I want to ask a family where parents say less than 10 words a month, will you be happy?

Well, my advice is that if your parents still have room to get along, then talk to them and tell them what is in your heart. Of course, if it is more difficult to speak verbally, you may want to write a letter. I can understand your feelings, because at least your parents are still barely making ends meet.

Just today, I fainted on the street and broke my knee because of my parents' argument, and my father never even heard me say a word. I think, at this moment, I'd be glad that your parents just didn't talk and didn't keep arguing and fighting.

Friend, be strong, I don't know how old you are now, but I hope you can be strong to face it. I also gave up on myself for a while because of my family, but now I don't think it's worth it, really. Parents have the right to choose their own lifestyle, it is their choice, all we can do is to take care of our own body and mind, and respect the choice of our parents.

Let's be honest. I've had something like that"Family drama"

Deterioration in parental relationships.

I even persuaded them to divorce in front of the second elder.

The atmosphere was very calm.

Everyone calmly thought and thought about it.

After all, it's a family, and they can't get together before they break up.

It's also good for the parties.

Instead of struggling with pain, it is better to get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible.

But mothers tend to endure because of the presence of their children.

Even if her marriage brought her pain and depression.

The conclusions after n years were observed.

And so it is.

As for the impact on children, it's actually quite scary.

Their values, outlook on life, and worldview will be affected.

Especially on their future mate selection and marriage.

For example, I have no desire to get married, and I am afraid that my marriage will be like my parents.

Such hopelessness, even losing the ability to love, refusing to have intimate intercourse with the opposite sex.

Eccentric temper and perverse personality.

These are highly likely to happen.

Psychological analysis is called suggestion.

The power of this suggestion is immeasurable.

It is up to us to adjust, find a balance, and constantly renew ourselves.

For example, make more friends around you with good family backgrounds.

Parents have a harmonious relationship and can communicate with their families.

Especially the peers of parents who have become friends with their children.

They tend to be mild-mannered, easy to get along with, cheerful and outgoing.

Talk to them more and see how they think and what you have.

What makes a difference to try to get yourself out of the current situation.

It is necessary to keep making new and positive friends.

Expand your social and circle of friends.

In fact, how are the feelings of the parents, to some extent.

It's their own business.

If you're an adult, you don't have to worry too much.

They will handle it well themselves.

Believe in yourself, believe in your parents.

Maybe they don't realize the potential threat to you.

But it's still your dad and mom after all.

They themselves will also weigh the pros and cons.

The main thing is to be optimistic about yourself and learn to manage yourself.

Let them see your progress and see you differently.

This is the best "punishment" you can give them

On the contrary, their relationship may get worse and worse.

The above is just a contemptible point of view, I hope it helps.

If it were me, I'd certainly not be happy if I encountered this kind of problem!

First of all, you can talk to your parents, after all, it will not be good for your psyche!

Then ask them to reflect on the root cause of not speaking up like this, and ask them to think about the problem by themselves. At the very least, admit your mistakes to each other!

If it doesn't work, then you can only persuade them to divorce. (This method is not recommended).

If the two parties really have no feelings, persuade them to break up!

They are miserable themselves, and they make you sad. Why bother, there are not many happy times in this life!

You may be affected by a distrust of love and marriage. (guess).

Are humans with long mouths just for eating? Unless they're all dumb, they'll be happy.

That's what's wrong with you, really! If you don't believe it, if you pay attention to your parents, they will only say that you can't do it in front of you, and if outsiders ask you how you are, they will definitely say this and that! Because they really want you to be good, say you can't in front of you either you don't make it clear, you have to say it before you say it's just a way to communicate, don't quarrel, just like friends chat and think, they are all adults, my dad and I are like this, there is no father and son when talking about business, who is more reasonable to listen to whom, or they don't receive and understand what you say in time, you have to be patient with this, I used to be similar to you, I was always told that I had eaten more salt than the road I had walked, Later, I learned that my parents were waiting for me to prove to them with words and reality, if you can't convince your parents in the language, what will you do later?

They'll think you're not thinking well! Good luck.

Comprehension is the most important thing, if you want to relieve your anger, you pay attention to them, and if you find that they have shortcomings, you will scold them.

There are often difficulties in communicating with parents, and I understand your experience very well, parents love their children the most, they will only want you to be good, but sometimes their communication style is too straightforward and extreme, at this time you can tactfully confide in your parents about your feelings, show that you do not want to hear such an answer, and indicate what you need. I believe that as long as children and parents are willing to communicate patiently with each other, the relationship will be more harmonious.

Don't beat all of them to death because of one thing. Maybe when we might need comfort, our parents say something that hurts us, but everyone knows that good words are good for deeds! Where there are people, there will be contradictions, indeed.

If it were me, I would choose which person I have been in a relationship for six years, only with love can I have a home, and only with a family can I be rich.

Of course, I chose the latter, and marriage is a lifetime

Choosing that six years is good for you.

You need to communicate with your parents, and the first point is to make sure that you can really save money. The second point is that you have to negotiate with your parents, saying that you don't feel enough to spend in your life, and you want to give less to your family every month. Take your time.

If you want something practical, don't be too realistic, like telling them that your salary is going down, so the money you're giving them will be less, and you say you can't help it, but it's just that the salary is down, so that you can save the extra money yourself... The best way is to talk to them, I think (provided that your parents are reasonable) if you are unreasonable, extraordinary times are very means...

If your parents are afraid that you will spend money indiscriminately, this situation is still understandable, first of all, you need to understand why you are asking for money.

1. "So I want to save some money and plan for the future." "Your parents have already saved it for you, so you don't have to think about it.

2. "For some reason, I won't get married in the future." "Even if you don't get married, you can ask for money from your parents in the name of marriage. And then do whatever you want.

So, you don't have to think too much about it.

I guess you don't think you can't get this money if you don't get married? I don't think you have to worry about that. When you're ready, your parents are urging you to find a girlfriend and get married quickly. At that time, if you ask for money again, you will say that you can't have money to fall in love, and you need money for engagement rings.

You just say that you have to keep it yourself, and you will be financially free.

I feel that you are a more delicate and assertive person, if you feel that you have no feelings, then even if you mix it up now, there will still be various problems in the future.

Me too, the woman is two years younger than me. It's been almost a month since the blind date, and it's getting more and more impossible to talk about, the woman is also ugly, and I'm forced to go by my family, and I don't know how to tell both parties, can I have a private chat if I have time, we have similar problems.

Here's an article I found on the Internet: Don't take cheapness for true love

Be your own and let others say it.

You have to change for the better.