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Because accepting fate is a very negative attitude, you have to face life positively, so that you can make life better and improve your situation. I remember a saying that is very true, if you work hard, you may not get results, but if you don't work hard, you can't achieve what you want. Resignation belongs to the latter without distinction, and the enterprising spirit will lose to your fateful mentality.
We advocate materialism, that is, material precedes thought and subjective initiative is exerted. With such an attitude towards life, your life will be very bad, and it is true.
One of my neighbors worked hard for many years when he was young and failed many times. So he doubted himself, felt that no matter what he was, he was a failure, and he didn't believe that he could succeed. So his life lost his direction and he became an alcoholic, drinking every day and going crazy.
His wife finally couldn't stand his behavior anymore and left him. After that, he gave up more and more, sold his house and went around eroding, feeling that his failure was arranged by God. I didn't know he was in ** now, and it felt like there was nowhere else to go but beggars and death.
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Accepting one's fate is tantamount to giving up the struggle, being content with the status quo, and living like the walking dead.
If you take this way of life as your own way of life and attitude, I think you are living and dying.
Because comfort is reserved for the dead, only by struggling to live can we feel happy, and by working hard to achieve success can we realize the meaning of life.
Life is very short, if you have always been in a state of resignation, it is better to dedicate your life to those who need it, a terminally ill person who loves life very much. Let them regain their life and work hard and live a serious life.
It's just about yourself, it's about the people around you. Like your lover, your children.
If you and your lover are like that, it's really pathetic. What's the point of living so sadly as a human being and having no purpose?
And this kind of thinking will also directly affect the child's values, so that the child is full of confusion about his future, and does not know whether he should work hard.
Because his parents are like this, he will also get used to it, and over time, this will also become his attitude towards life, and the impact can be described as very bad.
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Hello dear! You can refute it like this. I know that many people may say that accepting fate is too negative, too superstitious, and a negative attitude towards life, but in fact, you are very wrong to think so.
No matter how strong a person is, it is difficult to escape the arrangement of fate, and accepting fate is actually the attitude of life that everyone should have in our early spring. And in my opinion, not accepting fate is superstition, why? Because the so-called disobedience to fate is to think that everything in the world can be controlled by oneself, which is a delusion and a superstition about oneself.
What is one of the inherent characteristics of this world forest annihilation realm? There are many forces in the world that we cannot control or even the entire human race, and only Lu Zhengyou admits this is a materialistic attitude. Including us, each of us has our own boundaries of ability, and there are many things that you are born with, and you are destined to do not or cannot do.
Therefore, accepting fate is not a negative attitude towards life, but a kind of courage to dare to be calm and accept objective facts.
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People, you still have to accept your fate.
When I was a child, I remember arguing with my mother about whether I believed in hard work or fate.
My mother said that she believed in her life, and she was so firm in what she said at that time, that I had a little doubt in my heart when I insisted that hard work was more important.
As I grew up, I suddenly began to believe in my fate.
My life is that when I was a child, I suffered less hardships, I didn't save any wisdom for survival, and I didn't gain some courage to face difficulties, and I liked to run away when I encountered problems.
Emotionally, I still rely on an outsider to be responsible for myself, not independent enough, and have no ability to live.
When I was thirty-two years old, I suddenly realized that I had lacked something in my past life, so that I had enough of suffering in the past two years, and it was the kind of suffering that I couldn't explain.
For example, if I think that as long as I am good enough to others, others will be good to me, and as long as I am sincere enough to others, others will treat me with sincerity.
I must have too many fantasies about this world.
I've lived in my own world for too long.
It's been so long that I can't understand myself objectively, it turns out that I have so many places on my body that I can leave a handle, and I mistakenly think that others like me, and I try very hard to please them.
It's long enough to realize the sinister and methods of some people, who can manipulate people in the palm of their hands.
If you trust others too much, you are doomed to be deceived.
Without strength, in the eyes of some people, it is nothing. Despite your kindness, it seems like a cowardice.
In the past, I always didn't like myself, but I felt that everyone else liked me. Now that I have attained enlightenment, I feel that there is no need for others to like me, and it is easier to let myself like myself.
Tell the truth, tell it to those who understand.
Grievances must be spoken, even if they cannot be understood, they must strive for the opportunity to redress their grievances. I want to say my wish, and I forget it after burying it for a long time. There are some things, even if they are good friends, they can't say much, they are things that you need to face and solve independently.
Never give the villain a chance. Be wise.
Accumulate some principles of life and have your own opinions. Defend your position. Exercise your goodness correctly.
People still have to believe in fate, life can be understood, it is hidden in your past years. See if you have the will to crack it, and whether you dare to use a knife on yourself.
And then go and create the next life.
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Generally speaking, the fate of life is determined by two foundations, the first is the family, and the second is the capital base. Some people believe in fate, and they are vain in the face of opportunities, so they can achieve nothing; Some people do not believe in fate, and they may do nothing in their lives. Do you accept your fate?
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Look at the people in this society, all kinds of high and low levels. Especially the people at the bottom of society, do you think they can change? It can't be changed at all, why?
Because they don't have that life, their parents, their health, their wisdom, their fame, their talents, and everything they are born with are set.
Life is like 100 floors, and some people are born on the 30th or 50th floor. The starting point is higher than others, the key is that people are born 30 floors, but they have 50 floors of life. With a little effort, he could reach the height of the 50th floor in his lifetime.
And those poor people were born in the basement minus 1 floor, minus 2 floors, or even minus a dozen floors. Always live at the bottom of society.
The point is that their lives can only go to minus 1 floor minus 2 floors, or they can only go to the first floor. So no matter how hard they work in this life, they can only go to the first floor to see the outside world. It will never be possible to reach the 30th and 50th floors in this life, because they don't have that life.
So it can't be.
Life is like this, seven points of destiny, three points of hard work. A person with a seven-point destiny, just like the person who was born on the 30th floor before, but has a 50-level destiny, he can reach the 50th floor as long as he works hard for three points. And a person who does not have a seven-point destiny, no matter how hard he tries, it is in vain, just like a person who was born in the basement, but his life can only go to the first floor, no matter how hard he works in his life, he can only go to the first floor, and if he doesn't work hard, he will still be in the basement.
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Some things are opportunities or something.
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Summary. Hello, there are many opportunities in a person's life, whether you want to or not, it has been placed in front of you, whether you can grasp it or not, it is a matter of your own ability, and it has nothing to do with life. Life is equal, from the moment of conception, at least in the mother's womb.
Hello, why do people have to accept their fate.
Hello, there are many opportunities in a person's life, whether you want to or not, it has been placed in front of you, whether you can grasp it or not, it is a matter of your ability to repent of your body, and it has nothing to do with life. Life is equal, from the moment of conception, at least in the mother's womb. Why do we feel so far apart?
Life is also an opportunity. Some people don't have to do anything, and they don't have to worry about food and clothing all their lives, and some people are tired and tired and can only barely survive.
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