I m tired of living, and I m very confused about the days ahead!

Updated on psychology 2024-05-10
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    What about your own thoughts?

    Whether you choose to give up or continue this marriage, you have no choice, life puts a problem in front of you, but what can you do? Since your original choice was wrong, there is no way to do it, did you marry him for money? Is it?

    Whether you love or not is not up to you, didn't you choose money but didn't choose love, so what's the use of regretting it now? Don't think so, go and see if he is sincere, and from his own point of view, does he really love you? Or just deal with you, this is your happiness in the future, don't be blind, think calmly, if he really loves you, then he will be good to you, as long as he pays sincerely, then your heart should also be opened for him, but you have to see clearly whether he is sincere, that is the main thing.

    Remember that his every move will reflect whether he loves you or not, your happiness is mixed with his own hands, he doesn't love you, then you don't have to force it, he loves you, you have to use your own love, everything you have and your own future, not in the hands of others, in your own hands, give up is when you have no room to go, but there is no way to decide, do you understand? Believe that you can find your own future and happiness one day, and good luck! Come on!!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You need to choose your own path.

    Right and wrong, which is more important and which is more important, need to be measured.

    The reason why you are in a dilemma, you have the burden of taking care of your parents, then you don't dare to take any more risks.

    However: 1, if you want to chase the love you want, the man you like, so you might be happier to work together?

    Which of the two is more important?

    But sometimes women don't be too stupid, love is hard to find, otherwise there wouldn't be so many times to see each other.

    No one can help you choose, reality is more educational, and the choice is entirely up to you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't think you should blindly carry the burden of serving your parents. Your parents won't be happy to see you like this. Their only wish is that their daughter can live happily and fully.

    If you only see the potential of your live-in boyfriend and are with him now, you are really wrong. You said it yourself, if you don't like him, then you still have to be together. Hehe,The life of your parents should still be okay.,It doesn't have to be that you have to buy a suite or something.。。

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're still a college graduate. I only have a junior high school education. Strong women are popular in society now. Let your parents live a good life through your own efforts. Choosing a man is no problem. I despise you for a man to eat. Hehe.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How to live? Hehe, that's not a good question. In fact, love is not that important, life has to be experienced with the heart.

    Love is not a long-term thing, it is fleeting. Live well with your current man, and think about all that nonsense. The family is not something that can be maintained with love, the most important thing is loyalty and understanding.

    Cherish everything now!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Without him, nothing can compare to his own happiness, and his parents will understand, but a good boyfriend can't be forced.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you feel that you can't like him, leave him as soon as possible to find someone you like and work together, so that you will be happier and more fulfilling.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Ha ha.. You're so greedy. But it's human nature. There shouldn't be a problem with marrying that man, the material life is just spiritually empty, and people are bored with life. Fight for yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Now those of us born in the 80s have been so confused, we don't know how to go in the future, and people with high pressure of marriage and work can't stand it, this world.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This society needs to be old too much, and it is very difficult to make two people happy together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Which is more important, love or material?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's up to you to choose what kind of life you choose.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is normal to feel that life is tired and chaotic, and it is a normal feeling to think about leaving to a strange place, but you need to think seriously about the cause of the problem and try to find a solution. Here are a few ways to start:

    Seek help: Talk to friends, family, teachers, etc., or seek professional psychological counseling.

    Lifestyle changes: Adjusting the pace of your life and adding new, positive activities, such as exercising, learning a new skill, participating in social activities, etc., can help change negative emotions and life situations.

    Relax: Try relaxation activities such as yoga, meditation, traveling, etc., which can relax and calm the body and mind.

    Find support: Joining some volunteer organizations or community organizations to find friends who share common interests can help you find support and help.

    The most important thing is not to give up on yourself easily, find a way to pretend to be hungry, and try to overcome difficulties and move towards a better life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You probably have a tendency to be depressed.

    You can find a psychological counselor to help you analyze it.

    Find out the cause and better deal with your depressed emotions.

    Do you know you're from? Why? Do you want to go to ** in the future?

    With these few questions figured out, you will be very relaxed, and no matter what happens, you will be very open-minded. Some things can't be explained in a sentence or two. There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south!

    The Buddha is a beacon that will show you the way, and may you meet the Dharma and good knowledge as soon as possible.

    Life is not a person's business, there is not too much **More is the tacit understanding formed by living for a long time, feelings... At this time, love has been upgraded! Affection ,,Long live more achievement is easier to save, isn't it?

    It turns out that it will be like it in the future.

    If you really want to do it.

    It's better to give up everything in your hands and live a new life

    Life is the best teacher, and he will show you how to do it.

    How to be high-minded, how to continue only this still use to teach s

    Wish. Aries men love to dress. But the brain is simple.

    If you're a smart person, it's easy to get along with Aries.

    If you're tired, it's definitely not suitable.

    First of all, you have to understand that the most important person in the world is yourself, and there is nothing more important than you feeling happy and happy.

    Yes. Then learn to be independent, to know what you want to do at the moment, do it, only if you learn to be independent, you will.

    Don't mind what other people think, because nothing is more important to you than you.

    If you feel very isolated from the group, you don't have a sense of trust in others. I want to say that there is nothing wrong with this, the important thing is that you feel good, continue if you feel good, and send it to the good side when you feel bad. I want to say, maybe you can't understand it, but there is one point, your own feelings can't fool yourself, if you like it, you can continue, and if you hate it, you should try to change, you can.

    It is within oneself, or it can be the thing itself. Since it is impossible to change due to very objective factors, then change your heart.

    Don't bother with the boring things, just think about the things you like.

    Let go of the excessive obsessive pursuit, feel at ease in front of you, and wish you good luck at six o'clock.

