It is related to the future survival problem, and I ask you to help solve it

I think that no matter where you are in Shijiazhuang, the treatment is almost the same (in a city of the same grade). People want to change themselves, it's not that you don't fit, but you yourself think it's not suitable, don't you? The salary is low, don't look at the high master.

It's not that you won't be given a salary increase. It's best to find a job that you like, don't be afraid of low wages, most people also mix up like this, work hard and strive for a salary increase. It's much easier than a job I don't like.

Don't rush, as long as you have faith, everything will fall into place. Don't take one step to the sky at first, in fact, I still want you to do your own business. Because I've been working for several years.

It's only 3,000 yuan, and I really want to end my part-time job as soon as possible. And all the plans are under control. I think a person's success can definitely succeed as long as his goals are reasonable, clear, and persistent.

Bless you!!

I'm introverted like you and not good at talking, graduated from the computer major, the teacher taught things can not come up and down, I used to do after-sales service maintenance, only half a year, the reason is that speaking is knowledge, not three or two days to say that it is good, in addition to being born. I am now working as a workshop worker in a mobile phone accessories factory, about 1200 a month, but I am very content. It's not comfortable, it's another intention, because I am studying my profession and learning to be proficient in computers while working, and at this stage I am not looking for a job for money, but for accumulating experience.

With experience and technology, you don't have to worry about finding a job that suits you.

Instead of hitting you, you ask yourself what you can do? Interested in what?

The most basic thing to do is to do a line of love, and you can't do anything well in this state.

Money is not something that can be earned easily.

I am interested in asking people to see how hard they work.

I am also a computer worker, and I worked in Shijiazhuang during my school years, with a monthly salary of more than 4,000.

It's mine.

I also have classmates like you, the third batch of students are also computer science is really difficult to find the right and suitable job, and now they all talk about employment first and then choose a career, so I think just graduated college students should not aim too high, otherwise they will not be able to adapt to society.

The salary level in Shijiazhuang is just graduated, and the undergraduate graduates said that it should be between 800-1000, so I told you that if you go to business, the salary will be very high, but that way of working is not suitable for you, so I think you should find a job that suits your own way of working, such as doing office back-office, there are a lot of this kind of work, you have to grasp every job fair around you and actively participate in it I am also from Shijiazhuang I also graduated this year and have found a job So I think it is not difficult to find a job The key is to believe in yourself!

You can email me and maybe I can help you!

There are too many college students like you who want to eat a fat man in one bite, what is the meaning of contented people who are always happy!? I was good in school, but I didn't love my major! Will you be able to do your job well in any position in the future?

Go home and wait for the pie to drop.

Junior high school students are starting to think about falling in love? Let's study hard! Many people's grades will have a big improvement in the third year of junior high school, because the third year of junior high school is very systematic review, so if your current grades have not entered that safe zone, don't worry and give up, just follow the teacher to review well in the third year of junior high school, but don't think that the grades can have a qualitative leap.

Also, it is necessary to make up for their weak subjects, and many people end up planting in their relatively weak subjects... My junior high school and high school are to follow the teacher well, the teacher's assignment to do the homework seriously, when it is time to study on self-study, I remember that there is a lot of homework in junior high school, there are very few people who can really do it seriously, and you can't deceive yourself in learning... Give you advice, don't fall in love in high school, you said that if your heart is divided, can you still study well? In fact, junior high school students should still have free time to play basketball.,I'm the kind of type that learns to learn crazy.,Play and play crazy.,Take the college entrance examination and go straight to watch TV series... Easy to learn, easy to play, there must be a way to learn, but what I emphasize the most is the 40 minutes of class... Don't desert, follow the teacher's train of thought, but also learn to think for yourself, when the teacher hasn't spoken, you know what the teacher is going to say, or when you have a simpler way than the teacher, you will be very happy... Learning is actually a lot of fun, so enjiy it!When I got to university, I really missed my studies and life in middle school, so I envy you...

Junior high school students? Love? Save it, you don't want to go to school and don't read my sister was the same as you back then, but I seem to be a little miserable, I have been monopolizing the first grade for many years, and I am the last Later, I suddenly realized that with the help of the power of the sun and the moon, I was finally admitted to high school, and then to university, and then, I will be in the cup You can do it yourself.

It's okay, there's nothing wrong with liking you, as long as you stand firm, nothing will happen! ~！

Since I don't want to lose, then prove that there are feelings, faults, temporary pain, missed permanent regrets, my quotes haha, 200 points for me?

You can't teach her to be unfaithful to her boyfriend, don't blame you for being ruthless, don't talk to her, you still have a girlfriend isn't, other girls don't care about one more, one less, anyway, one day a woman suddenly said to me that she wanted to marry me, not particularly familiar, I don't really know... Weigh it yourself.

I think she might be very dependent on you now.

It's also possible that she doesn't get along well with her partner and says those things to you online. I won't talk about the specific analysis.

Now, I don't suggest you apologize to her all the time. Why, don't you change the conversation, since she said she wanted to marry you, then why didn't you ask her why she wanted to marry you. If you are a friend, you should find a way to find out if there is something wrong with her to say these things to you.

If she is at odds with her boyfriend, you can dissuade her. Anyway, it would be best if it could solve the problem.

If you can't ask anything, think of something else first. You can say, "The person who marries me requires a lot of conditions."

For example, you should be good at school. "You can also mention other conditions, which must be something that she is capable of achieving and that is good for her. Wouldn't this be better for her future development?

