May 23, 2010 Sincerely ask for help do I want a divorce

The first is that you don't communicate enough, and the second is that you don't have the right attitude towards him, you have a prejudice against your marriage from the beginning, so how can you manage your marriage well, he can't say that he is not a good man, because he knows to bow to you, know to coax you, but the method is not right, you should take the initiative to tell him what you have in your heart, interest and interest can be cultivated, just like feelings, you first correct your opinion of him and your view of your marriage, does he have a good place? Think more about what he is good to you, unless he is not good to you, then this kind of man has no nostalgia, if he has always been very good to you, but there are problems in these aspects, then your marriage is worth you to manage.

There is a period of freshness in marriage, if you only have this kind of problem and file for divorce, then when you run a second marriage, there will also be a period of boredom, overcoming, is your biggest obstacle at present, you can buy some books and discs on the side of sex, if he can't, then you can take the initiative, there are no scruples between husband and wife, it is important to understand his preferences and mood.

What is marriage, marriage is a flower in a greenhouse, 11 years, even if there is no emotion, there should be family affection, don't be self-centered in everything, think more about him, you will get the same return, unless he is not a person, or a hard-hearted person.

Interesting things are the two of you, and you can't blindly complain that the other party has not done enough. If you want to divorce because of this, it will be even more outrageous. The marriage hall requires both husband and wife to work hard to build and manage it with heart.

It's best to communicate, there is no perfect person, and love is the same, since everyone is willing to give birth to a child for you, then I think you should be more tolerant, talk about it, there is no pot that does not take the hurdle, it is really a last resort, and it is also good to get together and disperse.

What should I do if I divorce you, what should I do with my son, I just think about myself, you don't want to think about your son.

A marriage without feelings is no taste in how you live, and it is good to divorce for the sake of the children, at least the children's growth environment can be improved. Parents are the best teachers for their children, it seems that none of you can do it, it is better to take the child away, or give it to her mother! Pity the hearts of parents all over the world.

Marriage is the life of two people, both parties need to mediate, no matter what happens, as long as Shuangfang gives in, talk about it, after all, with children, divorce is not the solution, poor children, I and my husband are not good to you, three children are borne by me alone, I want to divorce, but I think of children... So I can mediate as much as possible, for the sake of the children...

From what you say, it is clear that there is no need for your marriage to be kept. Take your son with you and take him well. Don't think that he is pitiful if he loses his own mother, a family like this is not good for his environment.

Divorce is a matter between two people, as long as the child feels that although his parents are not together, he still has fatherly and maternal love, of course, to do this depends on the self-cultivation of both of you. To do this is not to transfer resentment towards the other person onto the child. Nurture him well.

Maybe her temper is not very good, then you, as a husband, should look for her weaknesses to restrain her and guide her.

Don't divorce because of trivial family matters, there are many, many bad relationships between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in reality, but the probability of divorce for this reason is still very small, because everyone understands that marriage is not love, and it can be divided into points, which also includes too much family affection and responsibility.

To put it simply, the two of you may be able to find a lover to start over, but the most bitter thing is the baby who is not sensible, you give birth to him but can not give him a complete family, you must know that a child who grew up in a divorced family will have certain psychological problems, and some children will even have inferiority complex throughout their lives, feel inferior, feel that they are abandoned by their father or mother...

So I hope you can look at marriage from a mature and rational point of view, and think more about the future from the perspective of your children, after all, this is your responsibility as a father.

A few of the people upstairs spoke very well, and I think everyone really wanted to help you, and said so many pertinent things.

1. Divorce, it's not a big deal, the twisted melon is not sweet;

2. Separate for a period of time first, and if he still insists on divorce at that time, then give up on him;

3. Let him sue, and the court will make a judgment, and you can fight for your rights and interests when the property is divided;

My advice to you consists of two points:

1. Continue to strive for communication, if you can't communicate with both sides, you can use friends to mediate;

2. Ask the adults to come forward to coordinate and deal with it, spread out the problem and let the adults do their own work.

You fought for your happiness, if the result is still a breakup, then there are no regrets, I wish you happiness!

The other party is so resolute in divorcing, don't believe it if you remarry, if you really can't let go of this relationship, the two can agree to separate for a period of time. If the other party still insists after the expiration date, you just let it go, and let him liberate himself. It doesn't have to be.

Everyone has a lot of choices.

If you really can't do it, you can divide it, why do you always want to guard him? I think that since this is the case, it means that your true destiny is not him, but someone else! Let him sue, the division of property can be advantageous, not to say that money is important, but to teach him a lesson, and second, to live more comfortably with more money.

Since he is determined, then you should be happy, and the same is true in front of him, be happy! Isn't it nice to live your own little life and be liberated???

Since that's the case, then why do you want him to despise you, just leave, he must have a woman, if not, he won't treat you like this, do you owe him? Why do so much for him? He will regret it, you don't see yourself as the one that no one wants, you have to be confident, women are not what they are if they are not married, and I have many friends who are not married, why do you want to practice yourself?

Wake up!

If you really can't let go of this relationship, the two can negotiate to separate for a while. Look at the feelings when they are talking, and when the time comes, you still insist on leaving that, forget it.

For children to have a healthy future.

It's obvious that she thinks that the choice to leave you is the right one, she doesn't want to get along with you, you don't have to be amorous, she asks you to go with you The starting point is the same, I hope the child can have a New Year with their parents, to be honest, I hate men like you very much, and summarize your marriage with incompatible personalities, why get married since they are incompatible? Why don't you use contraception before you're sure if you'll be able to live a lifetime? If you have a child, why can't you compromise with her for the sake of the child, and it won't get divorced, right?

