Knowing that it will be difficult to be together in love, why do you still insist on it?

In the days that are not so good, we must learn to find a reason to be happy for ourselves every day, even if the sun is just warm and the battery is full, just walking together for a while, why bother to make nostalgia longer than passing.

The heart is scattered in the wine, the stomach hurts when you drink, but no one takes the wine away and replaces it with hot water, you always like to stay up late until your eyes are red, but you still stay up late every day, you take your friends very seriously, but you seem to have no friends, you will listen to songs alone, think about what you have done, you have no one to accompany you, there is no good morning, the wind is strong, the weather is cold, it is time to go home.

A relationship, if you can't see the future, and you can't feel the present, then it's better to clear it as soon as possible, you are you and I am, I hope your feelings, no suspicion, don't worry, you can love yourself comfortably, and you will love goodbye appropriately.

Suddenly I was very flustered and said that I forgot to do something, he asked you something, you went to hug him, kissed him and said, this is the thing, the first time you meet after each small farewell, you have to have a strong hug, if you are in public, I want you to kiss my face, if there is no one, kiss the mouth.

At first, you won't be particularly familiar with the chat, talk until more than ten o'clock in the evening, the other party will send a message and don't reply, and reply the next morning, so that you can talk for another day, and take the initiative to pull his hand when waiting for the traffic light, grab his hand and get close to him when crossing the road, and when you get to the other side of the road, you can easily drive away, and he may catch it again.

Life can't be as good as you think, but it's not as bad as you think, I think people are more fragile and strong than I imagined, sometimes, I may be so fragile that I burst into tears with a word, and sometimes, I also find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way.

I understand the truth, but I still complain, I still scold, I still cry, after all, the discomfort in my heart is not something that can be relieved by the truth, I understand the truth, I just need a listener I trust who can comfort me, feel sorry for me, understand me, and can say to me when I have emotions, "Okay, come and hug."

It's really embarrassing at this age, not mature enough and not naïve enough, incapable but ambitious, how free and easy you pretend, how entangled your heart is, I can't fool myself, in fact, I still miss you very much.

After accompanying you through this section of the road, I will also become the road you have passed, from now on, the world will not be sad because of you, we will eventually learn to get along with ourselves.

The power of love is very strong, so that the person who is caught in it loses his mind, and only thinks about giving everything for love, even if he has nothing, he is willing, especially in the hot love period, many couples insist on being together without hesitation due to the opposition of their families. Some people even elope, just to stay with the person they love.

When I graduated from high school, my father introduced me to a blind date, because the family conditions were relatively good, and my father also wanted me to marry a good family with good family conditions. In his eyes, as a girl, I don't need to read too many books, because sooner or later I have to get married, and I am from someone else's family. He never wanted me to go to college, maybe he thought I couldn't get into college, so he was in a hurry to introduce me to someone.

At that time, my father didn't know that I had a boyfriend, so he insisted that I go on a blind date. I couldn't tell him, so I hid after I got off work and didn't go home.

When my father saw that I didn't come home, he came out to look for me, and it took a long time to find me, and I thought that according to his temper, he would scold me and even beat me. But he didn't, and I guess he was frightened, because I have always been more obedient and never disappear for no reason. In this way, my father did not force me to go on a blind date again.

Later, I was admitted to college, my mother and my brother and sister insisted that I go to college, and my father did not force me not to go to college, and then I was in a school with my current husband, after graduating from college, my family urged me to get married, we were very poor at that time, and their family was also very poor, but my husband was diligent and studious, and he was very practical and motivated, I believe that after we got married, we will be happy when we work together. <>

In this way, with the blessing of our family, we got married naked, and now through our efforts, we are also living very happily, I don't know if my father will think that it is not a wrong thing that he did not insist that I marry his friend's son at that time. After all, as a parent, who doesn't want their children to be happy?

And as both parties in love, knowing that we are together, with nothing, will work harder than others, only love that loves each other, and knows how to work hard and manage love will be happier.

Because it was that heart that persisted, I felt that I could be with him all the time.

How do you know if you don't want to be together, how do you know if you might break up? How will you know if he and you are the most suitable?

