Ask a married friend for an idea

Fall in love with the second one.

Marry the first!!

I am a woman who has passed the age of her establishment. If you're the kind of person who can't afford to let go, then you don't have to try, just let this relationship over! Marriage is different, family, background, financial resources, quality, doors have to be considered, marriage is not a simple matter of two people, it is the sum of the social relations of two families.

In a marriage with rich material heritage, you, as the hostess, have sufficient motivation to maintain the love of husband and wife and the harmony of the family. With good quality and excellent pedigree inheritance, why should your next generation worry that they can't become talents? On the other hand, if the material foundation is weak and the cultural literacy is low, what can be accomplished by soaking in love bubbles?

The bubble will disappear one day, the aura of love will also be worn out by the trivial things of life, and the poor couple will mourn everything, and in the end it is still a question mark whether they can have marriage?

It depends on what kind of life you want to live, and you can choose your own path.

Move him with your sincerity.

Good for him.

The first one is that feelings can be cultivated slowly. Don't choose the second one, if your family is really like the first, your family background may make the second person feel inferior, his family background will affect his status among your elders and friends, to put it mildly, maybe your friends or elders look at him with a look of contempt, the cruel reality will crush your feelings a little bit. Of course, if he's talented, that's a different story.

Let's be realistic and choose the first one.

Neither is for you.

Choose the first one, and you may turn into decorations to put in the home;

Choose the second one, family conflicts will overwhelm you, getting along with his family is a very real problem, the most important thing is that you say that his character is average.

You're not that old in the city, so why rush to choose between two extremes? Find one that suits you, a lot. Hope it inspires you

Satisfy your curiosity, I'm 31 years old.

If you still want to find a good one you like, you can find a second one!

As for the first one! Introduce it to me 1

Hahahaha.

Neither is chosen.

The first one, too good. Not everyone can go to the wealthy family, and the depth inside is not understood by ordinary people like you and me, don't wade this troubled water.

The second, too. Love is not the whole of life, don't be naïve to think that love can overcome all difficulties, that's the line of the TV series, and his family is not bad, there may be too many contradictions in the future.

Just find someone with normal economic conditions, a little love for each other, and someone who can live.

Let me choose, I'll definitely choose the first, since the second one knows the outcome, why don't I bet on the first one?

Let's take a look at who is with you, after all, it is this person and your life, not his family.

Don't hesitate to pick the second one. I can tell from your language that you like the second one too.

Since you love each other deeply, don't hesitate. It doesn't matter if you are poor, the key is to be ambitious, be good to you, with these two conditions, it is not a problem to make a fortune!

Trust me, that's right!

Haha, don't forget to add points.

If you marry the second one, how can you feel that you are very cheap. But poverty is not for life. Maybe he'll send it.

Marry the 2nd and you're a little sorry for your feelings. But sometimes feelings can be cultivated.

Why do you think you're making up two people, you're writing **?

Getting married is your own business. Make up your own mind.

It should be with the former, my husband and I often quarrel about his family's affairs. In fact, because this hurt my relationship with him, I may feel that nothing matters before marriage, but when I really get married, it is not just a matter of the two of them, it is related to the family, you can't not see his parents, but when you face his parents, you will feel wronged. At least I didn't think it was anything when I married my husband, but when it happened, I often felt bad about his father's attitude towards me.

But I can't quarrel with his father, I'm very uncomfortable in my heart, and I will be angry with my husband, which is very bad for my relationship with him.

And the former you didn't marry him, and you don't know what it will be like after marriage. Even if it's not good, at least the money can be a small investment for your parents or you.

Let's be realistic.

I choose the one that is thick.

My dear, please don't choose the second one, I feel that you have no self-esteem in front of them.