If someone in the workplace is pointing fingers at you, how do you deal with it?!

Helping others is the foundation of happiness!If it really helps, it should be that he thanked you almost. On the contrary, if it is a pointer, then I advise you not to help him move next time, don't say anything when you do a good job, and still be angry, what kind of heavenly reason is that?

Don't you say? Remember, don't dump him next time.

In the case that he will not affect your position, if you don't help him, what can you do?

Ignore him. I despise him in my heart, and the excuse is; "What are you, disgusting. I'm sorry! "Psychological comfort. Hehe, don't give him a favor in vain.

It's really troublesome for you to meet this kind of person, if you want to climb up in the company, it's best not to offend him, others must be able to find someone to enter, that is all backstage! Now society is like this, this is called "dog fighting human power." ”

It's not very easy to find a good job now, you have to endure this kind of person, and the so-called small can't bear it will make a big plan! Wait until you get out of the way and get revenge on him!

That's right. Let's teach you the tricks that are popular everywhere. 1 Learn to listen and be a good listener 2 Cater to the other person's interests and thoughts 3 Always make the other person feel that they are the most important 4 Give the other person attention and praise 5 Don't force others to admit their mistakes 6 Let others have a chance to express themselves 7 Show your kindness Maybe do this to make others like to get along with you More importantly, smile at others

Ay! That's how this society is! The more honest you are, the less people will take you seriously! It's really the so-called good people who are bullied and good at being ridden! I can't help it! You try to give him some color to see so that he doesn't look down on you anymore!

And then he asks you to do things, and you say you're busy and have other things to do!

You won't tell him to move on his own.

You asked for the boss.

Not for him.

You are taking the boss's salary.

Not to take his money.

Why look at his face?

He's giving you some good.

For such a person who has no quality and no grace.

Ignore it!!

Is it worth talking about it from both a legal and professional perspective?

One time is okay, many times is not.

Respond to all changes with the same, repay grievances with virtue, or it is better not to show pigtails at ordinary times.

The meaning of the word is not so good as compared to pointing. Pointing is the guidance of others to oneself, and pointing is the deliberate thorn of others on oneself.

Find out why

There must be a reason why others point fingers at you. Is it a problem with your own work, a problem with your work image, or something else? As the saying goes, there is no love for no reason, and there is no hate for no reason.

When others point out to you, the first thing is to find out the reason yourself, whether it is your own cause or someone else's reason.

Fight back

Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and where there are rivers and lakes, there are struggles. Humility is useless when others take the initiative to provoke a struggle. In the workplace, it is also the law of the jungle, and showing weakness will only make others worse.

What you say makes sense, I'll change it; If what you say doesn't make sense, I won't listen; You're going to have to pick a bone in the egg, I'm sorry, I'm going to turn my face.

Ignore it

If only a few people point fingers at themselves, it may indicate that those people are biased, if many people or even the vast majority of people point fingers at themselves, it means that they really have problems, or they are not allowed by this organization, and they can't find the problem, they might as well choose to leave, change the environment, and play their best is what they should do. Or, let your bad feelings out so you don't get affected. You can find your own friends to vent, or you can find your direct superiors to communicate and vent, in short, let yourself vent the bad emotions you have received because of other people's fingers.

If a person lives and works under the guidance of others for a long time, he will be affected a lot psychologically or emotionally, and he must vent it at this time, otherwise he will be hurt more. ‍‍

First, go your own way and let others say go. Life in the world, too concerned about other people's opinions, then you will not be able to move an inch, after all, people have ideas, if you want to get more approval, you can only do your best, and the person who knows yourself best is only yourself, so stick to your own ideas, don't care about other people's statements. That is to say, the mentality is very important, and having a good mentality, even if you point a lot of fingers, you are fearless.

Laugh it off. It seems simple, but in fact, it takes a lot of cultivation and a long time to be able to laugh at other people's fingers. Many people don't know the real situation, but always follow the trend to talk about the long and short, in the face of these, we can laugh at it, ignore it, to know that their work goals are the most important, not just because of other people's words to stop at the end. ‍‍

You have to tell him, if he continues, you will sue the leader, and if he doesn't work, you will be beaten.

One: In the school in society, there are really too many such people, because where there are people, there is gossip! For the people who talk about you behind your back, I'm afraid that some of you may not hear it, it may be conveyed by others, and you can laugh it off if you don't know whether it's true or not. Why bother yourself.

Two: If you say it to your face, you will fight back, and it will be pulled to the table, how can you be slaughtered by others, but no matter if you quarrel or something, you must have self-cultivation. It is necessary to use reason to shock others, but for the kind of villain who specializes in provocation, you must put on a high posture, or directly ignore him.

What are you afraid of when others point fingers at you?

The body is not afraid of the shadow crooked, first of all, you have to be okay

Don't fight back at other people's advice, stay silent, and prove your worth with your own actions so that others will slowly recognize you and accept you