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Find a path in life and you won't feel lost. Set a feasible short-term goal and long-term goal for yourself, write out the most desired wish to achieve one by one, and then do it down-to-earth towards this goal, persevere in any difficulties, and when your short-term goal is achieved, cross one off the paper and continue to work towards the next goal. In this way, you will not feel lost in life, but will feel meaningful.
Of course, in order to achieve these goals, the first thing to understand is to give, to do something for the society and the people around us, not just blindly taking, to know that happiness is obtained in doing good deeds, that is a kind of spiritual pleasure.
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The reason why life is confused is because we don't know the purpose, and we don't know how to enjoy the joy in the process of pursuing the goal!
Let's talk about the goal first: some people define themselves to be happy, so everything he does is for himself to be happy, life is just a few decades, why bother to live a lifetime? There are also people who define themselves to fulfill their mission, such as passing on the lineage, such as fulfilling a certain faith!
There are also people who want to be down-to-earth all their lives, just like living a small life with peace of mind, sweet little happiness!
If you only want to be happy, then go and do good deeds, this kind of happiness is the most open happiness; If you want to accomplish the mission, then follow the rules and do it, as long as you work hard, you will definitely get results; If you want to live a peaceful life, you should restrain your desires, treat your relatives and friends well, and take care of your life in an orderly manner, I think you know!
Finally, I would like to explain that no matter what goal you have, no matter how you work hard to achieve it, as long as you enjoy the process unconsciously, then your life is complete!
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Where do you get lost? There is no road in the world, and there is only one road when there are more people walking. You just have to follow the path of success.
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There are trade-offs, and the advance and retreat are appropriate.
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Find the value in your life.
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The key is to build confidence, after the purpose is clear, step by step towards the goal, don't be ambitious, a small step every day, you will slowly find the focus of life.
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This is mainly based on what you want to get? Make your goals specific, e.g. if I want to make money, then you have to set how much you want to make? How long to complete, how to complete, what to correct in the process, keep self-reviewing and correcting goals!!
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Integrate into society and find in trials. There are no shortcuts in life.
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It's actually very simple, talk to your friends more.
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Life, God is just a joke on you, don't pay too much attention to it.
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The simplest purpose of life is to meet the basic needs of human survival, eating, drinking, and lazing. However, human beings are higher beings, and when they meet their physical needs, they will pursue more and better spiritual life, such as knowledge, creation, etc., to meet their spiritual needs, make their lives more fulfilling, and make their lives more meaningful. The goals and abilities pursued are different, and there are different levels of life.
As long as you have goals, are willing to work hard, and have the courage to face difficulties and setbacks, life will be wonderful.
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Life is like a dream, and when you wake up from a dream, maybe your life will be over, and all the pain and happiness in between will seem to have little to do with you now.
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First of all, you must cherish life, in order to love life, and you must have emotions and have a good attitude and sense of responsibility!
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Life is a bunch of waiting for you to solve it slowly.
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21** age group, many people in this age group do not know what to do, and feel very confused about their future path, but I want to tell you that those who have succeeded at first are also like this, and they can't see the road ahead and don't know whether everything they do today is full of meaning, this time is the turning point of your life, you have to learn to absorb the bits and pieces of this society, learn more knowledge, a person's knowledge is a circle, the more you learn, the more you peep, Whether it is a rich child or a small person, if you want to succeed, you have to look farther, magnify a little bit, think a little more, make eight points, and do ten points, I believe that the world will not reject your rise, the high wall is not the person who comes, I hope it will help you, I wish you to create a world of your own as soon as possible.
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21 years old, as a few people upstairs said, very young, formal and energetic years, but also the best time to grow, your current situation shows that you are a person with a sense of crisis, this is already very good, there are many people of your age are in a mess, I don't know why, you reflect on your life in time to make me feel a little inferior, first of all, you have to believe in yourself!
When I was a little older than you, I had a boss (whom I always thought of as my teacher) and I had a confidant word to me, which I have always used as my code of conduct, and I share it with you now:
There are three things that a person can do in his life: first, what he likes; the second, what you are good at; The third is to be able to support yourself. There is a process for everything, and when you can merge these three things into one, you are successful.
My advice is clear, I don't want to give you a specific advice, but I hope you can give yourself a little time to think calmly, and I think you will find your way quickly. Remember, only believe in yourself!
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People will have times of confusion in their lives, and how to get out of confusion quickly is the key. It's like a ship in the ocean, the navigation system has a problem, it can't move on, and it has to be repaired before it can continue to start anew.
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Think carefully about what you want to do, set a goal, study, and then start from the grassroots level, persevere, and don't give up halfway. You're only twenty-one years old, so young! Keep it up and don't let yourself regret it in the future.
