What is the experience of an ex girlfriend who still likes to break up for many years?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-06
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    From the third year of high school to the graduation of college to find a job, together for six years, I always believed that we could be together for a lifetime, but for many reasons we broke up, almost two years after the breakup, last night was the meeting after two years, I said I miss you, you said, if you don't see me this time, I will send it to the door to see you myself. It turns out that we still can't forget it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When you go to the place where you used to play with her, and you see those old places, you will have a familiar feeling in your heart, and your heart will be infinitely emotional. I've never found a girlfriend since we broke up, and I feel like I'll never fall in love with someone else again, don't ask me how I know.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Women will not break up easily, especially if they have lived together, but if they are separated, they really don't want to look at him again, they will feel disgusted when they see it, and they will not understand why they were so blind in the first place! Fancy such a person!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Still like to still love her to find her, don't try to save face, love someone is easy but go to the heart is very little, trust is also few, don't miss it, cherish the time to love each other, have a lifetime of love experience, as long as you feel that this is worth your pay, you will use all means to redeem it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I regret it, blaming myself for smoking the wind and breaking up with her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    found that women generally love whoever is good to her, as long as the current one is good to him, he basically has no feelings for his ex. But men are different, men basically can't forget in their hearts, men are like this, what they can't get is always the best.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I can only hide in the deepest part of my heart, but I really can't go back, bless her, I hope she has a good life, although I also hope that the person who accompanies her is me.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm not productive, I just can't forget her. After so many years, when I hear the news about her, I still can't help but pay attention to it, and I will care about how she has been doing recently.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Regardless of male or female, only if you don't meet a better replacement you will always think about your ex, when you meet a better and more handsome or more beautiful and capable, the ex is nothing, and you will be glad that you broke up with him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't want to find a new partner, I always want to wait for her to come back, and then tell her that I still love you all the time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After breaking up with his ex-boyfriend, he had another girlfriend, and then not long after his ex-boyfriend added me QQ, watched my dynamics every day, and secretly called me a **, saying that he couldn't forget me, I deleted him, QQ was also blocked, no need, since it started again, why hurt another girl, I couldn't give it to me at the beginning, I hope he can give it to her! Two days ago, I heard another friend say that they are very good now, and her ex-boyfriend is also very good to her, and she never took the initiative when she was with me before, but now she is very active with that girl, and she is not a straight man at all, so, it's not that she won't, it's not enough love!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Is this a long-term love or obsession, I still like the incredible after breaking up for many years, I like the people in my memory, and I pay attention to the memory rather than the present.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    We are crying and parting, because each other has made mistakes, but we only see each other's mistakes in our eyes, there has been no contact for a few years, but WeChat has tacitly not deleted each other, every year on Valentine's Day I will order a bouquet of roses for her, she will also silently accept it, but there is still no contact. I don't think it's possible for us to come together all over again, and this way until we find our other half is probably the only option.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I often dream that I can't go back to the past, I tried a lot of methods and still can't get in touch, a kind of torment, I met a good girl who wanted to love for a lifetime at an incompetent age, why I couldn't resist the pressure and chose to give up, and I was sorry for my current wife, and I cried silently when I heard the love of my life, helpless, and incompetent.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After breaking up with her, I never met again, and I never contacted her, my heart was so heartbroken that I couldn't help myself, I couldn't sleep all night, and I was confused for a while when it was almost dawn, and I opened my eyes and thought of her again. It took two years to calm down, and now when I think back on those two years, I can't think of anything I did, except for the pain or pain, everything else is completely blank, just like amnesia, don't see each other in eternal life, and don't see each other in the next life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Just be okay! The point is to live well now, let it be beautiful all the time, don't spend your mind on your ex, it's worth your attention to the current one, it's your family. If you really like it so much, you won't really be willing to let go, don't move yourself.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    How can men be infatuated, they are all ruthless, they will break up when they say they break up, mercilessly, they were so good before, they knew that I was good to him, but they still left me ruthlessly, leaving me in a strange city, no friends, no family, I hate you, I am willing to exchange 10 years of life for your life is not smooth,

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Me too, I broke up with her when my brain got into the water, she is many times better than my current wife, and I am very happy to be with her,

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If there is a rebirth, I will avoid him, don't meet him again, never be together when I meet him, don't hate but still suffer, and the standard for finding a boyfriend now is not to be a little like him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Me too, I used to love my ex-boyfriend and I loved it to death, and then I met my boyfriend in the back, and I felt that I was really blind before, and my boyfriend was rich and romantic, and I couldn't compare with it in any aspect before, and I didn't treat me well, and then I met my current husband, and I felt blind, and my second boyfriend was not as handsome as him, and he was good to me, and he could play football, and he was good for the baby, so what women love the most is this now, and men always miss the past.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    My ex-boyfriend, I had a heartache with him, I gave up a lot, and now that I think about it, I really hope that if I don't know him, it might be more exciting to live my life again!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I really feel that it is no different from who he is with after breaking up, but after a long time, you will find that this person who accompanies him out of emotional wounds is also something that he can't easily give up, and he used to know that the two of them have not completely let go, but they also know that there is no point in entanglement, so they all hope that the other party can live well!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    That means you're not good enough, when you stand on the top of the mountain, you won't look at the previous things, and people who aren't good enough will do this.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Why don't these people who can't forget it go back to chase it back, in the final analysis, they just miss it, and they don't want to live together again. The difference between mosquito blood and white moonshine.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's that the girlfriends I will find in the future are all things in common with my ex-girlfriends. Otherwise, don't socialize.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    A boy who selectively forgets should be an ex-boyfriend. I can't remember it anymore. I just remember that my heart was very empty when I first forgot, and in the end I didn't feel anything else.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I've been breaking up with my former girlfriend for a few years, and I still think about her in my heart, probably because of the following reasons:

    1.Deep affection: You may have a very deep relationship, have been together for a long time, and have developed a lot of shared memories and habits. These memories and habits will remain in your heart and will never be forgotten.

