When your simplicity, your belief in others, becomes used by friends, and is used by men, and become

Since we know, we should quickly correct ourselves and make ourselves stronger, we should not harm others, but also do not trust others completely, and the most important thing is to be good to ourselves.

What has become when your belief becomes difficult to be used by your friends? It's true, is it time to bring an order? It's all realistic, let's be realistic, you're too kind, people will think you're stupid.

As the saying goes, if you eat a trench and grow wiser, you just need to be smarter and smarter.

Although the victim also has a certain responsibility, and you may be unhappy, but in the face of not a major right or wrong, basically the victim has a certain responsibility. For example, if you don't install anti-virus software on a computer, and then the virus invades you, and the other computers are fine, you complain to the people who have anti-virus software, what do you think they will think? Therefore, people can be simple, but they can't help but think about things, so they will be called stupid.

A truly simple person is one who has consideration when encountering things, does not hurt others, and at the same time will protect himself, so that others feel kind, reliable and scheming, that is simple.

Because each of us thinks that our choice is right when we make our own choice, no matter for anyone, there may be such a situation, so it is not that we are stupid, but that we are not defensive enough against others, so we should adjust ourselves and don't think like this.

This is the cruel reality of this society, others will take your kindness as the capital to be a good bully, so your kindness should be reserved for those who love you.

When you are simple, you have to believe in others, you become used by friends, and you become stupid by men, this is actually not stupid, because you are a simple person, and simplicity is actually quite admirable, well, it is not that you are stupid, not so stupid, you are all smart, and people who are confused for a lifetime live.

Whoever makes you so simple, you will be pitted if you are simple, but a simple person will become mature after being cheated n times, and he will not be cheated after learning from his previous experience.

Then let yourself be scheming and don't let others grab your handle.

When you are innocent, you have to trust others, and you become used by friends, so don't continue to be friends.

How to say this, I can only say that your circle of friends is not good, don't trust others too easily in some things, and you have to keep an eye on yourself.

Sometimes because you are really kind, you will be easily taken advantage of by others.

When you believe in others and become used by friends, I think it's right to be simple, but to someone, if you want to be a friend who uses you, you have to become well. Not so simple, hey, for kind people, you have to be simple. Nature.

You already know what you are like, and you don't want to try to change yourself into something else like that.

First of all, there are feelings between people, but it is better not to trust one person too much.

I know who I'm meeting against. Learn to stay away from these people.

When your innocence is taken advantage of by others and becomes this situation, then it is obvious that you need to distinguish between right and wrong and clear the relationship with the other party as soon as possible.

As the saying goes, you can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people, so maybe your kindness, your innocence is used by others, and you are still stupid when you are others, so we must treat others, we must polish our eyes, be good at distinguishing between good and evil, and be good at distinguishing between good and bad people, and don't be used by bad people.

Society is inherently sinister, although it is said that we are grateful and kind, but we have to keep an extra eye, and human nature cannot withstand the test. Make yourself strong and independent.

Don't be afraid, the people who bully people don't achieve anything in the end, try to do your best and make yourself better, and you will definitely meet people who treat you sincerely.

This is self-contempt, and it is also ignorant of people.

There's no need to punish yourself for someone else's mistakes.

If you are hurt by love, you will look for it again.

Who is not in the search for the right person.

It is impossible to dig a golden doll with a hoe.

The perception of men has changed after being hurt.

Sadness, resentment, loss, sadness.

That can't be helped, we can only promise that we don't lie.

I've had that experience too. Eat a wisdom and grow a wisdom.

What would you do if there was one she liked you and you didn't like her? Therefore, love is when two people like each other, and only in this way can two people be happy together.

After reading the mood of your writing, I feel two words, tangled.

Life is like a whetstone, which will polish the edges and corners of our bodies over time, making us more sleek. In four or five years, it is completely impossible to say that a person will not change one layer at a time. We used to think that we lived for ourselves, but now we find that our life is actually related to others; We once thought that we could live simply and simply, but now we find that simplicity and simplicity are just the innocence of children.

In this society, if a child is simple and simple, others will say that it is cute, but if an adult is still simple and pure, then some people will say that you lack heart. We are all growing, not only in age, but also in knowledge and scheming, not for anything else, but to live in this society.

I don't know if you have watched the series Tiandao, there is a sentence in it, saying that China's thousands of years of culture depends on words, relying on parents at home and friends when going out. Rely on the mountains to eat the mountains, rely on the water to eat the water. In the past, we made friends to be happy, but now we make friends to better help ourselves live a better life.

Those friends who make themselves happy, others seem, are friends who drink and meat.

,Friends betrayed and no longer needed.,Friends are used to take advantage of.,But I feel like I'm wrong.。。。 You must be wrong, your friends have been abandoned by you like this, how can you make close friends?

No one's fault. It is human nature to think for one's own benefit. You can't accept some betrayal because it's more than you expected. In fact, what you have to do now is to try to understand, understand why they betrayed, and there is a reason for any behavior.