So knowing that it is difficult, you have to try and work hard. <>

Love will become more and more charming after the tempering of time, and it will be sweeter! Only love that has passed the test of time can withstand the tribulations in the future. It's a very difficult love, if you persist, it means that you are really destined to be a person, and a lover will eventually become a family!

Learn to work hard to persevere, maybe you will eventually defeat all kinds of hardships you face, time will eventually prove everything, and it will also tell you whether you are the most suitable pair, whether he can accompany you for a lifetime!

Only if you have experienced a difficult love, do you know that love is not easy to come by! Only then do I know how to cherish the people around me.

Difficult love is more worthy of being cherished than that kind of simple love, and love is the happiest, most touching, and most worthy of persistence.

Love to the depths of the can't extricate yourself, I just love someone and can't extricate myself, even if the two of them break up again, in the end they will still miss each other and cry, no matter how they can't really separate from him!

Don't make a fuss, I already know what's going on ...

First of all, it is necessary to understand that the longevity of love is not simply determined by whether it is suitable or not. There are many factors in love that can determine the longevity of love, love is sacred, it should be pure, suitable or not is just a factor in the long river of love, if you want to love for a long time based on this alone, I don't think it is enough. Love represents the sincerity of two individuals, on behalf of honesty, on behalf of meeting foam, but also on behalf of respect, and so on.

If you want to have a long-lasting love, it is not enough to rely on whether it is suitable or not, the emotional bond between each other is the most important, but it is precisely this feeling that is the most difficult to control, and it is the most important factor that is difficult to grasp. Whether it is suitable or not is only superficial, and the cultivation of feelings is the most important. Therefore, I think that cultivating feelings is the secret to long-lasting love.

You're only together as you feel fit, and there's no emotional foundation. So I think your understanding of each other is even more superficial, whether it is appropriate, it may just be that you think the conditions are suitable now, but whether the personality is suitable, whether the three views are consistent, whether the way you deal with things is consistent, whether the relationship between relatives is almost the same, whether the family can chat together, do you really want to be compatible with all of these? Maybe you think that as long as the two of you are together, you must know that after marriage, the two of you are fused together, once there is a discordant picture in a certain aspect, all of them will affect your relationship, not to mention that you have no emotional foundation.

Whether love will last long, there is no way to say whether it will be long or short, people are in a state of change, not to mention people's emotions.

Maybe you get to know each other further and find that the more places you are compatible, and then the two parties are seriously managing their feelings, the feelings are getting deeper and deeper, and the love lasts for a long time. But if you have more and more things that are out of tune, then you will question your original decision, and then it is not impossible that the relationship will deteriorate. Since you have raised this question, I think you must be unconfident and uncertain about the future, so I suggest that you think carefully and not on the spur of the moment.

Appropriate external conditions, such as family background, salary income, etc. Such a fit does not help love in any way. What is suitable in the eyes of others, and what you think is suitable, does not mean that they are really suitable.

The love you think is suitable may not last forever. The love that you think is suitable and the love that you think is suitable can of course grow old. It is also the most beautiful fit, and the most ideal state for all couples.

It's going to last. Because two people are suitable and together, it will not be so easy to have conflicts, so this kind of love can last for a long time.

This kind of love will last for a long time, that is because excellent is not necessarily the best, suitable must be the best, which shows that your temper, temperament and values are very similar, and the foundation for long-term life is very solid.

It won't last long, I think the right marriage together can last a long time, but the right love together won't last long.

I think it will last a long time, because only the right love can last for a long time, and the inappropriate love can't consume the wear and tear of marriage.

I think it will last a long time, and the two people are not only suitable, but also have love, which is the best of both worlds.

I think it can last a long time, because this kind of relationship is more stable.

It won't last long, because you're not suitable, you're going to have all kinds of conflicts, and it's going to end badly. In order to prevent such a tragedy from happening, unsuitable love will be strangled in the cradle, and the pain of two people will be reduced. In the long river of love, everyone will meet all kinds of people, and rarely meet people who are happy with each other.

Generally speaking, people who love themselves, people who don't love themselves, and people who don't love prefer themselves.

Everyone is also lonely, and it can be painful when they can't help but love. People are generally depressed at this time, and they will also make wrong choices at this time. Maybe they will accept someone they don't like, and they will start a wrong relationship.