    2.Reasons for the breakup: The reasons for the breakup may not be pleasant. If the breakup is due to misunderstandings, discord, or irreconcilable conflicts, then you may have regrets and longings for the relationship all the time.

    3.Feelings of longing: When people are separated or lose contact for a long time, they will begin to miss each other's presence, including the other person's voice, smell, temperature, and personality. This feeling of longing may make you think of her all the time.

    4.The Power of Habit: In a long relationship, people get used to living with each other, eating together, and doing things together. When you break up, you may miss each other because you miss this life.

    5.Uncertainty about the future: After a breakup, some people may feel uneasy and anxious, unsure of what their future life will be like, and therefore miss the future they once built together.

    No matter what reason you miss her, you need to seriously think about your inner needs and expectations for your relationship, treat your feelings rationally, and make decisions that suit you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Is your ex-girlfriend your first love? If you remember, it's not surprising, if you don't think of your ex-girlfriend from time to time, it's understandable, maybe it's because of your current girlfriend that you think of your ex-girlfriend, but you remember, the two of them are different people, you can't take your current girlfriend to imagine that it's your ex-girlfriend, maybe it's because your current girlfriend is not as good as your ex-girlfriend in some places, so you can't forget your ex-girlfriend, calm down and cherish what you have now, don't regret it when you lose it, and then miss it, maybe what's in front of you is the best, No one is perfect, we must learn to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect vision, and tolerate her if we love her.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I really loved it with my heart! It's hard to forget! Don't talk about you, even me! A lot of men are!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's normal to get back in touch after years of breakup.

    After breaking up with his ex for many years, he regained contact through a group chat, but it was not that both parties cared about each other, but that both parties had let go of the past and had forgotten the hurt they had given each other. But the time together was not easily erased, so the friendship was restored.

    An impulse not to be a stranger, to make a former lover a friend.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Absolutely normal, I and my wife belong to this situation, I can only blame myself at the time, this mountain looks at the mountain high, but later I found that my ex-girlfriend is more suitable for me, and I took the initiative to find my ex-girlfriend to reunite under the persuasion of my family, and now it seems that my decision is right.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    After many years of breakup, I suddenly contacted my ex-girlfriend, and I thought it was normal, and I had this behavior, but I usually controlled my thoughts, and only when I drank too much, I would suddenly miss that relationship. But when I wake up the next day, I will regret it, after all, people already have their own lives, and I feel that I am simply a scoundrel in this way, and I will apologize to him and tell myself that I will never contact him again. It wasn't until I had a girlfriend that I slowly forgot about that relationship.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Normal, maybe you will get back together, my two friends in high school broke up and got back together with their ex, and in the end they were not as good as the marriage hall, and now they are both very happy.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Normal! My ex-girlfriend and I have been separated for a long time, and we both thought that there would be a better person in the future, but we were disappointed, and after going around in a big circle, we found that that person was the most suitable.

    Coincidentally, he thought so too, so the two of us hit it off, and the good horse ate the grass again.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's not normal, since you broke up, you shouldn't contact and there is no reason to contact, you shouldn't have much affection after breaking up for many years, and you've started a new life, at this time, the sudden contact must be lonely or talk a lot or feel that the ex-girlfriend is friendly, these are not simply because of love, or think about it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I feel that since you have chosen to meet and get in touch after breaking up for many years, I think it's not normal, what is the revival of old love, I'm afraid that this connection will talk about the past, I can't hold the revival of the old love, the clothes are still new, not to mention the ex-girlfriend, who hasn't come together before, and now there is no need to contact them.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    After breaking up for many years, I found my other her, we are very good with my girlfriend, absolutely no contact, because for now that I have a new girlfriend, I should trust my current girlfriend, I shouldn't contact my ex-girlfriend, and I shouldn't think about him.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Abnormal.

    After all, it is someone who has loved before, and you will still feel it when you see it.

    It's best to get together and disperse.

    One is different and two are wide, and each is happy. It's the best.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you can still contact your ex-girlfriend for many years after the breakup, it can only mean that you are very fated between you, and you can't forget him, so you will continue to keep in touch with him.

    At that time, both parties had no lovers, they were both single, and when they met, it was inevitable that there would be an impulse in their hearts to get back together.

    After all, you used to be so in love with each other and used to be the people who knew each other best, so it is very normal to keep in touch with your ex-girlfriend for many years after the breakup, which can prove that you both have each other in your heart.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Hello, subject

    Give the subject a warm hug first, understand the subject's feelings very well, and know through the subject's description that he broke up with his girlfriend, but there will still be some psychological contradictions and conflicts. So we have to think about what is the reason for this feeling of ours? Is it because you're able to see each other every day?

    What would happen if you didn't have a class, would you still think of him? Is your current affection for him out of genuine pure love, or is it just because of some unwillingness and reluctance?

    The subject himself also mentioned that the most important thing for him at the moment is actually the postgraduate entrance examination. Then we might as well create a quieter environment for ourselves in the process of reviewing, find a study room or go to the library. Don't always create opportunities for yourself to meet the other person, and it's better not to see each other if you can.

    It may be a long time, and we will slowly forget it. Our liking for each other is probably not the real pure liking that we like out of our hearts, but because we always have a good feeling when we meet every day.

    In psychology there is a term called the ** effect. The effect is that you don't have much emotion in the first place, and you always brush your presence in front of you, and you will like it more and more. So it is very likely that the subject is because of such a psychological reaction of a friend to change the imitation. Best wishes

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