What is it like for two people to torture each other in love?

I've seen many young couples in love, and most of them are enviable on the surface. The couple's avatar, the couple's space, the boyfriend's and girlfriend's suits, and even the water cup and towel in life must be for two people.

It's as if in their eyes, there is only each other in this world.

This kind of love-type protagonist, let's divide them into the sweet range for the time being.

Among the friends I know, there is also such a sweet couple. The girl's name is Aoi, and the boy's name is Ash.

Aoi and Ash met in 07 and did not fall in love with each other at the first sight of each other, as in all fairy tales.

They chose love in their fourth year of acquaintance.

It has been ten years since they met each other and then sweetly got together.

I think that now they know what it means to cherish more than the sweetness when they were together.

Told me the other day that they were getting married. The princess and prince in the story are finally going to be together forever. We still believe in love in the end. <>

In fact, when they first got together, they were not so convinced that each other was the person they wanted to accompany each other for a lifetime.

Love at that time was immature, so there would always be doubts and suspicions.

For example, if you didn't say goodnight to me and went to bed today, don't you love me anymore? For example, you talked a lot to so-and-so of the opposite sex today, do you like her? Or maybe you didn't eat with me, blah, blah, blah.

That's how you calculate, and later it became the same to pretend that it didn't matter, having dinner with friends of the opposite sex, and making an appointment with friends of the opposite sex for next weekend's movie, as if you were satisfied when you saw that you were in a hurry.

It's always like this, torturing each other, obviously loving each other, but they can't withstand any bit of wind and rain.

At this time, someone asked, since they are torturing each other, why don't they just break up happily?

I thought about breaking up, but I was reluctant to do it after all. Recall that those past mutual tortures were all due to loving each other too much.

I love each other too much, so I also want the other person to love me, so the possessiveness is too strong, the jealousy is too obvious, and the means are too clumsy, so I feel that everything is not perfect, so I would rather torture each other than lose contact with each other.

Xiaokui and Xiaozhi are from the sweetness at the beginning, to the mutual torture because they care too much, and then to the final love that is willing to grow old together.

The memories of the past tormenting each other will probably become traces of love in the future.

They also responded to the sentence "those who are favored have no fear", so that they will be painful and happy in love, and only then will they live out the ending of the fairy tale in the end.

Everyone will have love in the end, and the vinegar in love is the most wonderful memory in this relationship.

Well, there are a lot of problems that are difficult to solve when they are together, but two people love each other very much and are reluctant to let go, and this kind of relationship is the most tormenting.

In the past, I always thought that the love between two people was very simple, as long as two people liked each other, they should be together. In fact, when I grow up, I know that whether two people love each other, whether they are suitable or not, and whether they are together are three different things. Sometimes a lot of things are really hard to put into words.

I have a friend who tortured each other with her ex-boyfriend for seven years, and finally got a clear breakup, and she still told me that this was a divorce, not a breakup. They should really love each other deeply, but there is no way to be together.

His boyfriend's mother and sister didn't like her, and his sister even threatened that if he married my friend, she would never recognize him as an older brother again.

The two have been together under such pressure, they used to be young and fine, but when they reached the age of talking about marriage, many problems could not be avoided. Boys are still soldiers, and in the army, it is really not easy to meet each other. Although the two are in love with each other, they torture each other because of various things.

Because of insecurity, girls are always constantly testing boys' love for themselves, and this temptation puts boys under more pressure. The two of them are still in a different place, and friends say that sometimes when they go to see him, the moment they meet their eyes, the tears of the two people stay unconsciously, and then they hug their heads and cry.

I insisted on it for several years, and in the end I still couldn't be together, I think torturing each other is destined to wear out the love, such a love may be a debt owed in the previous life, and it must be repaid in this life. Those who torture each other are probably like this.

It's like two hedgehogs who want to hug, but they still have to prick each other with thorns, even if it hurts, they are still reluctant to let go, and gain each other's attention by making each other sad.

It's very uncomfortable, every day is a disaster, and I want to separate immediately, and I don't want to continue like this.

In marriage and love relationships, there is often such a situation: two people who obviously love each other very much, but they always can't get along well when they are together, either they quarrel all day long, or they are angry and cold, even if it is not because of a big deal, but neither of them will give in to each other.

