How to chase that kind of introverted girl, experienced feelings Emperor Jin, so tangled 5

I'm just an introvert, or the invulnerable kind, I just don't like it, it's useless, but when I meet someone, I didn't feel it at first, who knows that his insistence (not stubbornly pestering, so girls are very repulsive) is meticulous, and he pays attention to the small details of her life, such as sneezing, you are nervous, such as eating cold drinks, you beware of hurting your body, such as not eating well, you buy her a lot of nutritious food, etc., so that as long as you pay a sincere concern, no matter how indifferent the girl is, she will be impressed, this is to take your time. Be patient, come on

If there is hope, keep trying, don't chase too hard and don't be too loose.

Be proactive, caring, and make him feel dependent on you

Many people think that introverts have no way to chase girls, and this view is definitely wrong, because in my opinion, introversion is not a disadvantage, but a characteristic. Therefore, in my opinion, for the question of how to pursue girls with introverts, we must first start by changing ourselves.

1. Adjust your mentality.

Since you know that you are an introvert, then face yourself well, don't avoid this thing, introversion is not terrible, there are many introverts, you are just one of them.

Introversion is not a disadvantage, so why panic and be afraid? Introversion, not a disadvantage, is a characteristic. There is no such thing as a good or bad character, only what the characteristics are.

Only if you yourself think that your characteristics are inferior, unlikable, and disgusting, then your characteristics are really the so-called shortcomings.

2. Learn to be brave enough to show yourself.

Is it wrong to only be good for girls? You know, be good to her, this is something that anyone with hands and feet will do. You ask yourself if you really have the qualities that she doesn't get from others and that you have alone.

Beautiful girls, there are no less than a few suitors, and there are people who are good to her in line, and you have no advantage. A girl's real needs = being happy with you + having a good impression of you. Then, learn to show yourself, and one of the conditions to solve is to attract one by one.

You cook your own food well, and you don't dare to show it, how do people know that your cooking skills are so good? You can play the piano yourself, and you don't dare to show it, how do people know that you still know how to ** and are versatile? You have a good fitness, and you don't dare to show your fitness**, how do you know your quality life?

Note that showing off is not showing off, and showing off can be annoying.

3. Get out of your comfort zone.

People like to be lazy, not moving, when they enjoy themselves the most, they are not willing to change themselves, since they know that introverts are not easy to pursue the person they like, then they have to take the initiative to change themselves. You don't dare to communicate, take the initiative to go out and communicate with strangers. You don't want to go to the event, and this time you take the initiative to go to the event and make yourself feel miserable and uncomfortable.

You don't want to show yourself, this time take the initiative to show yourself and get out of your comfort zone. Human progress is all about breaking through one pain, going to another comfort zone, and breaking through another pain.

4. Record, every step is worthy of applause.

You find yourself becoming more and more courageous and proactive. What you didn't dare to do before, now you take it for granted, and that's what you're going uphill with. Finally, I want to say, as long as you take this step bravely, are you still worried that you won't be able to catch up with girls?

Do you have a common hobby with her? You can participate in more activities to train yourself, and the most important thing is to make yourself more confident