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There are many ways to make yourself happy, giving up one thing may not get another, but giving up something that is not worth your pay can reduce your own losses, and it is not without benefits!
If you have no hope for six years of perseverance, then give up, sometimes it takes courage to persevere, but it takes more courage to give up!
People often have such a mentality, they have persevered for so long, paid so much, and got nothing, but they are reluctant to give up, but think about it, are you happy? Does your insistence make sense?
Maybe you think that the day you get that kind of thing, your life will be better from now on, but for such an obsession, you give up so many days that you could have been beautiful and pursue it, is it worth it?
So the sea of bitterness is boundless, and turning back may not be the shore, but it is sober!
You don't have to be great, but you have the right to make yourself happy, and living alone is the most important thing about your own happiness! Hope you understand! Wishing you happiness!
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The mood is like the weather, unpredictable.
Everyone's life has tragic times.
Different attitudes, different outcomes.
Doing what you want to do is the most authentic.
Give up and persevere.
It seems relative, but in fact they are closely connected.
Only if you have given up will you understand the preciousness of perseverance.
Perhaps, you should learn to let go.
You don't have to be too attached to everything.
Because. Life is still long.
I used to think my life was miserable.
Hiding in the haze of sadness every day.
Perhaps, it is not out of the predicament yet.
But I will turn my grief into strength.
Hard-working, strivers.
It hurts. It's good to have cried.
Abandon. To learn three or four.
In life, there are always things that you should cherish and cherish.
Miserable. It's just a synonym.
Best wishes. Happy.
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Hello, my dear friend:
Life, it's all like that.
Generations, forever.
I hope you will last a long time.
In this life, you will never have to worry about it.
Stick to a belief, or give up some reluctance, this life is also difficult.
There is still a long road ahead, no matter how tortuous and unfortunate the road in the past was, after all, the road was made by itself. Wake up! Why not go back and be yourself and face everything bravely. Smile and keep it! Because that's life.
Happy to you, my dear friend.
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Man lives in the world like a ship sailing on the sea. Encountering storms and experiencing rush is the normal state of life, and no one can refuse. The meaning of life lies in the experience, whether it is success or failure, it is a string of real footprints, which eventually converge into the long or short life of each of us.
A ship that leaves the sea is the safest, but once a ship leaves the sea, it loses its meaning of existence.
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Me too. The reality is so cruel.
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You can have a pure heart.
There is no misery at all.
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Persistence pays off for something.
But some things don't.
It's just something to look at.
If you don't regret it, keep going.
If you regret it, why do you insist on it?
People are always changing, looking for their own more suitable way.
Let go of something and you'll be happy!
Extrication! Forgive something.
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I'm so miserable, so miserable that I don't want to talk about it anymore, it's meaningless, life is already like this, I hope you don't have no pursuit of life like me, you lose hope.
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I feel very satisfied, very happy...
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Someone said, "God, even when the door is tightly closed, He always opens a glass window for you!" 」
Slave alive! You'll find the answers you're looking for!
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I may be even more miserable than you now, the great sorrows and ups and downs of life, the experiences that everyone else is afraid of, the things that everyone else is careful to avoid, all the things that have happened to me, and now is my lowest point, every day is a torment, it is really a torment, but I still have to grit my teeth and persevere, to wait as a normal person.
I firmly believe that cause and effect is that I have a cause to have an effect, and that tempering is inevitable to endure, and I bear it, and I firmly believe that I have endured it, and there will be good results, and when I endure, I will also reflect on myself.
Ignorance of thoughts.
Believe that man is saved the moment he is abandoned by the world!
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Then listen to the lecture "How to manage a life without regrets".
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Compared to my peers, my life is really miserable now. I'm not married, I don't have a house, I don't have a car, and I personally think I'm miserable.
People of my age have basically already married and had children, and then I am envious of them living in harmony as a family. And due to financial reasons, I have not been married for a long time, let alone have children. It costs so much money to have a child, and there is simply no ability to support a child at the moment.
Although it is normal to say that there is no house in today's society, I am too backward. While everyone else relies on their family for a down payment, I have nothing and I have to rely on myself. You have to save the down payment yourself, don't provide a house, and it is difficult to even save a down payment.
How many years do I have to save for a down payment of 500,000 yuan? Now I can only live in a rented house of dozens of square meters, and it is difficult to even walk in a big stride, and every step needs to be taken. If you don't leave, you will kick over the things in the house, and every time you kick something into the house, I feel very depressed, and when I go to the toilet, it is like a cross-border road.
The car is even more needless to mention, I don't know how old I am to buy a car in my life, and it's very good to have a bus.
