Mom knows who I like, how do I tell mom I have someone I like?

Updated on parenting 2024-05-17
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think your mother must be very concerned about your growth, so you don't have to worry about it, you can discuss it with your mother.

    As your mother, you must understand you very well, so I joke with you like this, this is what you should be proud of, if you meet a mother who ignores you, wouldn't it be more distressed.

    I think you should stand in the same square as your mother, your mother also came from this time, and if you sincerely ask her for advice, you will give her more experience to talk about, cherish your relationship with your mother, and don't contradict her. Because listening to her experience, you will meet better men in the future, come on, and your mother will support you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Normal, mom is just afraid that it will affect your learning, or learning is the most important thing When you grow up, you will regret not studying well before. Hehe.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello! It is impossible to say love and affection according to your age, and it is natural for you to have a crush on a certain female or male classmate. Can you tell your mother that he also asks about learning, how can we delay if we are not mature in all aspects?

    We just get along, and I don't think about anything else, I will study carefully, Mom, I understand your worries, I will study more diligently! Your mom must be relieved and understood.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Take shelter for a while, depending on the situation. In addition, since you just like it, don't make such a big move, and write a note, so it's strange not to misunderstand, just keep it in your heart and know it yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm dizzy, but it doesn't matter. Rest assured.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Tell your mom that he's actually a woman, and he's just rough.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Primary 5 Grade - Awesome Your mom is having a hard time for you, in fact, she doesn't worry about it. Hit ** and pick it up normally. I didn't do anything, wasn't it just a note for me to see? Do as you want.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Usually mothers don't mind!! I'm having something similar!! Ha ha.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I have a crush at such a young age, my mother is still worried that you will affect your studies, one is to study hard and prove yourself with actions, and the other is that you are so young, you really don't want to fall in love, just make it clear to your mother.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I still have a lot of say on this topic. When I was a sophomore, I met someone I liked. Later, I also liked it more and it was more suitable, so I chose a suitable opportunity and told my mother this.

    One:"He's excellent

    My mom said that I was young, and that the excellence I can see now is basically in my studiesBut the paper can't explain the bottom line of his character, and he can't see his ability to live, my mother said that as a person who is many generations older than me, she will care a lot about whether the person I like can take care of me,If I am no longer in school, she hopes to have someone who can be more tolerant of me.

    Two: "Actually, I envy my roommates when they fall in love, and they are happy and sad to be accompanied by someone, which is the feeling of having someone to accompany them." ”

    Then my mom said that I felt lonely, she understood very well, but she felt that this kind of relationship was not stable enough to withstand the test of real life, she said that loneliness is the norm, and she felt that my current college life is not very bad, which means that I can also try to hone my child's heart and learn to rely on myself. And in fact, if I want people to talk, I'll give them more **.

    She felt that her classmates were too "knowing" She said that in the future, when there was a conflict, the other party would inevitably feel that "everyone is almost the same".She hoped that I would like someone with more experience, because she felt that someone with more experience would be more tolerant of me。I said I was upset chasing him, and my mom said she was distressedShe thinks that both sides are the most important, if I am the one who cares about it in the early stage, let alone later

    One: the relationship with parents

    I think there is a great need for mutual respect and support between parents and children, so that parents know that you have grown up, and that there are some things that you have to face on your own, and that parents can only give you advice, but cannot help you make decisions. As children, we should also understand the concerns of our parents and understand them.

    Two: Parents are worried about whether they will protect themselves

    As a college student, I am very free, and I have just gotten rid of the shackles of high school, and if I can't see clearly and can't hold it, I will start to let go of myself. But I want to say that whether it is a boy or a girl, we should be responsible for ourselves, each other and our families, and this matter can also be spread out and told to our parents, so that our parents can rest assured.

    Mom said I like him, and I'm sure this boy is very good, maybe it is really good, but he is not a mother's childNo matter how good he is, it doesn't matter to me, I am my mother's child, and my mother still hopes that I can be happy.

    There's nothing to be ashamed of, and we bring our parents' expectations and may give them more courage to express themselves and their love for you。Actually, I think it's a good thing that people will worry about their parents' feelings. It shows that everyone cares about their parents very much.

    We will also become parents one day in the future, and we are parents for the first time, so we can learn to be a better person anytime and anywhere on this path.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Some likes just like, and it's good to tell your mom directly.

    And the mother is more curious and cares about the child's thoughts, so you just sit down with the mother, talk seriously, and then introduce what the boy is like, and why you like him, about the long-term love in the future, the love will be made into love, or just the death of life and twilight like dew. Talk to your mom and she will respect your ideas and make your own suggestions and express your bottom line.

    If it's mutual liking, it's early love if it's too youngFirst of all, you have to weigh whether the other party cherishes you enough, and the one who says beautiful words sweetly without putting them into action is the cheapest like; Of course, the joy of youth can not go to the end, and under the polishing of time, your likes will be more stable to precipitate into love.

    The juvenile feeling is the scorching sun that shines directly into the eyes in midsummer, the juvenile feeling surrounded by the deep valley in late autumn is the scorching sun that hits the eyes in midsummer, the green mist surrounded by the deep valley in late autumn, the willow color washed by the rain in early spring, and the green pine that cannot be suppressed by the wind and snow in midwinter.