    The first thing to do is to have faith in life before you can continue. Wish.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's too tiring to live in this life, and the days ahead are just a kind of torture! Even if you have worked hard in life, every time you fail, you are grassy, and you still think that you are cultivating immortals? Depression is just thinking too much and seeing things clearly, and the psychiatrist just understands some situations to enlighten you and deceive your mind!

    This is my experience, my unit arranged to rescue people at sea for 5 years, and then left the unit for 3 years to start my own business! Every time you start a business, you fail, and you can save people's virtue! It's to feed the dogs! I also want to die and now have nothing. It feels like a lifetime has passed!

    If you want to keep your emotions in check, shift your goals! This is my experience, not all good people are rewarded.

    That's all I can do sometimes! I also want to die, I just want to have a good time, people, one year old to a hundred years old, I don't know when I die. Experts in books say that it's just a wonderful life and a not-so-wonderful statement. I brought a little sarcasm.

    Sometimes the path (pain) is chosen by oneself, sometimes it is not given, or it is born with it. If you've ever seen the eyes of a desperate person, you know how eager the rescued person is. I saw too much to save people at work, and I found that I was a human being.

    Just robbed the Grim Reaper of his job. It's ridiculous that it's just another paycheck per month. There will be more noble character than those of certain professions, because you are an unknown person who rescued a man at sea today.

    Nor will he become a public figure. There are some things that can only be written by those who need to be vanity leaders.

    Friends don't care how much time you have left today or tomorrow, please take the rest of your time. Do something to make people around you remember you, or do something happy. Even if you die, let others remember you.

    Memories are beautiful, and sometimes the pages of history don't remember much, but good things can be done.

    Those love saints or beasts (love beasts). They sigh too much, and they cry a lot, because there is too much water in their brains at the beginning.

    Life is tasteless, just a bowl of water, just let you or your other half adjust the ups and downs of this bowl of water. You can also make this bowl of medium fish, but it must be salty! The salty one makes you can't drink it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't know what problems you've encountered that make you so pessimistic, but in fact, everyone stumbles all the way through this.

    This year came over and said to myself: I'm sorry!

    Always wear a strong mask to hide your fragile heart!

    laughed heartlessly in front of people, and tasted alone in the aftermath;

    said that it didn't matter, and the pain in my heart was secretly sad.

    Survive this year and say to yourself: I'm sorry!

    Always pretend to be invincible to face life!

    No matter how late you go to bed at night, you must get up early at dawn;

    No matter how tired the body is, the pressure must be carried;

    No matter how aggrieved you are, your sadness must be hidden!

    This year, I carried it over and said to myself: I'm sorry!

    Always digging out your heart and lungs to people, but ignoring your own difficulties!

    What has been said, no effort has been spared to do it;

    Do your best to do what you promised;

    The people you meet are truly communicative.

    Don't dare to rest casually, because: the money in your pocket is not enough to spend, and the number in the card is not enough!

    Don't dare to slack off easily, because: I am most afraid of being looked down upon, and I am most afraid of someone belittling you!

    I have never been discouraged at all, no matter how tired I am, I have to do my best, and no matter how difficult it is, I have to persevere to the end!

    If you think about it, you really didn't love yourself well!

    tired of the body, never seriously cared for it;

    Covered up tears, never cried freely.

    Looking back, the person I am most sorry for is myself!

    Caring about the joys and sorrows of others, taking care of other people's emotions, forgetting their own needs, someone understands, someone comforts!

    If you are too tired to live, you will suffer a loss;

    To think too much is to let yourself suffer.

    People live once:

    Be in a beautiful mood, smile and get drunk, don't be too tired, don't be too haggard!

    Live for decades in the world, live for yourself!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Why do you say that, you must be in arrears with a loan.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Most people in this world have not become the ideal version of themselves.

    So you too.

    Don't be discouraged, though.

    Just focus on everything in the moment.

    Get everything right.

    I will become stronger and stronger.

    It will also make life more meaningful.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Confused, there is no fixed standard in life, and now is an era that advocates individuality. Do what you love without violating morality and the law.

    Anyway, life is very short and long, not many people care and criticize, don't impose too much on yourself.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is an old Chinese saying that if you are poor, you will change, and if you change, you will be successful. I've been feeling this way for the first two years, and I want to kill myself. But think about it, suicide, how cowardly I am!

    I'm fine now, haven't I reached the point of exhaustion? Even at that point, would we have no hope? No way!!!

    So, to be alive is to be happy.

    We are tired of life, nothing more than the pressure of life. I'm too demanding of myself, and I can't see tomorrow for a short time. Ever thought about it?

    How many years have the achievements of my fathers been accumulated? Some fathers can bless their children, but others cannot. It can be the best, and it can't and shouldn't be, after all, the road is for us to walk again.

    I've been working for a while, and I'm very unhappy for the same reasons as you, but it's different when I changed jobs recently. I've been in a good mood lately. The mentality is good, sometimes, it is different to see things.

    If you have nothing to do, do what you like, when I am most annoying, I ride a bicycle for more than 200 kilometers to go out and play, and I feel much better when I come back. In short, be happy.

    If you have a good mentality, you will find what you like, and only if you are interested will you be motivated, and you will find a feasible and detailed plan. Then it's a matter of making up your mind to do it. I'm at this stage now, and I haven't been able to implement it, and I think that's the key, the key to getting out.

    Step out, and maybe you'll succeed.

    By the way, I would like to add that you just don't compare yourself with others, what you think is good is really good, and if you think it's bad, it's useless if others think it's good. Forget to say that the method that calms your mind is the one that works best for you.

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