Why do you always feel single when you feel so good about yourself?

In fact, I think that sometimes we are single not because we can't find a partner, but we like to enjoy life freely and freely, we feel good about ourselves, but also because we feel that our life is not worse than others, but we have a different survival and lifestyle with others, and sometimes being single is also a choice, so we will also respect this choice of others.

Because I am single, I feel good about myself.

Because it's ugly. I've never felt good about myself because I'm not good enough, I just know what I want and I know my strengths and weaknesses.

I used to call me beautiful everywhere I went, but later I found out that beauty is actually a unified name for all women.

Dating depends on the right person, not just wanting to be able to socialize.

When my parents are gone, I probably have nothing to be nostalgic about.

It just feels so good that I don't need to be taken care of.

I can't blame myself for feeling so good because humans feel good about themselves, and they are narcissistic by nature, and I can't blame them. As for why you've been single? Either the taste is too niche, or the requirements are too high, in short, the gap between their own strength and their own pursuit is too large.

Like me, the figure is average, and the personality often shows a female man, and the thoughts are more profound than the vicissitudes of life of boys of the same age, and he doesn't need a man at all to do things (but in fact, it's obviously impossible not to need it, I can't move more than 30 pounds, okay!) It's just wishful thinking to find a warm man who is a scholar of Dink literature and art!

Let's analyze them one by one, and of course we have to talk about Dink. Alas, this has negated the vast majority of men in the world, unless I go to play a hooligan to fall in love with each other and finally don't get married, or I am played by the other party to fall in love and finally don't get married, otherwise I can only find a partner in the small little Dink group, and Dink people are usually quite individual, and it is more difficult to find the right one.

Regarding literature and art, although I don't ask others to be the kind of great talents with poetry and songs, I only ask for the literary and artistic hypocrisy that can accept and tolerate me, and be able to exchange books and movies together. But there are relatively few people in literature and art in this world, because literature and art are too unreal, everyone has to move bricks! And the kind of person who is qualified for literature and art, I can't reach it.

Needless to say, what kind of scholar am I looking for as a super scumbag, do I want to be crushed? About warm men, not to mention the blind pursuit of warm men is easy to meet ** air conditioning, the kind of people who know how to warm and specialize in one-on-one personal warmth, rare animals are good? It's hard to find, and it's unlikely that such a person will be single for a long time, so it is estimated that it will not be my turn Alas

I'm still very self-aware, and I know the cruelty of reality very well. However, ......

It's because I feel good about myself that I become quite narcissistic. I feel that no one is worthy of such an excellent self, I can only see the shortcomings of others but not the advantages of others, and I can only see my own advantages and not my own shortcomings.

So I missed it again and again, and until now I have been a single dog, with eyes that seem to grow on the top of my head, and I don't eat fireworks in the world, but I can only see the fairies and professors in the sky.

In fact, some people like this should really take their eyes off the top of their heads and look straight ahead, good boys and good girls have, and the most important thing is to face up to their own shortcomings and correct their shortcomings. You may think you're good, but you're just the same in the eyes of others.

People must learn to be humble, even if they think they are good, they must disguise themselves appropriately, and don't show it so obviously, so that others think that you are very out of place with them.

As the saying goes, a good person must be self-aware, see his own shortcomings, and give full play to his strengths, in order to be a shining self in the crowd, in order to attract the opposite sex who likes him, and complete his life's events. So keep a low profile, and love will come naturally.

I want to feel better about myself!

This year of being single, there is a feeling of being reborn!

In the past, I liked to play mobile games and watch TV dramas after work.

When I have a holiday, I get together with friends to eat, drink and play.

And this year, I took a writing course and ran every day!

I read dozens of books and listened to other courses.

The biggest harvest is inner fullness and happiness!

Have a clearer sense of direction in life, and you will no longer suffer from gains and losses.

For time, the most precious asset of life, there is no time to waste.

In the past, I always felt that time passed so slowly, and I didn't care about time.

Now, on the contrary, I often feel that I don't have enough time.

There's always an hourglass in my head, constantly counting my time. <> also try to use it more efficiently and have a clearer understanding of themselves.

It's a matter of time before you end being single, but because you know what you want, it's not so easy to end singleness!

For example, I now run after work, read and write after running.

For me like this, how many girls are willing to accept my lifestyle?

I don't have time to go shopping with each other, and I don't have time to hang out.

It's not so much that I don't have time, it's worse that I feel like it's a waste of time to do all these things.

Those who are suitable for themselves can only find the same person! <>

Such like-mindedness and the opposite sex are obviously not so easy to find.

After being born in society, there are not many people who still like to study and exercise, whether it is a boy or a girl.

And these habits now will be my way of life for the rest of my life.

Well, I can only wait for the person who has the same lifestyle as me!

In the process, my self-feeling will continue to increase, which means that my sense of self-happiness will also increase!

But such a single, worth it!

Be the best version of yourself.

As the saying goes, when a man gets married, a woman gets married, and when we grow up, we have to fall in love, get married, and build our own family. But some people will grow up to be single for some reason, and these people will feel anxious if they are still simple and physical when they are older. But I don't feel that way......The reason why I have this is because I think that love and marriage depend on fate and cannot be forced, the life of self-amusing pants in a single state has not been affected, and now that people are getting older and older, they don't have to worry about these three reasons.