A woman can be very emotional when affected by estrogen, especially during pregnancy and breastfeeding, and some of her behaviors and emotions are not under her control. If you do it and even move a woman when she is most vulnerable and needs to be taken care of by a man, she will remember your good for a lifetime, and she will not get divorced, in general, it is not right for a man and a woman to be too careful! Men should be more rational, the more when a woman can't control her emotions, the more he should help her calm down, instead of arguing with her or simply treating it coldly and ignoring others!

This is all a manifestation of your disrespect for the other party, and any woman will get angry when she meets a man who can't communicate well with herself, especially if you still know each other on a blind date, and the hasty marriage relationship itself is not reliable, and divorce is also the retribution of your child's play marriage! How can people who spend their lives together decide casually! Of course, your wife is also at fault, she doesn't know how to refuse, she won't protect herself, but if she can resist letting you use contraception, you won't develop into a divorce with children!

It's better to be friends with your children, and it will also reduce your debt to your children! Learn to appreciate her from a different angle, don't always limit her to your ex-wife, the child's mother's position, you are already strangers in the law, and treating her as a relative and friend is the best choice!

An emotionless marriage is really harmful, I don't want a blind date.

Go ahead, don't hurt Satoko for the sake of face. The three most unpalatable bowls of noodles in life: scene, love and face.

Go is definitely going to go, after all, no matter how big the dispute between the husband and wife is, try not to affect the children, as for the two of you, I think you two still have to talk about it, how you treat her badly in marriage, why she finally chose to divorce, and it has been a year since the matter, you have to figure out whether you still want to reconcile, instead of listening to what others say, but I think you still have feelings, and you also know what is wrong, so the husband can bend and stretch, and do it when he thinks clearly, what is not faceless, Wouldn't it be more face-saving if you lived a happy life, you say? I wish your children a healthy growth and a happy couple.

Go ahead. Use your heart to salvage this relationship, I'm sure she doesn't have a boyfriend, even if it's for the sake of the child. The child is innocent, always remember this sentence.

This is an opportunity. At least your wife doesn't want to spend the New Year alone, you are because you have too many things to take into account, in fact, there is no need to be suspicious, put down the burden, face it calmly, and don't mention the unpleasant things in the past with your wife, Just treat it as if all the unpleasantness in the past did not happen, and bring the children to spend a reunion year together, men should be generous. I wish you all a happy life in the future.

I hope you can go, after all, you already have a daughter, and children are also pitiful, first you go and behave well, maybe you can get along as before, because women are sometimes duplicitous; Second, if you can't get along, it's worth it even if you play with your daughter! Have fun every day!

Go ahead, if you have something to say, make it clear, you are a man, you should take the initiative anyway, the child is the two of you, and it is not a way to keep stiff Think more about the child It is also good to do good things.

First of all, I am very sympathetic to your plight, according to the current laws of our country, the property during the marriage belongs to the joint, and you may not be able to get it for her spending your money! Secondly, if he had an extramarital affair during the marriage, the initiative is indeed in your hands, and you can ask the court not to grant a divorce! If he accuses you of domestic violence, you need to conduct a personal injury evaluation, not what he says!

You need proof to sue her for an extramarital affair! It's hard to forensic in this situation! It's best to consult a lawyer!

It is recommended to read the reply on the 2nd floor carefully.

Since Ken told you.

It means that she still cares about you.

Children are not an obstacle for two people, it doesn't mean that if you have children, you shouldn't get divorced, or if you don't have children, you should get divorced, see if two people still feel it.

If there is, let's be together, a woman has just gotten married, sometimes she is angry, and she is easy to do stupid things, and she accompanies her more, if you can't stand this, you can tell each other frankly, don't hesitate, hesitate, it's easy to make mistakes, and let each other get used to each other.

Take it for yourself, I think we can still be together.

Now that it's all over, it's over.

This dead woman, betrayed me, and had no children anyway... Away from "gone".

If she still really loves you now, and she has no relationship with that man, you shouldn't divorce and give each other a chance.

This is the best and most mature thought.

If you love her deep enough, you will slowly accept it! She shouldn't have told you, but she said it, because she loves you very much, and she thinks that if she loves you very much, she should not hide anything from you, but it makes both of you miserable. In this society, everyone should be equal, is it unforgivable for women to make such mistakes?

Maybe you should be separated from her for a while and think quietly about how much you love her and whether she is worthy of your forgiveness. If you still can't get out of the pain after a period of time (then your wife won't be better off than you), then be decisive, long pain is better than short pain, and give everyone a relief! ~

Are you sure you snubbed him?

Let's see if he has the man's BB!

If anything, it is...

Woman, maybe the man doesn't want him anymore.

Divorce as soon as you don't have children, she was like this when you were young, will you be able to live well in the future? The most important thing as a woman is loyalty, will your friends and buddies know that you are still a man in the future? I'm more machismo, you see, since you posted this post, it proves that you still care about her, so my words are just suggestions.

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3. The guarantor can only sponsor others after five years.

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Neither of them can guarantee for 5 years.

One person can only sponsor two people in a lifetime.

I'm serious about telling you, divorce!

It is precisely because you are too young that you divorce as soon as possible, and it will only be more sad if it drags on for a long time, making your husband hate you even more!

Before you have children, hurry up and end this marriage!

Your husband's heart is not in you, and it is useless for you to keep it.

I have already kicked this kind of man, and I am waiting for him to say divorce!