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It's good for each other.
How to break up without hurting the other party, you should talk to the other party directly face to face when you break up, pay attention to the occasion and time when you choose to break up, save face for the other party, don't slander the other party when you break up, and talk more about your shortcomings. How to break up without hurting each other?
1. Say it directly.
Don't use text messages, send emails, you can say it face-to-face, which can reduce the trauma left by the other party, say it directly, and communicate non-verbally, so that the other party feels that it is still worth loving.
2. Don't attack each other.
Don't maliciously slander the other party and expose the other party's privacy because the other party has complaints, this is wrong, even if you break up, don't deliberately hurt the other party.
3. Break up cleanly.
Don't think about whether the other person will leave you, will be unhappy, or whether you still love yourself, this is the psychology that will make you turn back, but this idea is better not to exist, and the breakup should be clean.
3. Take care of each other's feelings and face.
When choosing to break up, don't break up on a special day, for example, on your birthday, you say that you break up, which will make the other party unhappy every time you have a birthday, and don't say break up in public, in front of friends, this is shameless, and such a breakup occasion is difficult to accept.
4. Refuse cold violence when breaking up.
Don't think that it is not advisable to leave the other party aside, and after the relationship fades, let the other party propose to break up, this is to make people suffer mental damage, and it is a waste of time and energy of both parties.
5. When you break up, you should point out your own mistakes.
When you break up, you have to say your mistakes and give the other party a step, so that the breakup will be smoother and more pleasant.
6. Bless the other party with happiness when you break up.
Be generous when you break up, wish each other a happy life, and wish the other party can find someone who belongs to them happiness and love.
7. Find out the reason for the breakup.
Some people can't find any reason when they break up, and they can find one or two reasons from their daily quarrels, which is because of something they quarreled about. Is it because both sides can't give each other freedom, or is mutual distrust equal to the reason.
8. Mention it in front of the other person's good friend.
If both parties know each other's good friends, they can talk to their friends in advance, so that they can comfort each other more and comfort each other more, so that they can get out of the sad mood as soon as possible.
9. It is taboo to talk about the shortcomings of the other party.
It is very sad to be taboo to say the shortcomings of the other party when you break up, maybe you break up quickly, but it is a big blow to people's self-esteem, so it is better to say that your own shortcomings are better.
10. Don't argue about revenge.
Don't argue with each other for too long, always quarreling, you can't talk about the other party, but it will make you reluctant to give up the relationship, and don't design anything revenge, which will also make you always think about each other, making you unforgettable.
When two people break up, the way they choose should be appropriate, take into account the feelings of the other party, and try to minimize the damage.
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