    The flamboyance and wanton youth of adolescence is indeed very exciting; I don't know much about the emotions that I can't forget, I can just keep it in my heart and make a thought, and it's okay to share it with my mother, anyway, it's my mother.

    It's not that there is a sentence that a girl does not have a spring. It is normal to have a liking during adolescence, and the important thing is whether we work towards that person's shining point and turn what attracts you to him into our own. Or try to improve yourself, achieve yourself, and get closer and closer to him.

    Long-term liking has positive factors that take us to higher heights.

    Love. If it is from love to love, both parties have the ability to be responsible for themselves, and they need to introduce their lovers to their mothers in a more formal and serious atmosphereIf you can, express some of your thoughts and express your determination. Also give Mom some judgment on your determination to this person, and Mom will know that you mean it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Method 1: Confess your relationship.

    Write down what you want to say. If you're worried about being nervous, it's a good idea to write down what you're going to say beforehand. This will help you organize what you want to say in order to introduce your new relationship in the best possible way. That way, you won't be in a hurry then.

    You can also imagine how your parents would respond when writing down what you might say. This way, when introducing them to your boyfriend, you will be able to get their concerns.

    Practice confessing your romance. It's normal to feel uneasy about telling your parents about your new relationship. You can practice what you're going to say to them ahead of time, and things will get simpler. Ask a friend or informed relative to assist you in practicing.

    You can also practice in front of a mirror.

    Let someone you trust help you so you don't get the word out in advance. For example, find your cousin instead of your brother, who may feel obligated to tell her parents about this.

    Decide who to tell first. There is always one of mom and dad who is closer to you, or more forgiving. Generally speaking, it will be easier to tell the other party what is good to talk to first, and then it will be easier to explain it to the other party.

    For example, if you have been the jewel in your father's hand since you were a child, and he is obedient to you, then communicate with your father first. But if your dad is particularly protective of you, it's better to start with mom first.

    If you're not an adult, this trick is especially useful.

    If you think your parents are very talkative, or if they are not human, then don't hide it and talk it together in front of them.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1.Intentionally or unintentionally mention things about the person you like at home, and slowly your mother will notice.

    2.Come straight to the point.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Mom, I'm a famous flower outside.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. What you're saying is a demon in your heart, and if you keep thinking about it, it's only going to get you deeper and deeper. And fight it tenaciously and destroy it, and your life will burn a different flame.

    What should I do if I like my mother?

    This question is up to me, it takes a little time to type, so please be patient.

    Kiss. It is recommended that you divert your attention, read more books, travel, and chat with friends, and this idea will naturally disappear.

    Are there many people like me?

    Hello, don't feel the burden of this kind of thing, it doesn't matter how much you have, you just need to learn to divert your attention and don't want to post something.

    The main thing is to be yourself and learn to communicate with your friends a lot.

    The problem is that sometimes it's out of control.

    Dear, don't control, control how tired you are. You should learn to think more, experience more hardships in life, and many things will pass naturally.

    If you always want to, you can read books to enrich yourself, as the saying goes, there is a ** house in the book.

    Can already fall in love.

    But I've fallen in love with it.

    If it is so easy to love one, then such love is too cheap. It's not love, it's just a fire burning in your heart.

    Is this unethical love still love? No, it's just a low-level emotional bond.

    I'm an adult, so as long as I don't have children, I think it's okay.

    Kiss. Mainly, this kind of thing can't contain fire. Once the matter is leaked, then you and your parents will become the laughing stock of others, and it will not be good<>

    Now we are all happy and happy together! Mom also told me to keep it a secret.

    Dear, there is an old saying that says: walking by the river for a long time, how can there be no wet shoes, this sentence is reasonable. You can't keep a secret for a lifetime, so think more and do more meaningful things than what you think about right now, isn't it<>

    What you're saying is a demon in your heart, and if you keep thinking about it, it's only going to get you deeper and deeper. And fight it tenaciously and destroy it, and your life will burn a different flame.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Looking at the words you typed, you should also be a girl full of optimism and humor, but she is a little helpless about her current life and has lost her direction.

    In this world, in fact, everyone is somewhat selfish, when you are separated from your mother, you do not affect her current family, every time she comes back to see you, it is with the thought and love of you, so in that short period of time, you will feel the love of a mother.

    And then you really went to her, you think that your mother should be more affectionate and happy for you, but the reality is far from what you think, and you are not very suitable for the rural lifestyle, so you feel very aggrieved in your heart.

    I'll give you some advice, don't hate your mother, you have to firmly believe that she must love you in her heart, maybe you will see some shadows of your own father in your body, plus now his husband will give your mother some pressure because of your arrival, but you don't know, so you have to learn to understand your mother, not to complain about your current life, and to respect your current adoptive father, because then your mother will be a good person!

    Study well and use your own love to influence the people around you, as long as they don't behave excessively towards you. If you can't change the bad environment and others in this world, you have to work hard to change yourself and adapt to the environment!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I guess, your mom is doing well with her current husband and their daughter, and when you come, you're reminding your new dad that your mom has other children. Your mother is disgusted with you because of the pressure your father puts on her. After all, when you live with your dad, she still cares about you.

    So you should not be living with her in the life she wants.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    To say something negative, people can only rely on themselves in the end

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