Does a mother beating a child make the child crazy or slap the child?

Yes, don't vent your personal emotions when hitting your child, just let him know that he will be punished if he is wrong. Ask yourself before you fight, is it an emotional vent?

If you can't do it, you're not a qualified mother

Hitting a child can't be emotional!!

Personally, I think it's wrong, this kind of punishment is the least good kind for children, although it can be regarded as a kind of education, because the beating is heavy, the body is hurt, and even the mind has a sense of fear; If the blow is light, it will have no effect; If you fight too much, you will become numb. And the little ones will slowly develop the idea of violence to solve the problem. When it comes to beating, if the child is not satisfied, it may be an adult, because the parents set an example for them, which is the result of a study.

In fact, children do things wrong, the key is to be reasonable, for the problems generated, find ways to solve them, in this way, children will also develop the habit and idea of solving problems. It is recommended to read "How to Say Children Will Listen, How to Listen to Children to Speak". I hope it helps you, in fact, there are quite a few such books, as long as we are willing to take the time.

What are the influences of parents on their children? Every child's personality is affected by genetics and environment, but the subtle effect of the acquired family environment will ultimately affect the formation of the child's personality. In other words, the personality of the parents in the family of origin is the core factor in the formation of the child's personality, if the parents are cheerful and lively, then the child will not be particularly introverted and timid.

And the little events in life are good examples of parents exerting influence.

For example, if a child's favorite toy is accidentally broken, the cheerful parent will say, "Oh, it's okay, we tried to fix it, but it really can't be repaired, wait until Children's Day to buy a new one, you can have more new toys!"

At this time, the intention expressed by the parents is - if it is broken, it can be repaired, and if it is really impossible to repair, it will be bought a new toy. Imagine that the joy of having a new toy has replaced the sadness of a broken toy. Let the child solve the problem in the face of the real situation, and at the same time, she can also adjust her emotions and turn "bad things into good things".

Although there is a spirit of writing Ah Q, it is also a positive attitude towards life, because immersing yourself in grief and sadness will not help you solve the problem.

As the child grows up slowly and the scope of contact in social life expands, his personality gradually tends to be social, and the influence of the environment deepens. In reality, the vast majority of people have mixed personalities, and even more cheerful children have introverted times, while older children also show a calm side when dealing with things. As a parent, it is very important to influence your child in the process of character formation, so if you want your child to be optimistic and cheerful, then you need to use your behavior and way to exert influence.

But in any case, we still have to respect the inherited personality traits, so don't force adjustments, and influence each other on the basis of acceptance. Even if the child is an introvert that you don't like, you should actively discover and feel the advantages in this personality, because Rehe has its own advantages and disadvantages, and there is no absolute good or bad.