Love I suddenly feel like I don t love my boyfriend anymore

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This is estimated that your mind is more mature than him So you worry about everything It may be that you have developed a habit From the time you started to be together, you were talking about what you commanded He just did it But I think the things you said are not big It should be nothing The two of you are together There is always one to worry about a little more Ah It's not that I don't like it I just feel tired There's something uncomfortable in my heart You talk to him well The two of you communicate well Take your time You teach him slowly When he matures a little bit I guess it's fine After all, I'm still studying, and I don't have much to worry about, so you can have a good chat with him...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, you can think about it completely on the other hand, you don't realize that he has always listened to you, respected your opinions, and liked whatever you liked? Maybe he was afraid that you wouldn't like what he proposed, so he let you choose? Love is two people who love each other together, not a habit, nor a gratitude, but care, love, cherish, two lovers to communicate together is a must!

    If you hold back everything in your heart, how can he know what you think and make changes? If you don't say it, and in the end he says that he doesn't understand you, it will become an excuse, love is for two people to maintain! Think about how to tell him what you think!

    Ask him what he's going to do! Good communication! Women should not be too strong at home, otherwise it is themselves who are tired!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Boys may not be very good at taking care of people, there are very few people who are particularly good at taking care of people, and they may not know how many girlfriends they have talked about, try to find a little bit of him, and cherish it when he meets the right person, and slowly he will mature.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I just hope to be harnessed and let him not like you so much! It's normal for women to be years more mature than men! And doesn't it feel good to take care of each other, maybe you are tired, just rest, one day you will understand how precious it is to find someone who really loves you and loves you!

    Especially if this person is about the same age as you, he can accompany you with gray hair!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is his problem, it is that he loves you too much, and he is afraid that doing something wrong will make you angry, so you have to agree with some of his practices at a certain time, so that he will slowly try to take the initiative.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, this is normal, every couple of men and women in love will have a period of numbness, not to mention love, as if he has not been there, and it will pass. Do not worry.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't like it, I don't love it, it's a long-term emotional drain, not a sudden feeling. Sudden dislike is often due to arrogance, disapproval and disgust for some of his behaviors, or an emotion that has been disgusted for a long time, and the relationship between two people is at a low point.

    At this time, don't make impulsive decisions, the most important thing to do is to calm down, give each other a buffer and time to think, or put a distance in life, focus on study and work, so that you can really see yourself and each other, and recognize the emotional direction in your heart. But it is also necessary to do one thing, when the relationship between two people is at its lowest, what they are most afraid of is the cold war, if it takes a long time, the more the emotion will fade, and it will really disappear from each other's hearts, so everything needs to be tolerated. Of course, if you really don't like it anymore, let it go when it's time to let go and give each other freedom.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Why do you suddenly feel like you don't love your boyfriend anymore? Because he's not good enough. The other is that after staying together for a long time, I also feel very annoying.

    He's not good to you either, you still have a new boyfriend, that's why you don't like him. I like the new and hate the old. So suddenly I don't love your boyfriend, and that's why you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1.When you are dissatisfied with your boyfriend, it will be easy to plan for your boyfriend, especially if you have repeated the words that you have reminded him many times, but the other party did not listen to it at all, but resisted your words more and more, at this time, you will wonder if the other party did not take what you said seriously at all, and deliberately did not listen to you. 2.

    Your own mood swings affect women There are always a few days a month when your mood is not very good, during this time, your own mood is not very good, no matter what your boyfriend does or nothing during this time, I think it will provoke you, but the reason for your bad mood is actually just your own mood swings. 3.We are dissatisfied with our own state, and we often vent our dissatisfaction with ourselves on the people around us who are good to you.

    Questions. Is it normal to hate your boyfriend so much for no reason?

    Boyfriend talking I think very inkblot, what's going on?

    Normal. I also insisted on disgusting my girlfriend.

    Often. But human feelings have to be run-in.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm tired of my boyfriend, I'm annoyed, I don't want to go on with him, he disappoints you, and I don't love him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe I'm tired of it, but after a long time, I found some shortcomings in my boyfriend's body, which is not as beautiful as I imagined, and I don't have the freshness I had at the beginning, and I feel that I am not the person I idealized.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Generally speaking, this is a normal phenomenon for you, almost all lovers will have this similar problem, a mature relationship must go through four stages, that is: coexistence, anti-dependence, independence, coexistence. The time it takes to transition between stages is not necessarily and varies from person to person.