Love is never about waiting, it is often about taking the initiative to have a story. And if two people obviously like each other very much, but give up being together because some aspect is not suitable, is it a pity? Life is in a hurry, and some people may never meet it again once they miss it, so don't be bound by reality, follow your inner choice, and take the first step bravely.

How do you know if you don't try it together first; If two people are not suitable, if they don't try it together first, how do you know if they will be happy? True knowledge comes from practice, so I should all be brave enough to try in order to have a chance to find true happiness.

Even in marriage, trust and respect are fundamental. Untrusted love cannot last, and unrespected marriages are extremely sad. This happens mostly when two people who are not born in the same rank, or where one is too humble in pursuing the other.

Now, you may be missing out not only on the person in front of you, but also on the sincerity and decision you made in the first place. It is the hard work in the process, the tears of countless days and nights, the dreamy future in my heart, and the loneliness and habits that I can't face alone.

If you already know that this love will never come to fruition, you still have to be a moth to the fire and give everything with sincerity (don't say goodbye to scumbags, scumbags!). Stop loss in time! Enduring all the grievances and cold winds for the sake of love may satisfy some sense of self-worth to some extent.

This kind of love is actually more like love, a determination and belief.

I don't think this kind of love will last long, knowing that it is not suitable means that the sense of tolerance between you is not stable, and you don't trust each other, if you have to be together, it will hurt the feelings of two people, and you will be even more disgusted with each other, so it's better to be friends.

I don't think it will last long, because this kind of relationship is too reluctant, and if the two people are not suitable, there will be a series of Zheng pretense contradictions Sun Qing, there is no way to stand on the other party's side when there is a disagreement, so that two people are very tired to get along in front of them.

This kind of love is definitely impossible to last long, because it is already known that two people are not suitable, so one day they will be separated.

Because you've invested so much, you're reluctant to let yourself lose. In psychology, this is called the "gambler's mentality". Even if you want to keep gambling, your heart is powerless to do so.

You are no longer popular at the table. I can only accept that I lost my shorts and accepted reality with my tail between my legs. And in the middle, it's hard for you to get out.

Because if you win, you will taste the sweetness, and if you lose, you will feel unwilling. You always want to win it back, but you can't accept that all your investment will go down the drain. You can't bear to accept such a reality.

As long as there is even one possibility, you are lucky. So, it's normal that you can't do without the table. It can only mean that you are subconsciously accumulating disappointment and dissatisfaction, or waiting for a time that has to end.

Now you just need to understand one thing: "Do you have a sustainable and stable future with this person?" "If there is no future, then we must learn to let go of the past and reconcile with ourselves.

It's hard, but it's worth it. A decisive and correct choice is often more important than unnecessary persistence. If so, then you need to focus on "solving problems" and turn the other person into the person you like and fit in, and you have to fit the other person as well.

Don't regret wasting your time. As long as you can reflect on yourself and allow yourself to grow, every experience has its value. Now, you may miss not only the person in front of you, but also your sincerity and decision, the dedication in the process, countless days and nights of tears, longing for the future, loneliness and habitual retreat that you can't face alone.

When you are really frustrated because of personality incompatibility, tired because of misunderstandings, and forced to break up because of different perspectives and life goals, you will naturally give up on the relationship that bothers you. But at that point you will definitely invest more, the cost of leaving will be higher, and you will miss out on more opportunities. On top of that, it can be hard for you to trust someone and invest in a relationship.

Therefore, smart people either solve problems or solve problems, and they do not avoid problems. In fact, everyone knows their feelings very well, including what will happen in the future, but everyone doesn't dare to admit it or believe the facts, so they have been living in their own fantasies.

I've been comforting my broken heart with fantasies. Even if there is a 1 in 10,000 chance of lying to myself, I will smash the south wall, even if my head is bleeding. Knowing that some feelings will not work out, why do you still insist?

You can persevere, but at the same time you have to take care of yourself. Stick to your bottom line, stick to your principles, and stick to yourself, instead of making yourself miserable every day and waiting for the other party to pity you. If you are reluctant to let go, then you have to look like a lover, not a beggar.