Love problems . Wonder what he thinks.

What's he doing, I'm a high school student who just graduated this year, I have been in love for more than two years in high school, divided into two or three times, and it's the same as you, he has a lot of excuses, always hurting people, I cared about him at the time, but now looking back, I'm really stupid, at that time I was also guessing his thoughts, I couldn't keep my soul, and I delayed a lot of study time, although I took a second book, but I was very unwilling. If you love him, then wait until after graduation, let the feelings settle down, if he really loves you, he will not leave you, if not, then you will leave him decisively, he loves to do whatever he wants, don't care about him anymore. Remember that a girl's youth is limited, don't hurt your heart for someone who doesn't love you, and learn to love yourself.

Actually, many times, emotionally, it's not worth it.

If you really like him, be bold and ask him and tell him. Of course, you must figure it out for yourself, he is really so worthy of your pursuit and cherishing... Understand that love is not everything.

I think he doesn't love you anymore, and if he does you, he won't be tired of perfunctory you.

I don't know much about him, and I can't give you a punctual answer.

Don't be a man, he's ruthless.

First question: How much is the gap between you?

If the gap is too big, be cautious. For example, if your conditions are much better than the other party, you should seriously think about whether it is worth it. For example, if your conditions are much worse than the other party, you should think about whether the other party will take a fancy to you?

These are all very realistic and objective issues, and we have to think about them, and we cannot ignore them. But some people just tend to ignore this. They believe that loving someone should not take these things into account.

The second question is Mo Changfu: If Xunyan encounters obstacles, how will you deal with them?

When it comes to falling in love, there will inevitably be a series of obstacles. And how to deal with it, we need to think about it in advance. There are a lot of people who haven't thought about it.

And when that happens, they're going to be out of order. In this way, one's love will be hindered. And it can also take a toll on your self-confidence.

Self-confidence has taken a hit, and it is natural that there will be a lot of trouble for our subsequent relationship.

It's a bad cycle, so we should think about it before we fall in love. Think of all the questions that should come to mind. If possible, it's a good idea to have some coping strategies.

When you fall in love, you will inevitably encounter a breakup. No one can guarantee how far you and this person will go.

Therefore, we also have to think about whether we can face all this pain if we break up. Actually, there's no need to think too much. As long as you have the faith to face it.

Communication, but not all of them ask the other party what they are thinking, but through ordinary interactions, slowly understand each other, then the other party's habits and daily thoughts should be able to know some. But we are not roundworms in each other's stomachs, it is impossible to know completely, and it is not interesting to know completely, and there must always be a sense of mystery.

I like it reluctantly, especially if there is another unclear and tattered relationship in **, even if there is no possibility, it is always like a man's back in the new relationship. I used to be exactly like you, I chose to adapt to people who liked me, and the consequences were very bad. I'm usually very opposed to this kind of personal experience as an argument for everything, maybe you're a much better person than me, maybe you'll be happy in the end.

But from a young age everyone knows not to lie. If you don't like another person in your heart, then it's better not to lie to her.

Saying that I like and being liked are two completely different emotions, and the development trend and the results will be different. If you can't love, please give up, if you can't love, please understand the truth that it is better to lack than to abuse, because abuse has not brought you any good results, it is better to wait for the opportunity to find what you like to treat correctly again, and brew a good result. It's going to be nice in the end.

Nothing can be reluctant, and I hope that everyone can meet people who have a close relationship with each other.

I think many boys and girls have this kind of problem, the first is because of curiosity, and the second is because of the experience of looking at love. However, I think that these problems with some unfamiliar boys are too direct, as a girl, you always have to contact boys, you should analyze objectively, routines! It's a pity that I know now that it's a step too late.

Because the emotional intelligence is not high enough, the routine is not deep enough, you will lose some suitors, I met a boy who will ask the girl for a few months when he sees all the blind date girls, and he said that he doesn't want to be a girl who has talked too many times as a pick-up man.

You can have a good talk with him, communicate often, and then understand what he thinks in his heart. This can benefit your relationship.

You can understand him through a temptation on the side, or you can communicate with him head-on, so that you can open your hearts to each other and understand each other's true state.

From the changes in the other party's face, you can roughly know what the other party is thinking, and know what the other party is playing.

When you are in love, if you want to know what the other person really thinks, you can't guess, you have to ask the other person to know.

I think don't suspect each other when you are in love, you can take the initiative to ask each other what you think in your heart, and I think if the other party loves you, they will take the initiative to tell you.

Know enough. Enough communication and a long time together can understand the other person's thoughts from the other party's words and deeds.

I think it's important to communicate with each other often to understand what is going on in the other person's mind and what kind of person the other person is.

Chat with each other. When chatting, you can know what is going on in the other person's mind.