The conundrum of getting along for two years! On the question of getting along

Updated on psychology 2024-05-27
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In a complicated mind, it is recommended that you take care of your spirit and do not let these irrelevant thoughts and psychology disrupt your normal work and study. It is worth noting whether you have ever thought about being with him forever, you can be sure that you have always had him in your heart, this gap should be fundamentally recognized, and it is crucial to decide whether to be with him forever, and you will naturally get rid of this unspeakable problem after deciding. Sometimes the decision is necessary, and happiness and heartache may occur after the decision, but in short, it depends on your own thoughts, and the bell needs to be tied to the bell.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is inevitable that young people will make mistakes sometimes, but what matters is his attitude towards you. What do you know about him after being together for so long, this is when you have to see if he is true to you now.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Since he can tell you this, it shows that he still has a sincere heart for you. If you really like him, why care about the past? Young people are ignorant, if you think this thing is unforgivable. Then God destined you to end your fate with him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Sometimes, women are indeed too sensitive, but it doesn't mean that everything can be denied with this!

    This man is not untrustworthy, but please think carefully about his usual behavior and behavior! Think clearly!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That means he loves you! If he didn't love you, he wouldn't tell you that! That's how my boyfriend is!

    I'm sure he loves you! If you love him, you shouldn't be disgusted by his past! You love him now, and it's when he's young!

    I should be just like you! But then I realized that he loved me and told me! You try to forget about his past!

    If you don't love him, give it up! Think about it! Hold on to it!

    Have fun!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Forget the past, grasp the present, and look forward to the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Do you know that young and frivolous, impulsiveness, this should be a unique quality of young people, it can also be said to be a sign of their immaturity, there are many people who have made mistakes before, can it be said that those people are unforgivable? I think the key to getting along with two people is to trust each other, and besides, to listen to what is in your heart, mutual suspicion will only take a blow to the relationship. Let's avoid those unnecessary worries, look at his daily performance, I think a lot of things can be reflected in the small things in daily life, don't focus on those unnecessary suspicions.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Then it depends on what causes you, find the reason from yourself, sometimes it is also an environmental factor, you are not suitable for the people or things around the situation, but there is always a process, don't be too distressed, sort out your own mood for the hungry year, slowly adapt to it, make some friends, and your situation will not be so difficult. Hope it helps.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is immoral to leave, at least you should wait silently until you can't hold on.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you are a person who knows how to love, love will guide you in what to do, and if you don't know what love is, you can make any choice because you yourself have always been self-righteous.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Brother only gives you one sentence: when you can't change others, you must try to change yourself.

    The Chinese believe in heaven and earth, and heaven refers to the time of heaven, which is something given to us by God. Land refers to the geographical advantage, which refers to the environment in which a person lives. It can be seen that the first two are things that are difficult to change, and only people can change, that is, ourselves.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    One coexists, iron ions are hydrolyzed under alkaline conditions, and two do not coexist, and barium ions are bicarbonate.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Divide it.,Men still have to focus on their careers.,Actually, she's right.,It's a task to greet and eat with her every day.,Because you don't think it's fun at all.。。。 Do what you want to do and are willing to do, don't make yourself physically and mentally exhausted for her, you two can't actually say who is right and who is wrong, it's just really not suitable, you are in the rising period of your career, she is in the fantasy period of love, how can people in these two periods be together? Let her go and let yourself go, feel at ease to do your job well, work ** and public welfare, it's really not easy, you can also see that you are a great buddy, there will be women who understand and support you in the future, when you no longer feel that love is a task and a burden, that is your feelings.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It shows that the two of you have different lifestyles, and she is not considerate of you, so let's break up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The first rule of getting along with the teacher is, don't contradict the teacher, be sure to listen to the teacher when he speaks, even if you don't like it, you have to pretend to be very serious, pretend that the teacher is right, after a few times, the teacher will definitely be different to you!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Oh, yes! Whoever calls him an elder will directly restrain you.

    The official university level can crush people to death, and they must not offend any teacher.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Unreconciled contradictions, or unforgivable mistakes, it's better to break up, it's hard to get together, it's not a matter of principle, you can forgive him, or don't tell him, silently give him a deadline in your heart, and give yourself a time to consider, during this time, what he does can't satisfy you, or isn't good enough for you, it's just separation.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The key depends on what you think, personally.

    If the question doesn't involve the bottom line of what you expect from him, you can try to change and persuade to reach a reconciled situation.

    If the problem has involved your bottom line, I think it is better to separate as soon as possible, because you tolerate serious problems, and it is inevitable that there will be times when you are sad

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are big and small problems, if it is a matter of principle, I will personally break up, a person who is so close to you, can't even figure out his own principles, can't understand, then what's the point of the two being together?

    Of course, your own interpretation is also very important, you consider your own feelings and see for yourself, here I can only give you some advice, and the final decision is still yours. Girls have their own ideas, and I think it's essential, and it's a personal charm, so good luck!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'm mm, I'm 1 year older than you, and I know your mood very well.

    I'm 16 years old, and I've been with my first love for 2 years, and I feel the same mood as you.

    My first love started to treat me badly when I was dating for more than 1 year.

    I don't know if you usually think he's not good, so you relax your love and care for him.

    Causing you to lose your temper all the time and make him think that you are vexatious.

    Or you always tell him that your parents have opinions about him, and the female friend around him has found a boyfriend with good conditions, which causes him to be very stressed and unhappy.

    My advice is for you to break up for half a year or a year.

    You know, after my first love and I made up our minds to break up, in less than half a year, he began to be very kind to me, buying me this and that, just hoping that I could go back, until now, it has lasted for 3 or 4 years...

    You're going to have to give him something to look at!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If it's not a disagreement, it's just a minor problem, then it's not necessary. What couple doesn't quarrel!If it's substantial, it's good for each other to break up, but if not, it's good to manage it!Finally, I wish the landlord happiness....

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Let's see what your problem is, it's not a matter of principle, who wouldn't have it, the most important thing for the two to interact is understanding and tolerance, give each other more time and opportunities.

    Good luck.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Look at the severity of the problem, lz don't make it clear, how can people give you advice

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Two years can see whether the two parties are compatible and whether the relationship can continue. If after two years, you recall more pain than joy, it is better to give up and not waste more time. If you cherish it very much, it is better to improve yourself and live a good talk with him, talk about the future, and plan your future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Breaking up isn't necessarily the only way out. But if you can't even get along with each other anymore, maybe breaking up is a relief for everyone.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Look at yourself, look at him... Mainly on both sides... Let's see who is Zhou Yu and who is Huang Gai...

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It depends on what is wrong, if it is not a serious problem, or don't break up so easily

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you feel pain, you lose the meaning of being together.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If it's really irretrievable, just divide it, there's no point in forcing it to stay.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    That's going to see what's wrong, but if you're sure you love him very much, don't break up, I don't think there's any problem that can't be solved, if he loves you too, you'll be happy, if he doesn't love you, no matter how long you've been dating, you should let go.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Having a history of miscarriage will not affect your future, it doesn't matter, the key is whether you are nostalgic for the current relationship, in fact, love will slowly transform into family affection, there is no eternal love, only eternal affection.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's up to you, the weight of his heart in you, in addition to how serious the problem is, whether this problem is beyond your bottom line and can it be recovered? You'll find the answer.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If something goes wrong, don't bring it into your marriage.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Definitely, then don't break up.

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