How can you not be tempted, how can you not be tempted?

If you have given your heart out, you will not be tempted. Some people see through the love of the red world and choose a belief as spiritual sustenance, which is also a way to give their hearts.

Of course, motivation is the most beautiful and basic emotion of every human being, and there is no need to be afraid to escape, but if you are still a student and young, you still have to focus on learning.

First love is ignorant, and it is also the purest and most beautiful, but it is also immature, easily injured, and difficult to have results, so first of all, you must clearly understand this feeling and choose the right way rationally. Secondly, you can choose to keep that feeling in your heart, maintain a good and pure relationship with your classmates, make progress together, and keep an appropriate distance when you feel that you can't control yourself, after all, there is a difference between men and women, which is also the distance of mutual respect between classmates. Finally, you can reminisce about this period of youth together in a few years (university), and if you still maintain your original vision, you can consider the possibility of further development.

Finally, remember that if someone who really cares about you and likes you, they will not force you to want to have an abnormal relationship with you, and you cannot confuse impulse with love.

If you are already tempted, this question is meaningless, what you have to think about is not this, but what to do after you are tempted.

The person who will ask this question may already have his heart set on whom.

The Buddha taught us: "All things are like dreams, such as dreams and bubbles, such as dew and electricity, and should be viewed as such" Everything in the world ends in impermanence, but we can't understand this truth through the Dharma, and the false is true, and the mind has been busy for what we have, until we get old and end up in sickness, this is our sorrow, but we can't see through this suffering, and we are happy with what we have, but the end is bitter, no one will escape, only through the Dharma to understand ourselves, understand the environment in which we live, and understand the Zen machine in life!

Everyone has a love for beauty. Whether it's the scenery, the food or the beauty. If you don't want to be tempted, you can only do it with an inanimate object like a stone.

People like to pursue beautiful things, in fact, this is human nature, or all the instinctive reactions of nerves to this, if you want not to be moved, either be a person without emotions, or have ta, there is no other way.

What's so bad about heartbeat, it can stimulate personal motivation for Yanxiang, so that the jujube that has lived in it will be more exciting, isn't it?

As long as you look down on everything, understand your heart, and see your own nature, you can grasp your own heart, and you can not be moved, no matter how hard you worked before. We know that there is day and dark, and that there is nothing to rejoice in when it is dawn, and there is nothing to suffer when it is dark, and we don't care about these things at all, and our hearts are not affected. If a person does not know that there is day and night, and it suddenly gets dark, or suddenly it is bright, he will be affected, and this is the heartbeat.

Why suppress your heart?

I think as long as it's not a deformed love, as long as both people are single, it's fair and open, this year, to meet a person you like, how difficult it is, there is this opportunity, of course, seize it immediately.

If you have to suppress it, then it's actually not difficult, and staying away from him is the best way. Don't deliberately inquire about him, don't participate in his circle of friends, have no intersection at work, in short, cut off all contact with him, so naturally I won't be moved. If it will, then stay farther away, take a longer time, and then you will find that when you think of this person, you can't even remember the name.

Intentionally stay away, don't see or hear, and think in your heart that that person is not suitable for me, and there will be a better appearance, so that you won't easily like people.

Intentionally stay away, don't see or hear, think in your heart that that person is not suitable for me, there will be a better appearance, and I guess I won't like people easily.

Heartbeat is a very important thing, but it is not necessary.

I always think that falling in love and getting married are two different things, even if there are a lot of people from school uniforms to wedding dresses, or from meeting but getting married, I think they are very good at dealing with the relationship between love and marriage.

To put it simply, from love to marriage, there must be sufficient external conditions, and the two must have enough ability to deal with the world and a consensus in life.

Since love does not account for a high proportion of marriage, blind dates for the purpose of marriage often do not account for a large proportion. But this does not prevent the importance of its existence.

In fact, this is like reading for life, and you will feel that the real meaning of reading is to live several times more than others. And this kind of fun is dispensable for many people, but they feel that something is missing.

The same is true for heartbeat, if a marriage is not heartbeat, you have to use other ways to meet your emotional needs. But the heart or reading has a strong irreplaceability.

Therefore, most of today's blind dates with marriage as a sign are probably not complete realistic value exchanges. Emotional value is also a very important variable, and happiness itself has its meaning.

Therefore, in married life, heartbeat is another kind of life retreat, which will also be mixed in life, promoting the integrity of life and the orderliness of life.

It's a very important part.

But without it, life will not collapse completely, and people will use other ways to avoid imbalance in their lives.

So it's not necessary.

I'm still paranoid that heartbeat is instantaneous, but feelings can be cultivated. But in the end, all feelings are probably family affection, and at that time, heartbeat may not be so important in your heart.

Summary. Hello, do not seek, do not admire, do not think about the past, do not think about the future, do not judge good and bad, right and wrong, gain and loss, reputation, life and death, success or failure, do not be lazy and idle, only live in the present, do a good job in the present, immersed in the flow. Feel the breath, the body, the nature.

Hello, do not seek, do not admire, do not think about the past, do not think about the future, do not judge good and bad, right and wrong, gain and loss, reputation, life and death, success or failure, do not be lazy and idle feasts, only live in the present, do a good job of seeing the silver in front of the silver, immersed in the flow. Feel the breath, the body, the nature.

God's perspective observes one's own thoughts and emotions. Slow down everything in your life.

Set a goal for yourself in life, find a job you are interested in and go in this direction, which will reduce the chance of emotional Wang Chenxiang. It's impossible not to be emotional, if you have feelings for a person, you can't be emotional, the word emotion is difficult to say, and it is very troublesome to control it, and if you don't have emotion, maybe only a cold heart can do it. If you want to know how to be unmoved in a pile of men, that is, put your mind on studying, or on your brother's work, and don't look at them carefully at all, you will naturally be easily emotional if you see too much.

Summary. How not to be emotional.

I don't want to be emotional anymore.

And it may be because you have been hurt a lot in your relationship, so you are completely disappointed in your relationship.

When I find out that others flirt, I will think about it.

If that's the case, then it's probably because your emotional experience may not be very much, or you're very eager for others to notice you.

It's too easy to give affection.

Yes. How can you be unemotional?

If you really want to stop being emotional, no longer thinking about feelings, then you have to be more rational about feelings, you have to know and tell yourself that others flirt with you, they have a purpose, and they won't be serious, just play with you, that is, tell yourself that they won't take themselves seriously.

If he would be serious about himself, he wouldn't let you do this.

Are you saying that I still crave love?

If he loved me, he wouldn't make me think about it, would he?

Yes, you are very eager for someone to care about you, someone to love you, and someone to put you in your heart. Therefore, it is very easy for you to be affected by other people's words and sentences.

If a person really loves you, he will make it very clear to you that he cares about you and loves you very much, and will not let you think about it.