How does Buddhism explain marriage? What is the misfortune of marriage in Buddhism?

Brother! Marriage is also inseparable from karma. That is to say, first of all, there must be a cause for husband and wife between you, and then the cause will be ripe for the result of husband and wife.

If there is no cause for husband and wife, no matter how the cause and cause evolve, it will not be the result of husband and wife. If you are destined to be husband and wife in this life, then you will all come together no matter how much outsiders interfere and how many obstacles there are. If you don't encounter it, or if you don't come together, then you should know that there is no such cause, or that the cause is not ripe.

If there is such a cause, it will be encountered again in the future when the cause is ripe. If there is no such cause, it will not be.

Senior brother, you are very right, many of us can feel this way, a kind of force is pushing us, it is the cause of being together, and we are coming together. It is not a cause that is not together, and this kind of power is just wrong everywhere, and it is always missed!

If you are very infatuated with a woman in this life, you will inevitably have all kinds of fate with her in the next reincarnation, but fate is divided into perfect and incomplete, not all fate is good fate, maybe there is something to think about in this life.

There will be a fate in the next life. It's like thinking about it every day.

Buddhism pays attention to the emptiness of all fates and all laws, and it is a fantasy that arises from one's own attachment, so it is said that only by letting go of all attachments and finding one's own true heart is true, it seems to be a Buddha.

It can be seen that if you have a bond in this life, then there will inevitably be fate in the next life.

Nam no Amitabha!! That is to say: the people we meet in each of us become relatives with others, including parents, brothers and sisters, marriages or friends, all the people you meet in your life are the traction of fate, and fate has good fate and evil fate, and evil fate is bad fate.

This kind of fate is incompatible, two people will never be together, quarreling all day long or leading to murder. It's all bad fate, that is, bad fate, and good fate is good fate, the two are happy together, you understand him, he understands you, and never make noise. It's good karma!!

Buddhism says that the marriage fate is: the two are not suitable, not suitable, not suitable for marriage and come together!

Two people who shouldn't be together, and then they are together, and then the words are what Buddhism says. Marriage is a bad fate.

Marriage, in the old days, was called the fate of marriage.

Source: "Jingben Popular ** Zhicheng Zhang Supervisor": "Opening words into matching, raising mouths to match." Example: "The Surprise of the First Moment" Volume 5: "If it weren't for marriage, I wouldn't be able to ask for it in front of me." ”

Ancient words to describe marriage:

1.Raising the case with eyebrows: It refers to raising the tray as high as the eyebrows when delivering food. Describe the mutual respect between husband and wife.

Source: "The Book of the Later Han Dynasty: The Biography of Liang Hong": "Renting for people, every return, the wife is food, I dare not look up in front of Hong, and raise my eyebrows." ”

2.Qin Se and Ming: A metaphor for the reconciliation of husband and wife.

Source: Yuan Xu Yan's "Ten Songs of the Green Building": "I have finished this life with one heart, the piano is harmonious, and the phoenix is harmonious." ”

3.Respect each other: It refers to the husband and wife respecting, loving and thanking each other on the basis of equal status, and establishing a good relationship of dynamic balance and harmony.

Source: "The Thirty-third Year of the Duke of Zuo": "The envoy of the Ji Ji has passed through Ji, and when he sees that Ji is lacking, his wife is hungry, respectful, and treats each other like guests. ”

4.Growing old together: It means that the husband and wife live together until they grow old. Growing old together is also a traditional Chinese auspicious pattern, implying a happy marriage.

Source: Ming Lu Cai's "Huaixiang Ji Fengzhao Class Teacher": "Child, I grow old with your mother, and the precious double is all silver." Qing Shen Fu's "Six Notes of Floating Life: The Music of the Boudoir": "Yun quietly said: The concubine can grow old with Jun Baitou, and the moon ring should come out. ”

5. Luan Feng and Ming: It means that Luan Bird and Phoenix respond to each other and chirp. Metaphor for husband and wife harmony.

Source: "Zuo Chuan: The Twenty-second Year of Zhuang Gong": "It is said that Phoenix Town answered Yu Fei, and Mingfeng Brigade Mountain. ”