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is still single at such a big age, and the reason is nothing more than "too many problems".
You don't have to be so harsh on others, the older many women are, the more things they will consider, the more realistic they are, and if you have love, you have to have a big bread with cream.
Generally, they are very concerned about whether the man has a house, and it must be a house with full payment. In fact, I think that as long as you have a house, it is enough, and as for the loan, two people can repay it together, which is no problem.
I care about the other party's academic qualifications, I think if the other party is a nerd with a high degree of education, the romantic set will not. Would you be willing to follow him? Maybe you will dislike him again and be incomprehensible.
In fact, you really don't have to care too much about the level of education, there are a lot of wolves in sheep's clothing that make you feel very knowledgeable and reasonable, but it may not be as innocent as a child.
Then there is the fact that you must pay attention to dressing yourself, and you can't let ** get old and get out of shape because you are old. That's not advisable, because women do age quickly, and men in their 30s still look young.
In the end, don't take a fancy to all the conditions outside, and find fault with no feeling, then I can only say that there are really too many problems, and you deserve to be left, and you can't live by yourself.
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One is to correct the mentality, find a suitable one, and don't be too demanding in appearance and heart.
When I meet several big sisters around, my own conditions are good, so I naturally ask each other for better conditions.
However, women have less pressure in the workplace, fewer aspects of promotion, and are more likely to be refined and successful. Men have more opportunities and pressure, and competition is also the instinct of men, so they have to be slower than women when it comes to making achievements.
So it takes time to wait for the male development to be better. But many sisters are unwilling to wait, hoping to get the result directly, and the requirements are high, so naturally there is no suitable one, and it is left.
In this way, you can only let the sisters lower their requirements first, and persevere if you have a correct attitude and are optimistic about the suitability.
Another category is to be yourself, don't be influenced by others, life is your own life, no one can dominate you.
This kind of sisters are not assertive, and whoever says that the marriage is not good feels that they can't marry. But no one is you, and they can't give you happiness, happiness is given to you by yourself. We can only be happy when we work together.
So be yourself, be assertive, and face life positively, and there will be no left.
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Considering the problem first of all, you must first be macroscopic, whether you get married or not will not affect the process of human society, and it will not accelerate the demise of mankind, so this marriage knot is okay, and it is okay not to get married.
From a personal point of view, you want to find someone to take care of you, love you, and love you, or maybe the person you are looking for will one day become a burden to you. Instead of improving your quality of life and happiness, it has decreased.
As for the issue of having children, most of the children of Chinese are still for the sake of retirement, but children can either honor their parents or cannot honor their parents, so the probability of having children will be happy in their later years is only 50%, because some children may also face weakness, early death, and untimely death.
To sum up, older young women, still have to find a suitable soul mate, or on the basis of two people have a good relationship before getting married, in that case, in the future, when you encounter wind and rain, you are also willing to endure hardships for this person, and you are willing. If you can't meet such a person, being single won't make you lose anything. After you have the confidence to be single, you will be more calm when choosing a man, you will be more accurate in looking at talents, and you will have the courage to give up those people who seem to be a good match on the surface, but are actually not suitable at all.
For example, some men are good-looking and have good jobs, but they are extremely selfish or have particularly unreasonable parents, such men are not suitable for marriage.
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Let's reflect on why you became an older leftover girl?
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It is undeniable that the process of most people getting rid of their singles is to find the most suitable person for them, so as to make themselves successful in getting rid of their singles. Specifically, one is to get rid of singles through free love, the other is to get rid of singles through the introduction of relatives and friends, and the third is to get rid of singles through blind dates and other ways.
First, we can find the most ideal partner in our minds through free love and singleness, which is the most ideal result. For those who pursue to get rid of singles, getting rid of singles through free love is the most ideal result. Free love is a way to find the most ideal partner in your mind, so as to find the most suitable person to partner with.
This state is the most ideal choice for people who want to get rid of singles, and they are the most satisfied and happy.
Second, it is a very safe way to get rid of orders through the introduction of relatives and friends. Many people get rid of singles through introductions from friends and family. Relatives and friends care about themselves the most, and they will choose the most suitable blind date for themselves according to the actual situation of their own self-indulgence, and introduce them to their relatives.
Since their choices are very targeted, the people they introduce themselves to are very suitable for themselves, which makes this way of getting off orders very secure.
Third, it is a very realistic choice to get rid of singles through blind dates and other methods. In real life, everyone knows a limited number of people. Therefore, for those who want to get rid of their singles, they may not be able to find a suitable partner for themselves.
At this time, participating in blind dates and other methods is the most realistic way to get rid of singles. At the blind date, you can meet more people of the same age and conditions, and the possibility of success will be greater. Therefore, this is a realistic choice for many people to get off the single.
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