My boyfriend suddenly doesn t love me anymore, what will I do after 4 months

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
45 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hello! I think he must have been genuinely committed when he chose to be with you, and now it may not be that he no longer loves you, it may be that love is lost, or it may be other reasons. But sometimes, it's not so important to seek an explanation of the problem, it's more important to accept the reality and accept the outcome of the problem.

    If you have made efforts to redeem it, and the other party is still determined to break up, then it may be wiser to respect his decision and better for him and himself, after all, the relationship is irreluctant.

    It is natural to be heartbroken to give up the feelings that you once put your heart into, but believe me, you will definitely get out of the pain you are now, as long as you are willing. In fact, each of us has tremendous energy to deal with all kinds of crises, as long as we have faith and hope. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't deny your sadness, all the negative emotions, give it some time, give it an outlet, and it will leave quietly.

    During this time, you can ask your parents and friends for some warmth and help, which will make you feel less empty and allow yourself to better divert your attention. As long as you can strengthen your faith and try to make the most of your life, you will get through it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I wonder if he really doesn't love me? "Don't think about it anymore, don't be so painful, face the future positively, show the best side to yourself and show him, he will regret it! Drop everything and fly!

    Don't be nostalgic anymore! If he really loves you, he won't give you so much pain!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Try to give up! Pain for a lifetime is better than pain for a while!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Alas, men are like this, as soon as the freshness passes, it fades.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's all divided, and it's hard to be reluctant.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If a man changes his mind, it is difficult to make him change, I believe you will find a more suitable one for you! Time will fade everything!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, re-examine the relationship between two people to see if there is a need to continue, dislike your boyfriend is likely to be just a temporary illusion, in fact, it's just that you're tired of this relationship for a long time.

    One: Re-examine the relationship between two people.

    It's very likely that disliking your boyfriend is just a temporary delusion, but in fact, it's just that I've been tired of this relationship for a long time.

    2. Communicate in a timely manner.

    Three: Reflect on yourself.

    Synthesize the relationship between two people, reflect on their own problems, and give each other another chance to continue to maintain this relationship. Interactions between men and women are hard-won, and don't end them hastily because you're tired of them.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    How long have you been with your boyfriend, if you have been in love for too long, it will dilute your feelings and turn love into family affection, and then you think about whether you like him, if you don't like him, you will break up, don't waste everyone's time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you suddenly don't like your boyfriend, then there should be a reason. If you say that you are willing to change, then continue, and if you are not willing to change, then you will propose to break up with him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This shows that your novelty for him has passed, if you really love him, you try to change your mind, if you don't love her anymore, leave this boy quickly, don't delay him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It may be that during the relationship, you find that your boyfriend is different from before you were together, and you find his shortcomings, but if you can run in, you can run in, but if you really don't like it, break up, don't wronged yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In a relationship, it is very likely that there will be a feeling of sudden dislike, and your boyfriend may also have such feelings, but it is still based on liking you, this is just a sudden careful calming down, and you still have feelings.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you suddenly don't like your boyfriend, it may be because the two of you see each other often, and then you have a serious boredom and no novelty, and you should communicate more at this time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you suddenly don't like it, you have to make it clear to him, don't let your boyfriend continue to misunderstand, you still like him. lest he fall deeper and deeper, and in the end he will be hurt even more.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you don't like it suddenly, you can find a time to tell her, anyway, if it drags on, the result will be the same, it's better to end it early, give him a good time, and give yourself a good time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can recall more of his kindness to you, or more pregnancy, your beautiful experience together, so that it will be much better, if it still doesn't work, it is recommended to make it clear with him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think this may be the emotional burnout period, don't be impulsive, let yourself calm down for a few days to confirm whether you are in love or too tired in love. Let your heart relax.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There must be a reason for it, and it is impossible to say that it suddenly happened without any reason. Communicate with him well, and if you feel that you can't solve it, then you can consider breaking up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I suggest that you be direct, I will make it clear to him, don't always be like that, keep paying, stop loss when it's time to stop loss, don't hurt others, and don't hurt yourself.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Suddenly I don't like your boyfriend, maybe the liking at the time was just a momentary impulse, and now he doesn't have any bright spots, so you won't like it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    What should I do if I suddenly don't like my boyfriend? The best way to do this is to calm down and think about it. Look for the cause. Is there still a reason for love between each other? If not, then break up.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    First of all, you have to distinguish whether you really don't like it, because something makes you angry and sad, or if you really don't feel disappointed.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's just that you don't feel like it anymore, and when love disappears, true love will emerge and life will eventually be dull.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you really don't like your boyfriend anymore, please tell your boyfriend so that he doesn't treat you so well anymore.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It is recommended to calm down, think carefully, think more about the other party's good, if it really doesn't work, calm down and have a good chat.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Suddenly I don't like it, maybe you tear his disguised mask, contact this kind of man, don't do it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I suggest that you don't need to break up temporarily. Instead, you should tell your boyfriend.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You should ask your boyfriend this question, you don't know why he is like this all of a sudden, you should ask him, if you think your boyfriend is because he doesn't love you anymore, then you can talk, if you think your boyfriend is because you are pregnant, so he doesn't love you, then you can consider whether you want this child, because your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, he won't care about your life or death, he doesn't want to marry you, then he definitely doesn't love you, don't want this child, you can think about it yourself.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The disappearance of love often requires a process, and generally does not disappear suddenly, just as falling in love with someone actually requires a process, and most of the love at first sight is often just a matter of lust, after all, you just see the other person's appearance, so naturally you are only attracted because of the other party's appearance.