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This age is the best time to learn entrepreneurship. Learn a lot in society. Learn from those who are successful and have careers how to build their goals. Or learn a craft. Only with technology can there be a way to make money.
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To study, 21 years old is still young, if you want to have no worries about food and clothing in the future, you must learn a good craft while you are young.
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No matter what you do, you must have perseverance and perseverance, you can't pick up the mountain and the mountain, do a period of annoyance, change, and annoyance. In the end, nothing will come of it.
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Wow, you're under a lot of pressure, so it's better to calm down and think carefully about what is best for you, and you have to have a job !!
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Absorb more knowledge. 21 years old is not very old, and it is the age to study hard.
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Youth is capital, and the industry is the champion. As long as you work hard, it will pay off.
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Why do you always say not suitable for not interested in then what are you interested in? What do you want to fit into? Does society work for you? But the good news is that you know it's not too late.
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You can try a few more jobs to see which one you prefer.
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In the final analysis, this question is actually the so-called meaning of life, what is the meaning of life? Here's a little bit of what I know:
Life is indeed short! Compared with the billions of years of life spans of cosmic bodies such as the Earth and the Sun, life is just an extremely short moment! In fact, life is meaningless, and the so-called meaning is just imposed by people themselves.
Isn't it often said that life is like a dream in the blink of an eye, a hundred years? When a person is approaching the end of his life, looking back on the various things he has experienced in his life is like a dream, as if they happened in front of him, vividly, and you will sigh that life is so short! Gods and horses are all floating clouds!
Death is innate, and no matter how long a person lives, he will inevitably die. As Cao Cao said: Although the turtle still has a long life, the beetle snake will eventually turn into ashes.
What's the difference between length and shortness? No wonder Bi Shumin said that life has no meaning (but you have to establish a meaning for yourself)! In fact, this is also true.
Life is just another form of physical existence, and it has no meaning. If you think about it, if there is life and people on a planet, the planet will rotate in the same way. Man is just a passing visitor in the universe, who comes to the world and walks back again.
What's the point, you say? But whether a person is born or not is not a matter for him to decide. That being said, since you have come into this world, you must strive to be a useful person to society, because the value of life lies in dedication.
When you find that everyone else needs you, you will naturally feel happy and satisfied! You will feel that you have not walked in this world in vain. I think this is called the value and meaning of life.
In fact, a person lives not only for himself, but also for his relatives and friends, although we may not be happy at times, right?
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I believe that each of us will have times when we are lost, and there will be different confusion at different stages of life. Often the goal is the brightest when you are confused.
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Life is like passing through a tunnel, when you are in the tunnel, your surroundings are dark, if you stop and grope left and right, you will always be in a dark environment, you can only see the light if you move forward firmly. Some people say that life is like mountaineering, when you are at a low point in life, your vision is limited, only you struggle to climb up, when you reach a certain height, your vision will be broadened, and your confusion will slowly disappear.
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It is normal for a person to be confused for a while in his life, and it is not terrible, but it is terrible to be confused for a lifetime!
Sometimes don't rush to the road, why don't you stop and think about why you're confused? Then I should try to improve!
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When you are confused, sit down, think quietly, and the main thing is to calm your mind...
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Everyone has times when they are confused, and at this time, we need to calm down and think about what we need, what we should do, and how we will go in the future, and then we will act.
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You can be confused for a day or two, but you can't be confused for a month or two.
Look at the lives of people who are more miserable than you, and then look at yourself, and you will sigh: There are so many people who are worse than me, and what am I not satisfied with?
It's good to be content, don't ask too much, and then set appropriate goals to achieve your goals step by step.
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What should I do when I am very confused? At this time, we may be pursuing the wrong thing, trying the wrong thing in the wrong place. Need to wake up in time.
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Anyone's life is not clear at a glance, and they can't see the future so they are confused. But it is precisely because of this that there will be surprises from time to time, everyone's life is like this, as long as you work hard and are worthy of your heart, you will have no regrets.
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Confusion means that your life goals are too high and too ethereal, so you don't know where to start. Do what is in front of you well and live in the moment. The confusion of the future may not come.
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cough, confused, just let it be, why be so tired of living.
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The process of life is from ignorance to having a direction and then being confused, and then finding the direction, and so on.
First of all, you have to look at the problem of confusion with a normal mentality, because confusion is a process that each of us must go through.
And then you have to think about why you're confused, find out why, and then analyze and find a solution.
ps: When life is confused, we can divert our attention from thinking about this matter, or we can watch some books or inspirational movies that tell us some life principles to help us get out of trouble faster and change our mentality.
I wish you to get out of the confusion of life and find a new direction as soon as possible.
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