Remember, if you really treat her as a good friend, you have to get to know her, at least do something for her.

Ambiguous will only embarrass everyone!

You can also continue to be ambiguous, but the city may be lost, so it's better to be estranged!

The distance is widened, and the ambiguity is gone!

It's obvious that she's a woman who is too prodigal and talks too much, you're not at all wrong, why is she angry with the girl.

I really want to get two hundred points.

Give me extra points first.

I'll tell you how

Do you know why she's angry? Because she felt embarrassed! I said I was going to marry you, but you were very serious about her, so she would be angry! She said her mom came because she really didn't want to hear you at the time, maybe it would save some face.

I think you should say: When is the ring ready, it's time to pass the door! (Of course, this is also a joke) if she still ignores you and you apologize repeatedly, then show her the question you posted on the Internet. If you still ignore it, you might as well give up.

Online dating is not advisable, or cherish love in reality, you may be too sensitive to this problem, because girls are sometimes vexatious and neurotic, so ignore her, just wait for the next time you talk, unless you want to give yourself a relationship entanglement.

Tell her what you really think! Just do what you have to do Instead of giving her the illusion of hope, it is better to let him die. Long pain is better than short pain

It's okay, it'll be fine in a few days, no, you watch. I'm betting with you, haha.

If you continue to contact, there will be a chance.

She may be jokingly tempting to be with you, and may find that you are a better fit for her.

This kind of time. It's up to you.

Do you want to be friends or lovers with her?

This affects your later development

She seems to have a crush on you now.

But you said, "Okay, that's right.""

She probably felt a chill. It's a little bit of a broken love, a little cold, if you really only treat her as a good friend. You have to make it clear to her sooner or she will fall in love with you. That's it.

You want to redeem this good friend's words. Just say to her: I'm sorry. Did I hurt you last time I spoke? "Then show her how you feel like she's just a good friend. Anything else to ask?

Rest assured, she will definitely be a good friend of you.

You should send her an email to explain your situation and ask her why she is ignoring you. She must have a reason. Because if she really doesn't want to pay attention to you, she can put you on the blacklist, and her failure to do so shows that she is not angry with you and still treats you as a good friend.

You have to hurry, slow down may affect the previous friendship between the two of you.

The only way to save you: to tell the truth!!

Self-respect! It's about my sister's future!

Can escaping and lying solve the problem!!

You, as an older sister or elder brother, should teach your sister correctly!!

It's okay to pretend to say it's sick!!

This can be delayed for a while, and then you can hurry up and do it!!

Tomorrow at school, buy a newspaper at the kiosk. Ask your newsstand grandpa or grandma to sign it for you. Hehe.

May the Lord bless you, poor child.

Hey, hey, hey, everyone has this experience, this is a good memory in life, let him solve it himself, life is inherently colorful.

You flew the rolls over and saved you.

Eh, you pull the homework for me, I want to help you, I will sign.

It really can't seem to be helped, God forbid.

Your future is not in other people's mouths, but in your hands, work hard!

In fact, the problem is very simple, if you don't love her, then let her go, a woman's youth is limited, don't delay her youth, let the people who really love her cherish her.

But if you love her, then of course you have to be with her, and you have to do your best to give her happiness. No one can stop you from loving each other, and the only one who can separate you is yourself. As long as you have the determination to be together forever and the courage to face any difficulties together, there is nothing to fear.

It is not easy for two people to get together from acquaintance, acquaintance, love, and finally come together, don't give up easily for some small problems, so that you will only regret it later. Take out your courage, work hard together, work hard for your happiness, come on!

Hehe, when I see your question, I want to pick up the sentence, "My future is not a dream, I live every minute seriously, my future is not a dream."

Sorry, a little distracted, looking at everyone's answers, let me have a feeling, here is the answer to the question, and not the writing of the paper, is it who writes the sky whose answer is the best? Something practical for you.

There is a very successful example around me, a friend loves her girlfriend very much, but there is a barrier from the woman's parents, which once made my friend hold back, but after a year, the two are ready to get married.

During this period, the efforts of both men and women are indispensable, if the feelings of two people really reach the point that no one can do without each other, then the union becomes inevitable, although the family is a person from the past, but the times are different, they cannot understand the psychology of this generation.

The emotion between the two of you will determine everything in the future, the resistance of the family, the separation between the two places, the level of education, can not pose a threat, the key is to see if there is a firm belief between you to be together, if you have seriously considered it, feel the need to continue to walk, and be firm undoubtedly, then the two will combine sooner or later, if you don't have that confidence, then follow Luo Yangluo's English, if you feel that you will not be able to be together, how can you say forever.

Of course, I can't stop continuing to communicate with her family as an adult.

It doesn't seem like it's hard to carry your family behind your back.

If the relationship is broken, it will be a pity to recall it later.

You don't have to break up, if your relationship is really because of her family's problems, you shouldn't give up, if you give up now, it means that her family is right, you can maintain a long-distance relationship while waiting for her to graduate from high school while repairing the relationship with her family.

Actually, you should know what to do, but you're a little scared.

If you're afraid now, you'll regret it later.

Continue with her.

Who knows what will happen in the future.

Maybe what's going to happen to you.

Make a career.

Let them see.

Take this matter as a test of everyone's love, be a man, especially a person who has been out of social work, more mature than his girlfriend, needless to retaliate with, ignore others, wait for her to graduate from high school, use time, love, it turns out to show her parents, the most important thing is that you grow personally, have a good job, and have a high salary, otherwise, how can you pass the level of other parents? Love will always end without bread support.