    Phase 1: Coexistence.

    This is a time of passionate love, and lovers always want to be tired of being together whenever and wherever they are.

    Phase 2: Anti-dependency.

    When the relationship is stable, at least one partner will want to have a little more time for themselves to do what they want, and then the other party will feel left out.

    The third stage: independence.

    The fourth stage: symbiosis.

    At this time, a new way of getting along has taken shape, and your (your) other person (she) has become your (your) closest person. Together, you support each other and create your own life together. Together, you will not be tied to each other, but you will grow with each other.

    However, most people don't make it through the second or third stage; And it is a pity to choose to break up all the way. Many things will be fine as long as you communicate well, don't play with personality, don't think too much and trust each other, like this.

    The second and third phases will be shortened. It is not easy to meet and fall in love with your loved one, so don't give up easily. The two get together because of fate, know each other because they have a heart, and they really have to cherish this blessing Don't say that breaking up is not for no reason, I hope to see the above four stages, it can really give you some inspiration and understanding and cherish the fate We will gradually become the people we love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    A woman's psychological age is already older than that of a man, and your emotion should be that the freshness of love has passed, and you give each other too little space, you should talk about it well, give each other more space to be alone, and live independently. Of course, if after a while you really confirm that you have no love for him, then....My girlfriend and I have been in a long-distance relationship for seven years, and I gradually understand that love is slowly dissolving, integrating into the body, into consciousness, into thinking and into life, and we can't feel love between us, but we still work hard for our future, because we know that we are everything to each other, and our love can't be felt, but it is real.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    At the beginning, the two fell in love too intensely and emotionally. After waiting for a long time, plus sometimes there are small conflicts between the two. There will be this feeling of love becoming "light".

    I think the two of them can give each other the appropriate space and calm down a little. Sometimes you can do something that touches the other person. There is also the need to think more about the good of the other party. It might be better that way.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The disappearance of love often requires a process, and generally does not disappear suddenly, just as falling in love with someone actually requires a process, and most of the love at first sight is often just a matter of lust, after all, you just see the other person's appearance, so naturally you are only attracted because of the other party's appearance.

    There is a distinction between love and non-love, and generally it is not from love directly to not love, but the degree of love has deepened or become shallow.

    is similar to a girl, when she first got together with her other half, she was gentle and considerate and understanding, so her boyfriend was also very good to her and loved her. And after being together for a long time, she began to slowly "behave", often having a little temper, being unreasonable, and so on.

    And when she first started, her boyfriend was still very tolerant of her, and she could also feel loved when her boyfriend tolerated her willfulness again and again. But maybe one day, when I am willful again, my boyfriend does not come to coax him, but chooses to stay away and break up, and it may be difficult for me to accept, why he loved me so much before, but now he suddenly doesn't love me.

    In fact, no boy would like a girl's willful, vexatious behavior. Maybe boys will tolerate and accommodate girls when they are willful, but they don't like girls' behavior, but just because they love girls, they are willing to tolerate. But every time it is inclusive, it is really consuming the love of boys for girls, and when this love is consumed, the man will no longer choose to tolerate, because he has no love in his heart.

    So in the eyes of girls, boys' hobbies seem to have disappeared suddenly, but in fact, when there is a problem with each other's relationship, love has been slowly decreasing, but they haven't discovered and paid attention to it. When the other party's love is exhausted, I realize that the other party's love has disappeared, so the other party's love is not suddenly gone, the other party's love is constantly consumed, but I didn't find it early.

    Love can arise between two people or disappear between two people, but in general, love does not disappear suddenly, but only slowly decreases. Therefore, the relationship needs to be managed and maintained, and how well you get along at the moment largely determines how long you can be together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is a very normal process, you have to learn to adapt, the occurrence and disappearance of every relationship is very sudden, when you think that the other party will tolerate you, in fact, your relationship has quietly disappeared, and some are just complaining and bored.

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