Why is the first confessor always passive?

If you want to love easily, find someone who loves you more than you love her! If you are a person who pursues perfection and dares to challenge, then choose someone who loves her more than she loves you! Confess first to prove that you attach great importance to this love and the other party, naturally most of them are passive!

However, everything is not absolute, the feeling of the other party in the early stage is important, but the cultivation in the later stage is even better.

After confessing, I feel passive, which may require an adaptation period, <> the girl I liked that year, I will always silently pay attention to her every move, maybe she didn't notice it! When I was about to graduate, I was hesitating whether to confess to her, and just as I was hesitating, the boy she liked confessed to her, but for some reason, she didn't accept the boy's confession.

I was at a loss and didn't have the courage to confess to the girl. Because the sight of the boy was a failure. It turned out that when I was paying attention to her, she was also paying attention to his every move, but I didn't notice it, and then after a while, it wasn't you who confessed to her.

But he didn't refuse either, nor did he agree. Anyway, since you, I feel a little uncomfortable. I feel very passive.

After a long time, it feels meaningless.

In my opinion,After confessing, I feel a little passive, which is normal.

My little sister's name is Sen Sen, and Sen Sen is a cute and laughing girl. Sen Sen's previous boyfriend was a relatively introverted person, but very handsome, Sen Sen liked this boy very much, at a friend party, everyone talked about the topic was relatively happy, and the atmosphere was also very good, Sen Sen confessed to the boy in front of everyone, and the boy agreed. After that, every time he looked for a boy, Sen Sen went to him, and Sen Sen also felt a little passive, feeling that this relationship was being led by himself, and he was looking for a boy by himself, and he was also very confused.

In my opinion, the reasons why Sen Sen feels passive after confessing are:

1.Feel your ownThe confession did not receive an effective response and did not meet the expectations of the self. If you feel this way, contact to lower your expectations, after all, everyone's personality is different, and more communication can solve the doubts of both parties

2.Every time you take the initiative, it's yourself, and when the boy doesn't take the initiative. So in this case, you can make an agreement with the boy in the future communication, if you encounter an interesting place or something delicious, remember to share, and everyone will go together, then he should understand that he can take the initiative.

If you feel passive after confessing, then you may need to adjust your expectations of your partner, who may not be as active as you imaginedIf you really like it, it's okay to pay more, as long as you can get an effective response for your efforts, after all, love is mutual.

After that, I did feel a little sad, because you took the initiative to show your hole cards, the boy should be thick-skinned, and it doesn't matter if he fails to confess, he can continue to chat normally.

If you feel passive after confessing, I personally feel that this is a phenomenon that people will have, don't be afraid, don't worry, don't worry about it, don't worry about it, it's completely unnecessary.

No, you can be active or passive after confessing, no matter what, you have a relationship.

After confessing, it depends on whether the other party accepts it? What if you accept that you are going to plan to start dating? All of these things.

So this thing is not passive, not passive, but it also depends on whether you are male or female? It's a bit different.

Regardless of whether you are passive or active, as long as the two of you can cherish each other.