Sometimes, I know in my heart that I am wrong, but I just can't control my emotions, I always say something hurtful, and the way I deal with problems will be very extreme. I dare to say anything and do anything, but after thinking about it, I will feel a little regretful.

has also made up his mind countless times not to quarrel anymore and get along with the people he loves, but once he encounters something, he is detonated in a minute.

I can't let go of each other when I break up, and I can't help but twist each other when I'm together, hurt each other, and so on and so on, tormenting each other, and putting the relationship in a predicament.

Many lovers or couples quarrel with each other all day long, not because they don't love, but because they love too much and care too much.

Because if you care about a person in your heart, you will care about her attitude towards yourself and how much she cares about herself. is also because I care about a person, so I always hope that he will do things more properly and be a better person. And because I care about a person, I can't help but pay attention to him all the time, pay attention to his words and deeds, and pay attention to all the people and things that are closely related to him.

In such a close and caring situation, once the other party does not meet their psychological expectations, or thinks that the things related to them touch the bottom line that they can accept and recognize, they will produce these emotions such as sadness, disappointment, anger, injustice, or complaining.

When two people get along, in fact, they use their own ways of thinking and behavior to talk to another person, and ambiguity is inevitable.

In addition to the big problems within the legal category and moral standards, between lovers or husband and wife, not to mention whether there is a standard for defining right and wrong in those trivial things, even if there is an established standard, when you are too entangled in the right and wrong of a thing, it has already discounted the feelings.

Love sometimes makes people become cautious, sometimes it makes people tendons, and sometimes it is like seeing flowers in the fog, and you can't distinguish each other's thoughts, when your ta behaves politely and wisely in front of outsiders, but it is hypocritical and more true in front of the person you love, this is the result of the force of love.

All these love to calculate, don't know how to be flexible, and stupidly want to get to the bottom of it, in fact, it is a manifestation of loving someone.

The truth between lovers is not only to compete with each other, but also to compete with themselves, and to compete so that both parties are physically and mentally exhausted, and even scarred.

Two people should sit down and talk about it, love is originally two people running in with each other, you are in the run-in period, at this time both people should reflect on their own problems, give each other a good solution, and break the disagreement between you.

It's more important to really like it, the objective conditions are secondary, it's best to be able to communicate well, everyone has flaws, don't think that others will dislike you because of this, people are very tolerant of things they really like, for example, you like to play games, you can starve all night, you don't like every minute is torment, and feelings need to be accommodated by both parties.

If two people are tormenting each other in their relationship, then why should they still be together, so that both people are hurt, and both people are living very hard and uncomfortable. It's better to separate early and make your life easier.

The original intention of two people together is to become a better version of themselves and have a better life.

But you've reached the point where you're tormenting each other, can you live more comfortably?

Tormenting each other, either not loving or not loving enough. If he loves you enough, he will try to be considerate of you, and if you love him enough, he will try to fulfill him.

In fact, you already have the answer, so why bother struggling in the swamp.

If two people are really unhappy together, it is advisable to separate as soon as possible, torturing each other will only hurt each other more, and it is also psychologically devastating.

He drank very happily and sang to the beat. The song sang: "The cinnamon boat and the pandan oars hit the clear waves in the moonlight, and went up the river on the moonlit water."

My thoughts are far away, looking at the wise monarch, but on the other side of the heavens. "There are guests who can blow the flute, accompanied by the rhythm of the song, and the voice of the flute whimpers: like a grievance and a longing, like a sobbing and like a confession, the aftermath echoes on the river, like a filament.

It can make the dragon in the deep valley dance, and it can make the widow on the lonely boat cry for it. A few colorful Wei waits for bandits.

It's up to the two of you to see me.,If you feel like you still want to be together, then be together.,If it's really not a good flower, forget it.。

Summary. Two people tormenting each other are not love, but an unhealthy relationship. Love should be based on mutual respect, understanding and support, not on mutual hurt and torment.

Two people tormenting each other are not love, but an unhealthy relationship. Imitation love should be based on mutual respect, understanding and support, rather than on the basis of mutual harm and torture.

Can you elaborate on that a little bit more?

In a healthy relationship, both parties should respect each other, care for and support each other's growth and development. In a tormenting relationship, both parties may attack each other, criticize, ridicule, control and manipulate each other, which will lead to damage to both parties' physical and mental health, and will also have a negative impact on their relationship.