The days went by like this, and no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't keep up with the skyrocketing rate of housing prices. It's really hard to have your own home, it's like climbing to the sky. Isn't this kind of life miserable?
I believe that in China, there are countless young people like me, we are all a group of people who are crushed by housing prices, and even our dreams have been suppressed, only for the house to live and die for the house. The worst thing in the world is that there is no life, but just living like us!
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My worst time has passed.
Looking back now, that time was actually the worst time for me, I lost my job, spent all my savings, and my expenses were all out of my family, I fell out of love, I couldn't do anything to recuperate, I was confused, and I was in pain.
Now that I think about it, this is the worst time I've ever lived.
For a normal person, life can actually be lived without being so miserable, for many people, their miserable life is completely self-inflicted, no effort, no progress, no learning, no change, miserable maintenance of the status quo, but also to say how miserable they are, and I found that those who say that life is miserable are those who do not work hard.
But it's not that all of the people who have a miserable life are the above types, like me.
Originally, there was still a short time to celebrate the New Year, I could have taken my girlfriend home for the New Year, and then went to my girlfriend's house after the year, and suddenly I had a fever, of course, the fever was nothing, so I took medicine, but I had a fever the next day, and I didn't take it seriously, after all, the fever was nothing for two days, and then on the third day I still had a fever, so I went to a nearby clinic for an injection, thinking it would be better, but I continued to have a fever, no way, so I had to go to a nearby community hospital.
I went to the hospital for an examination, and said that it was just an infection, and then continued to take injections, and there was no other condition in the body, but I was very tired, and I had a fever, and in the community outpatient clinic, I took an injection, and the fever subsided, and when I pulled it out, I continued to burn, so it lasted for three days, and I found that it was getting more and more serious, so I went to the largest hospital in the city.
Checkup, the doctor let me be hospitalized directly, and told me that it was a very serious disease, so I paid 10,000 yuan for the hospitalization, and I was hospitalized, basically 2,000 yuan a day, and then I did surgery, and then I did surgery, and then I spent the previous hospitalization fee and continued to make up for it, and then I still spent it, no way, and called my father.
After the situation was very good, I was discharged from the hospital, went home to recuperate, took medicine for six months, couldn't do anything during the Chinese New Year, my girlfriend proposed to break up, the previous job was at the beginning of the department, the company recruited a new person to replace me, unemployed, and then went home to rest, until my health improved, came out, it was a few months later, and then I took medicine for half a year, this period is my worst time.
So you ask me how miserable life really is? Life can make you think of how miserable you can be, I still didn't give up when it was the worst, but everything has to start from scratch, even if the previous things are in the past, whether it is feelings, work, body, or making money, it can be regarded as starting from scratch, who hasn't started from scratch, life is not used to compare miserable, life is to move on.
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Many people like to compare themselves with each other, compare with others, how good they live, and how nourishing their lives are. And I want to tell you how miserable my life is.
Seeing that I am almost thirty, I have achieved nothing, I want a career without a career, I want love without love, I want nothing, it is no different from a waste.
I just resigned last month, because I can't stand the random pressure of the leader, I work overtime at every turn, I don't have overtime pay, and I don't say it in advance, I don't let you go after work, I can't go, the leader has never said a word of hard work, as if it should be, so I'm gone, whoever likes to do it, this baby is not to do it.
After wandering around for more than half a month, there was really no food at home, and if I didn't make any money, I would starve to death, so I found another job to earn some money to spend first. But it's only been less than half a month, and I can't pay my salary, so I can only stay up until the 15th of next month, and I have to continue to breathe.
I go out every day, try to be early, so that I have enough time so that I can take the bus to work, avoid spending extra money on taxis, and I can also go to work without being late, and the full attendance bonus is kept.
Three meals a day, I never eat meat, I can eat enough, I don't need to have all the color, flavor and flavor, there is no way at noon, the place of work is far away from home, I can only eat outside, I do it myself in the morning and evening, in order not to be clean and healthy, in order to save the cost of eating, after all, the meals outside are more expensive.
Not to mention what beautiful clothes to buy, what expensive brands, I have not bought more than two hundred clothes, unlike some girls' shoes, many shoe cabinets can not be placed, I only have two pairs of shoes that can be replaced, in my mind, they are versatile, I don't have the capital to consider shoes and clothes, bags with the right or not.
I don't think there are many people who are worse off than me, but I still try to live and try to change my current situation.
High school life was basically miserable, I can be summed up in two words, I didn't have any so-called friends, and I didn't have anyone who could understand me and support me.
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