Super high score to seek distress in love! What am I going to do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-22
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Your parents' concerns are very reasonable, after all, they are all from the past, well-informed, more experienced than you, parents are for the sake of their children, you should have a good talk with your parents, stand in the perspective of parents and think about it, which parents don't love their children. Your concept of love is also right, but his various practices are not very good, first of all, love you and love your parents, it is possible to become a family in the future, you don't want him and your parents to be so awkward for a lifetime, so that you will not be good in the middle, if you can't even respect the elderly, isn't it a little rude? Secondly, it is undeniable that you are not popular with his family, and if you live together in the future, you are not with your parents, and he prefers his family more, do you think your life will be better?

    At that time, who should you tell if you have been wronged? People who say they don't get married at every turn are very unstable? Also, he always loses his temper with you and doesn't cherish you, does he already know that you won't leave him, so he has no fear?

    Also, you know why he has to wronged himself if he is so selfish!

    Through your words, at least he is not the person worthy of your life now, you are a girl, you have to think about it carefully! He is selfish, doesn't trust you, doesn't cherish you, doesn't be filial to your parents, and always loses his temper with you, should you think about it, are you still willing to associate with such a person?

    No matter what he thinks, he thinks about himself, has he considered your feelings?

    There are many good men, you don't have to waste your youth on him! Maybe you will be uncomfortable when you are together for a long time and suddenly separate, but time can help you, and when you meet a better man in the future, you will be glad that you are decisive!

    Girls have to be kind to themselves!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Although you have been together for a long time, true understanding is the beginning, human emotions are changeable, and it is not excluded that both of you are changing; Let's look at it for a while, friend, there are many things that you have to learn to let go; It seems that the fate between you has not yet arrived, even after the union, the troubles are far more than what you see now; Friend, I hope you are frank, unselfish, face it calmly, go on bravely, deserve it, time will make judgments, and it is useless to be upset and anxious now. You tell me?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I read it carefully.

    Divide it... Do you know Mr. Wan Feng?

    You can go to Wanfeng and ask him** to communicate with him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Marriage is a lifelong affair for girls.

    So be careful!!

    In fact, you have analyzed it yourself very clearly, and you have the answer in your own heart!

    It's just that I don't want to give up my 5-year relationship, I have paid so much for him, and I don't want to get nothing in the end! (Am I right?) )

    I accepted my boyfriend's breakup on the coldest winter night of 2007!

    I broke up with him not because we didn't love each other, nor because there was a third person between us, but because we lost to distance and reality! He is from Wuhan, I am from Guangdong, and my parents are against us! He came to my house to play, and my dad didn't even see anyone else!

    At the beginning, I was always unwilling to compromise with my parents, just like you, and I have always defended this love that I think has a result and a future!

    Later, he kept saying that I didn't think about our future, that I was not willing to give up my family for him to live in Wuhan! I admit it, because I'm afraid I can't afford to lose! So I agreed to his proposed breakup!

    I'm here to tell you that life is not as simple as you think, it's not as romantic as we see, and your mother and sister have said this about you before you pass the door, so it's hard for me to imagine what will happen to them if you marry!! Don't be carried away by the sweetness of those 5 years of relationship!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If that's the case, you still don't want to marry him, your parents are the ones who really care about their children, they often think more than you, you said you took him to meet your parents just was, your parents were good to him at the time, and they changed after leaving, it means that your parents still know how to respect you and him, men should be dignified, not hypocrisy. If you are not married, who knows what will happen after you get married, I don't advocate that my mother-in-law and sister live with you, we have different personalities, it is easy to have conflicts, in addition, he doesn't know how to understand you, and his temper is not good, you know, you should know how not to do it, I hope you will not be delayed for a lifetime. Don't get your brain hot, think clearly!

    Wishing you happiness!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Break up, wait until you get married, and it's over when you think about it.

    You have to think about how complicated life is in the family after marriage.

    There are a lot of good men.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Break up, feelings are the hardest book to read in life! I used to be educated because of a little impulse! Later, when I got older, I also learned a lot of things.

    Society is realistic, we can't always live in our own world, and objective factors are something we can't despise. Marriage is realistic, and when you have not stepped into the field of marriage, you should answer it with rational thinking. For example, after marriage, it is a lifetime, people want to live, not to mention the life of two people, they must know how to be considerate of each other, if marriage is a war, then there is no emotion to talk about, rather than regretting it for a lifetime, it is better to end it early.

    If you get married and have children, it's even harder to get a divorce! The child will become an excuse, which will only exacerbate the conflict!

    A woman's happiness is only once, but a man's happiness is different! Women should always think about themselves! When dreams are on the verge of shattering, the words I love you become a mantra used by men to deceive women, or an excuse for women to deceive themselves and forgive men.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Your family is always good for you! They're certainly farther than you can see, too. You're all in conflict now, will you be okay in the future?

    Marriage is a matter of two families, not two people. You don't want the two families to die of old age in the future. Besides, his family doesn't agree with you, so what's the point of you being together?

    Can a marriage be happy without blessings? Besides, he's still the same way he treats you. Good morning and good morning!!

    Besides, are you willing to gamble with the happiness of your life? Then you're not going to be the stupidest person!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Even if you love your girlfriend very much, you can't indulge her too much, and you still have to be tough when you should be tough. If you are more sad than happy in love, I think you can stop talking to her, she doesn't know how to love at all.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your personalities are not compatible, and you are completely incompatible with people with two personalities. You are a man, men sometimes have to be domineering, you spoil her like this, it is you who are uncomfortable, she can't feel it at all, otherwise, she wouldn't go out to play so late and never come back. Let's be honest, she may be with you just because you are good to her, and if she lets you go, she is afraid that she will never find someone better than you to take care of her.

    It is estimated that she has the mentality of riding a donkey to find a horse! If you really can't live without her, you have to have a good chat, you have to solve the problem, and the two of you have to make appropriate sacrifices when you are together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You just need to make sure that you love her or not, when you find out what to do if you want to ask, it means that you are already suspicious, rather than being so boring, it is better to let it go, otherwise you will have an accident sooner or later, besides, you can feel whether she loves you or not, if not, then let it go.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Led by the nose. I don't know what you care about. Women? Do you value her too much and despise yourself? Hehe. It doesn't look like a man. Since he doesn't know what to do. Then you should think about the back.

    Let's put yourself in their shoes. Since he doesn't care. Why are you complaining here?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It shows that you love her very much, care about her, and cherish the good times together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The woman didn't just rely on coaxing, she kept letting her, she felt that it should be bad, and she mastered the scale.

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