You find out the reason, tell yourself that this is the truth, figure out the motivation for their behavior, accept it, and you grow and mature. As you gain more experience, it will be easier for you to understand and accept more serious things. Finally, when we reach a certain state, when our minds become wider and everything is easier to relieve, our minds will become more and more simple and calm, and it will be easier to be happy.

If you look back at the emotional relationships in the world, you will find that there is fun in them and you don't care about why.

In short, understand it, accept it, and grow. May you untie the tangles and get out of the negative emotions as soon as possible.

Look at the current hit "Full Autumn" to see how strong people are, I watched it a few times, and I cried.

One piece and one relaxation, the way of civil and military.

"There is no absolute right and wrong in the world, there are just different positions. "Actually, in today's society, friends are just a kind of existence that allows you to achieve a certain goal. When you're in pain, you need a friend who can share it for you, when you're the most loyal viewer; When you need help, friends can help you.

In the process of socializing with friends, you need to grasp a certain scale. In order to master this scale, first of all, you need to know yourself correctly; Secondly, don't put too much trust in anyone--- everyone's decision is in their own hands! If you trust others too much, you will lose yourself.

The price of growth and the experience of life must be faced after all.

It's enough to treat the people around you who are good to you

Male compatriots are very simple, either holding hands or pulling ......Besides, the words betrayal are bulkered and blunt, and using such words can only mean that you live a monotonous and lonely life, and you are cold. Friends are special beings, they will give you joy and they will hurt you. Others will give you emotional givings (emphasizing that giving here not only means what makes you happy, but also hurts you), and you have to reciprocate accordingly.

Those who say all day long: Friend, I hate you. is not a little painful on its own. Even if your boyfriend and girlfriend are robbed, you have to continue to go shopping and chat with him (her).

We feel the same... Dear, the power of believing...

You have to believe that the world is beautiful, and believe that your friends are sincere to you, whether they are actually sincere or not... Because all your feelings now are self-generated, and who knows if that's the case? Regardless of whether the friends are sincere or not, as long as you feel that they are, that is, so that you will feel that there are friends everywhere... In this way, you feel very relaxed, and your friends can also feel your sincerity, so that in addition to the special wolf-hearted friends, no matter what they were, they will now return the favor to you...

Honey, believe me, be strong, try to believe in something, the world is beautiful, the sun is shining outside the window...

You're punishing yourself for other people's mistakes Many times I wanted to click on a certain QQ to talk to the other party about some of my own thoughts, but it was difficult to say that I was afraid that the other party would answer oh Wait a minute, I'll go out for a while I also thought about not being too self-centered People also have other people's things to be busy and depressed I'll find songs to listen to Will go to the bridge with a wide view to see the rolling river Blowing the wind Look at the night view I will be relieved a lot When no one listens to you, it's very uncomfortable in my heart Countless times I fantasized about breaking out in the sea of people Roar Afraid of being scolded for being a neurotic by people who look at us strangely, we have to learn to self-regulate our emotions, but this is also very difficult to do, let's encourage each other, friends, I am also a girl, and my sisters and buddies are half and half.

Little children need love.

The teenager needed comfort.

Youth need respect.

Patience is required in middle age.

Older age needs care.

This is the law of life, but to obtain this, you must know how to be self-motivated and controlled.

People should be strong, and it is better to seek others than to seek themselves.

Send you eight words You pour yourself out, and he is casual.

In a word, eat, drink, sleep, face reality, and do what you think you should do. Eat something nice when you're bored.

A true friend is one who will always be there for you.

Those who are hypocritical cannot be called friends.

Those who are good to you, who are by your side, and who accompany you are true friends.

You have to be happy and make friends worth making. They will bring you a lot of joy.

Don't think too much about it, go outside and indulge yourself. After a while, I will find that it is not the same as before.

I think no matter how negative a person is, she is still the person who cares about her, and now your problem is that you care about the people who don't care about you, and ignore the people who care about you, so your world will collapse! So, I hope you pay attention to the people around you who care about you.

It's too long to read. Do you want to help others be happy?

There are no absolutes in the world, just like they won't believe in your sincerity 100%, the tightest can, if you walk in, it's easy to get lost, which is normal. Some of the --- should be left to be left in the making

My experience was of loss, of losing my heart sinking deep into the depths of the sea, completely broken. Then there was a long period of discouragement. In the end, it will either collapse or reinvigorate. Most people would be the latter (and I am).

Depending on the nature, if he only wants to joke, forgive him and say to him how you feel....I want him not to play tricks on you again.

But don't forgive him if he's malicious.

Beat her (him) Beat her (him).

And then forget about him, forget about him.

In the end, I was at peace.

Everything is okay and I don't feel it anymore.

It's very sad, but it depends on why she is doing this, and she doesn't have to be too sad

Rest. It's boring.

It's disgusting to be together.

I'd be angry, and if he had deceived me for his own benefit, I wouldn't have had this friend.

Began to alienate and dislike him, but still friends, just won't trust anymore.

It's a bad feeling.