I always like to speak ill of others after being subjected, how can I improve it?

Sit quietly and think about your own mistakes, and don't talk about others.

Don't talk about people during the day, and don't talk about ghosts at night.

You know your own problems clearly, so why bother asking these people?

I think you can be yourself.

Pay more attention to the good of others, don't care about other people's mistakes and shortcomings, and then control your own mouth.

Don't complain too much

Since you know that you have such bad habits!! It's sad, it's sad that I don't know how to solve it!!

Don't judge someone unless you're perfect! It is recommended that you go to watch "Caigen Tan".

You'd better get into trouble once, then you'll know next time it's not good to say bad things about people behind your back.

Be considerate of other people's feelings and positions.

To be honest, you are too "selfish" to forgive me for being too heavy.

I have suffered from being spoken ill of behind my back.

This kind of behavior is very despicable, and I hope you will change it as soon as possible.

When you suffer a big loss, it will automatically improve.

Sometimes it's important to put yourself in someone else's shoes.

Before the matter is confirmed.

Don't judge.

Don't talk nonsense

Sit quietly and think about your own mistakes, and don't talk about others.

Everybody has had a time like this.

I used to be like that in college.

But when you enter society, you will naturally not be so reckless.

Beware of being beaten.

To be kind to others is to be kind to yourself.

Andy Lau has a song called Chang Yandao, have you heard it? I think the lyrics are very well written, so I suggest you read it:

As the saying goes, the struggle clenched its fists.

If you let go of your fist, you can hug you.

Silence and peace of mind, smile left and right.

The future is in your hands, do you find it?

As the saying goes, if you break through less, you will inevitably go against the current.

Man is as weak as water, but he can carry a boat.

Fate will deliberately train you.

But hard work is your best old friend.

Gains and losses are only one thought, and the scenery does not change, and the mood changes.

Afflictions come from paranoia, and everything is also attached.

The wind and grass are moving, and my fate is chaotic, and I am not chaotic.

I handed over my normal heart and then followed the fate.

Everything has a providence and we have hands.

It's enough to come and go, just take a look.

Feel at ease and leave the past behind.

Inaction is the highest Have you ever heard of it?

Feel at ease and leave the past behind.

Dawn after the clouds Just take a look.

Restrain yourself and remind yourself at all times.

Calmly analyze the reasons.

If we encounter a situation where others say bad things about us behind our backs, we should not react too violently, but first analyze the reasons to see if we have offended this person before, or if our performance is too eye-catching and jealous, and then get along with each other.

Coping with a normal state of mind.

In the face of being framed by others, we should deal with others saying bad things behind our backs, not too sensitive, but should respond rationally and be generous, which will make some rumors become unmarketable, and the more intense the reaction, the more unfavorable.

Don't hold yourself back.

If someone says something nasty about us behind our backs, or spreads some gossip about us, we should try to restrain ourselves, but we should not sit idly by, and if the other person goes too far, we must also refute it.

Can't afford to hide.

Another point is that if we really had a holiday with this person before, the so-called grievances should not be settled, so if we don't want to further intensify the conflict with him, then we can choose to stay away from them and try not to deal with them.

Stand up to criticism.

If the other party has bad intentions, we should not be like them, as long as we do our best, I believe that the eyes of the masses are clear, and we will not be affected by the temporary criticism of the villain, and good people will have their own good rewards.

Don't tolerate it unprincipledly.

If others are too ruthless in doing things, or they make a lot of trouble out of nothing, and often talk about people behind their backs, we should stop this kind of behavior in time, not encourage their atmosphere, and cannot tolerate their practices.

Fight back at the right time.

If the other party has bad intentions, we should take countermeasures in time, whether it is a tooth for a tooth, or a proper counterattack, in short, we can't let the other party be too arrogant.

First of all, you should do more self-reflection to see if it is your own personality ** that is wrong with others, and the second thing is not to care too much about what others think.

If this situation can be explained, try to explain it, forget it if you can't, as long as it doesn't affect your normal life, don't worry about it, after all, not everyone likes you, it's inevitable that some people think you're not good, just ignore it.

We don't have to worry about others saying bad things about themselves, because bad words don't have much impact on themselves, as long as they do the right thing, their bad words can only be "gossip".

Hello, as the saying goes, those who are clean are self-purifying, and those who are turbid are self-turbid, if you are doing it right and doing it properly, then you are naturally not afraid of others saying bad things.

Those who are clear are self-purifying, and they don't need to pay attention.