1. Love and marriage depend on fate, which cannot be forced.

Falling in love and getting married is not a casual thing, you need to be with someone who is really suitable for you. If you don't meet the right person for you, you can't fall in love and you can't get married. ......Therefore, falling in love and getting married depends on fate, which is something that cannot be forced, and everything should go naturally.

Therefore, even if you are older, you don't need to feel anxious if you are still single.

2. My life has not been affected by anything in the single state, so I am not anxious.

Although he was single when he was older, his life was not affected by this. ......In the state of being single, I can arrange my food, clothing, housing and daily life well, and I can also have intimate interactions with my relatives and friends, everything is in a normal state, so although I am single, I do not feel anxious.

3. Nowadays, people are getting married at a higher age, and they don't have to worry.

Nowadays people pay more attention to the quality of life, but also pay more attention to career development. Therefore, people are getting older and older at the age of falling in love and getting married, and it is very common to fall in love and get married after the age of 30. ......Because of this, although I am still single at an older age, I am not anxious because of this, let alone anxious.

Marriage and love are like a siege for many people, especially for many middle-aged people, when they have experienced the baptism of marriage, especially after the test of the seven-year itch, some middle-aged people often feel that it is good when they are single, so that they will not let themselves be bound by marriage, in fact, I have not felt like this.

Although it is said that in the days when two people are together, especially when two people have cultivated a positive result in love, and finally become husband and wife, it is a very happy thing, but when two people get married and form a family, they end their single life and face not only happiness and joy, but also face the relatively boring life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day, and at the same time, the longer two people get along, the relationship will become weaker and weaker, and they will understand each other and say comprehensively, especially for each other's shortcomings, it is more in-depth, so in this process, the relationship between the two people will naturally be affected to a certain extent, and they will often let themselves have a sense of loss and nostalgia for the days when they were single.

When the relationship between the husband and wife is not harmonious, there are a lot of estrangements and contradictions in the marriage, and in the case of frequent quarrels for this, I will be more emotional or single is good, more nostalgic for the days when I was single, but no matter what, life still needs to continue, I should still try my best to be a responsible man, therefore, this kind of thinking is just a moment of staying in the heart of a certain spine, more often I still have to find a way to eliminate contradictions with my lover and solve the problem, After all, life needs to go on.

3 hours ago.

At some point, you feel like it's good to be single.

As a single, I feel good about being single now.

A few days ago, I was chatting with a friend, he said that he wanted to fall in love with Mushan, I said what is good about being in love, he said he wanted to get married.

Maybe I still don't understand the thoughts of those who want to get married, because I want to enjoy my time alone.

Not wanting to be in love right now is usually for several reasons, or many times in life.

The first one, when I am single, I only need to think about myself, but when I am in love, I have to consider two people, and now I don't want to be in love at the same time, and sometimes I am busy, not only to think about work, but also to consider some part-time jobs and hobbies outside of work, in fact, I find that there are many things I want to do, so I don't really want to be in love.

Second, I sometimes feel that I still have enough room to grow, so why wait, let myself grow a little longer, and wait until I am almost ready, and then I am ready to fall in love and get married.

The third, maybe I haven't met the girl I really want to chase, in fact, sometimes I think about not only falling in love, chasing a girl is very annoying, you have to take the initiative to talk every day, say hello, take the initiative to ask someone, and the possibility of being rejected, although these are all ideas, but when you think about these, I feel a little tired, this is not in love.

Fourth, the current work is more inclined to freelance workers, every day while doing their own work, but also to run around, if it has been poor to take a position, a place is better, if you go around, if you are in love, you will definitely not be able to go around, and I myself still prefer to travel, now I prefer to walk around alone.

Having said that, there are so many reasons why you don't want to be in love, in fact, you just don't want to fall in love or haven't met someone who wants to be in love.

Sometimes, even if we think we are good, there is no guarantee that everyone will like it. People have different criteria, preferences, and values for liking or attracting someone. Here are some of the reasons that can cause this::

Try to expand your social circle and participate in some hobby groups or activities to increase your chances of meeting new people.

2.Not showing yourself in a way that makes you too conservative or doesn't take the initiative to communicate with others, it may be difficult for people to spot your strengths and charms. Try to express yourself more positively, show your interests and personality traits to make it easier for others to get to know you.

3.Lack of self-confidence: A lack of self-confidence may affect your interaction and attractiveness with others. Working hard to develop self-confidence and develop a positive attitude and optimism will make you more attractive.

4.Personal Preferences and Attractiveness: Everyone's criteria and preferences for attractiveness are different. Even if you feel like you're good, but don't align with some people's values, personality, or interests, they may not be particularly interested in you.

Still, it's important that you stay authentic and positive about being yourself. Don't doubt your worth just because no one likes you, but keep showing your good qualities and looking for those who truly appreciate and appreciate you.

Because the circle stool is too small, you are very good, but other people in the outside world don't know or the jujube god doesn't think you have a need for friends, and don't know how to open a bridge of communication with you. After a long time, everyone will think that you are demanding, and you will be single for a long time.

It's because your personality is more introverted and pure to fight to the clan, you don't like to communicate with the opposite sex, or you may have too high a vision, you can't look down on people who are generally annihilated, and it is not excluded that your opposite sex fate is relatively poor, and your fate is relatively late!