisted melon is not sweet. Whatever the reason, she has betrayed you psychologically.

Can you guarantee that she has promised not to leave you now and will be loyal to you in the future? Since she promised you not to contact him, she still didn't do it. Besides, if something like this happens again after getting married in the future, will you still give her a chance and time?

If it were me, I would tolerate him treating me badly! Resolutely do not tolerate the betrayal of the other party! Friend!

I sincerely hope that you can get out of that shadow and pain and find another sky of yours. China is so big, there will always be the other half of your life!

Sincerely wishing: Happy every day! Always be happy!

From my point of view. Seriously, I've been in the same situation as your girlfriend before.

That is, lost.

But I was ruthless when I found out that the situation was wrong, and the man who left quickly, but I cried for days. I feel sorry for my boyfriend, and I can't afford to leave that guy so ruthlessly, but I know that as long as my boyfriend loves me, I won't regret it.

My boyfriend never knew about it until now, because I couldn't tell him, and if I told him, I would lose everything. So I can only silently apologize to him in my heart. I decided to be with him.

I'm sure your girlfriend is on this path now, but she may not understand the consequences of the matter, so she won't solve it decisively.

Seriously, I understand your sadness, but maybe you can't stand her messing around so much, but she wants you to care about her, just care about her more, women always want their boyfriends to care about themselves. I think it's proof of loving myself.

Brother, her heart is gone, there is no need to keep it.

She's not a good woman for you, don't keep her anymore, let him go, and let yourself breathe.

Nothing, you'll forget about her.

Divide it, long pain is better than short pain.

This woman's heart no longer belongs to you, please think about it.

Only men are easy to be brightened by two boats, but women are different, and you will feel that you are sharing a woman with others.

I will first calm down and try to deal with this rationally. After all, questioning your partner's loyalty is a very sensitive and important thing that should not be rushed. In the face of this situation, I will take the following steps:

1. Self-reflection.

I would review my feelings and thoughts first to make sure I wasn't over-interpreting or misinterpreting the situation. Sometimes, suspicion and distrust may be due to personal emotions or past experiences, rather than real evidence.

2. Direct communication.

I believe that an open and direct dialogue is the best way to solve problems. I would choose an appropriate time to sit down with my girlfriend with peace of mind and be honest about my concerns and doubts. Such a dialogue should be open and respectful, providing both sides with an equal opportunity to explain and understand each other's perspectives.

3. Collect evidence.

If my doubts persist, I may begin to look for some evidence to support or refute my suspicions. However, this step needs to be handled with care so as not to invade the privacy of the other person or cause unnecessary conflicts. If I can't get hard evidence, I will reconsider my feelings and reassess the whole situation.

Fourth, trust and support.

Whatever the outcome, building and maintaining trust is key. If my girlfriend can provide a reasonable explanation and dispel my doubts, I will try to believe her and look forward. If I find evidence that does support her infidelity, I will seriously consider whether there is still a need for our relationship to continue.

The most important thing is that in the face of such a fortune selling dilemma, I will try to stay calm and rational. Because suspicion and distrust can bring more damage to our relationship than solve the problem. Whatever the outcome, I will try to deal with the situation and make informed decisions for myself and the other person to preserve my dignity and happiness.

Resentment psychological sex life is a very important part of a couple's life, if the boyfriend because of sexual dysfunction, or because of the pursuit of career all day long, neglect to give his girlfriend warmth, or the boyfriend is greedy for wine outside, can not meet the normal physiological needs of the girlfriend, so it is easy to make the temperament red apricot out of the wall.

It should be that you are too suspicious, if you have something uneasy, you can confirm it, or ask your girlfriend to explain it to you, it is not good for you to be so suspicious all the time.

Sometimes it's because you love her too much and become stingy and lovely. Don't see her and other men together is unfaithful to you, if you are a real man, you must use your strength and your love to lock her heart tightly, since you love each other, you must trust each other, treat each other with sincerity, there is no need to be afraid, it is better to get married quickly.

If you are not willing to give him one of the most basic trusts when you are in a relationship with someone, then I advise you not to communicate.

The original principle of falling in love is trust and tolerance, and even if you can't give these things, let it go.

Since you love each other, you have to trust each other and treat each other with sincerity, there is no need to be afraid not to be loyal to you when you see her and other men together, if you are a real man, you must use your strength and your love to wish you happiness.

In today's society, no more than 10 percent of husbands and wives are faithful to each other. You'd better admit it.

The most important thing for two people together is trust. If you are suspicious every day, I don't know if you have found a girlfriend or someone who tortures you. Without trust, love is lifeless.

Be more considerate and take care of her. At the same time, you should also be confident in yourself. For girlfriends, there should also be space.

If you really don't feel at ease, then you can still follow her every day, it's better to let this kind of thing go with the flow, if it really doesn't work, break up.

Since you love each other, you have to trust each other and treat each other with sincerity, there is no need to be afraid, it is better to get married as soon as you are afraid.

Is it that your girlfriend is too beautiful, you have no confidence in yourself, you have to believe in yourself, but also believe in your girlfriend, so that life can be easier, if you don't trust each other, it is really tiring to live like that, it is better to let go earlier, or find someone ugly, then you can rest assured.

This kind of thing is your lack of self-confidence, or your girlfriend has had the experience of splitting legs, and you have to believe in yourself and your girlfriend when it comes to emotional things

Trust each other to maintain a long-lasting relationship. Guessing all day long, the contradiction will only get deeper.

Whether it is a couple or a husband and wife should trust each other, it is useless for you to be afraid, you just need to say to her once, don't let me know that you are eating outside, otherwise the consequences will be very serious, and then you can just look at it with a normal heart, I often tell myself that my other half is unfaithful, ok, no problem, never let me know it. As long as you never know, this infidelity just doesn't exist. Otherwise, it will be very hard for a lifetime.