    There is a distinction between love and non-love, and generally it is not from love directly to not love, but the degree of love has deepened or become shallow.

    is similar to a girl, when she first got together with her other half, she was gentle and considerate and understanding, so her boyfriend was also very good to her and loved her. And after being together for a long time, she began to slowly "behave", often having a little temper, being unreasonable, and so on.

    And when she first started, her boyfriend was still very tolerant of her, and she could also feel loved when her boyfriend tolerated her willfulness again and again. But maybe one day, when I am willful again, my boyfriend does not come to coax him, but chooses to stay away and break up, and it may be difficult for me to accept, why he loved me so much before, but now he suddenly doesn't love me.

    In fact, no boy would like a girl's willful, vexatious behavior. Maybe boys will tolerate and accommodate girls when they are willful, but they don't like girls' behavior, but just because they love girls, they are willing to tolerate. But every time it is inclusive, it is really consuming the love of boys for girls, and when this love is consumed, the man will no longer choose to tolerate, because he has no love in his heart.

    So in the eyes of girls, boys' hobbies seem to have disappeared suddenly, but in fact, when there is a problem with each other's relationship, love has been slowly decreasing, but they haven't discovered and paid attention to it. When the other party's love is exhausted, I realize that the other party's love has disappeared, so the other party's love is not suddenly gone, the other party's love is constantly consumed, but I didn't find it early.

    Love can arise between two people or disappear between two people, but in general, love does not disappear suddenly, but only slowly decreases. Therefore, the relationship needs to be managed and maintained, and how well you get along at the moment largely determines how long you can be together.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Hello, your boyfriend suddenly doesn't love you for a while, there are several reasons, one is that he likes someone else, and the other is that he is not satisfied with some of your parts.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Why does your boyfriend suddenly stop loving you? Yes, perhaps, he was out there and saw a better woman than you, so he didn't love you anymore.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Your boyfriend suddenly doesn't love you anymore, what should you do, accept the reality and find a boyfriend you like.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In a relationship, if one party is often needed to coax him, he will feel bored after a long time. Maybe he just feels tired and wants to take a break, and he won't say that he doesn't love the worm Yu You also give him some personal space to calm down.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    There is never anything that you don't love suddenly, and the emptiness may be accumulated for a long time and you don't feel emptiness. When a man and a woman fall in love at the beginning, they often come together because of the mutual attraction of two people, but if the two really start to get along after establishing a love relationship, what they need after that is to cherish each other and respect each other.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    First of all, you have to communicate with your boyfriend about what problems have arisen between the two of you, and you must trust each other quietly and quickly, so as to better solve your own problems.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think this little boy, well, he has always wanted to go home, is he not at home may encounter some things, I don't think he doesn't love you, but he can meet some things recently and seems to be a little busy, but his real heart, or like you, from him to pull you to joke with you, because only people who love you will joke with you, I love you The people of the stall banquet are really too lazy to joke with you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If your boyfriend has been hot and cold to you these days, maybe he is busy with something, maybe he doesn't like you so much, but you don't have to think too much about not loving or not loving.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I can tell you for sure that he must have no love for you at that time, and he was very aware of the struggle in his heart, and he could suddenly say the words "break up", which shows that he has long wanted to break up in his heart, but there are still some reluctances, so he dragged it like this. Girl, go directly to him for a showdown and be frank, see what he wants to do, if it is not good, then you will directly propose to break up, so as not to make both parties suffer.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It shouldn't be, they all say that the man has tears and doesn't flick, he can cry for you, proving your importance in his heart, he doesn't have the same concern for you as before recently, maybe it's because there is something in his heart, two people care about each other together, your boyfriend is suddenly like this, it is estimated that there is something on his mind, you should close your pants more and worry about his friend.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    There are still some problems between you that you don't know about, and he doesn't want to talk about it. It may be a very serious real problem. And judging from your boyfriend's behavior, he doesn't want to be separated from you, and it's because Duan Que is entangled in that problem that he deliberately colds you.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Your boyfriend is crying for you, which means that he still loves you, but he doesn't know how to make you happy, not that you are willing to call you.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You can observe through his words and deeds and recent attitude towards you, you will understand, if you don't want to ask him directly, then through these things, including WeChat's **, I don't like to contact you, then it is obvious that he is not interested in you.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I don't think there is some Xiangyan misunderstanding between you and you don't communicate well, or your boyfriend usually has a lot of work pressure but doesn't confide, which leads to a brother's banquet between you, so take a little time to sit down and talk about your heart.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Your boyfriend should have encountered something, your relationship should have gone wrong, but the problem should be with him, he may really want to break up with you, you can just bury it and don't meet him to let him think about it, and then have a good chat with him.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    You're too sensitive, and he doesn't love you. Guess he's done a great job with you. When he is angry, he will coax you.

    When you're leaving, he'll pull you. And he'll make you breakfast as usual. When you go home, it will also ask you about the electricity.

    Isn't this the type of love for you?

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