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I don't think it's because you're stingy that you can't think about it, the real reason is because your money is irregularly controlled, unplanned, and maybe the economic conditions are not good! You don't have a high income, and your daily living expenses are relatively large, which leads you to this!
Let me tell you that you can tell from the appearance whether a person is a stingy person or not, human eyebrows, there are examples around me, it's true! If the distance between your two eyebrows is as wide as 2 fingers, then you are a very generous person, if they are connected or less than a finger, then you are a stingy person, and between a finger and 2 fingers is an ordinary person, sometimes stingy, sometimes generous!
I know you're afraid that money isn't spent on the blade, and you're afraid of wasting it, so you need to plan! If you plan how you want to spend your money, you can spend it less carefully!
I hope you can give me more points! Hehe! Thank you!
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Money is something outside the body, and you don't need to use it for funerals when you earn money?
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It's just a matter of whether it's worth it or not.
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A good friend can't be made at any time "Acquaintances are all over the world, how many people can you know?" 》
But clothes are readily available, which of the two would you choose?
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I'll give you an example of this question: Now that you're sick, do you think you should let him continue to worsen and have sequelae or buy medicine to cure it? Needless to say, you would choose the latter; The same friend is like a small illness in our life, you may lose a lot without spending money, and spending money may change the fate of a lifetime
Money gathers people scatter, money scatters people gather; The pros and cons are up to you.
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1.Understand their motivations.
Try to understand whether the reason why these people are greedy for small things is because of financial difficulties, habit problems, or other reasons. Understanding motivations can help you better cope with their behavior.
2.Emphasis on value norms.
In your interactions, you should always express your values and ethics to show your disapproval of petty behavior. This can restrain the other person's behavior to a certain extent, so that they understand that you will not meet their unreasonable demands.
3.Limit the frequency of exposure.
For those who are accustomed to being greedy for small things, you can appropriately limit the frequency and time of contact with them to reduce their chances of exploitation. Be selective in reaching out to them when you need or are interested. It is possible to distance the person appropriately and avoid too much contact with them to reduce their impact on your life.
4.Render good for evil.
You don't have to reciprocate their petty behavior. You can give a certain amount of care and help at the right time to show your generosity, and at the same time make the other party realize what is the normal way of communication. This could have a more positive impact.
5.Seek support.
When dealing with people who are greedy for small bargains, it is important to seek the support of friends, family, or colleagues. Share your feelings with them, ask for their advice and talk to them for help. We must learn to say "no" firmly to unreasonable or overstepping demands.
Don't compromise easily because of relationships or other factors, otherwise it will only make the other person more advantageous.
6.Change your mindset.
The most important thing for Li Chang to deal with people who love to be cheap is to adjust his mentality. Don't be annoyed or upset by their petty behavior, but keep your heart at peace and tolerance. Understand that the other person's thoughts are not something to show off or learn from, so that their pettiness and subtlety will not have much of an impact on your heart.
The important thing is to focus on your own life and not be easily influenced by the outside world.
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