My girlfriend mentioned to me that I used to be very good to my ex boyfriend, and I felt uncomfortab

Since she told you that she was very good to her ex-boyfriend before, she was honest with each other, so you have to be tolerant, in fact, you can see that he is very good to you, from this point of view, you care about her very much, but at the same time, it shows that you are stingy, so change it, you will be happy.

Well... Both of you are at fault. You shouldn't always compare yourself to his ex-boyfriend, compare, sometimes sulk at yourself, why bother? She shouldn't always bring up the past, and since they're already separated, why bother recalling it? You talk to her, don't mention her ex-boyfriend again.

Men should be generous and just quarrel over this little thing, so if your girlfriend meets up with her ex-boyfriend for a meal, aren't you going to break up with her? And women also like men to be generous, as long as they don't cross the line.

Girls just love to play, the next time she says this, you ask her, are you happy to see me jealous?!

I guess that's it, she's definitely stealing fun when you're jealous.

She's going to tell you again, she's a good girl, and I'm going to figure it out for myself. That's what she started with.

What you can't get is always the best, there are always people who have this mentality, that is, I don't want my own things, and I throw them away and others are not allowed to pick them up, in fact, this mentality is a bit scary. Especially for girls, if there is such a mentality in or after love, it is really fatal, and her love life will not be smooth sailing.

You say that your ex-boyfriend has a girlfriend, you will be very uncomfortable in your heart, it is your terrible possessiveness that is at work, your ex-boyfriend is no longer your lover, he has the right to find his own happiness and have his own girlfriend. But this feeling of yours is that you still think of him as your possession, although you are not with him now, but once he has a new relationship and happiness, you will still feel uncomfortable, this is your terrible possessiveness towards him. This kind of thinking is actually very scary, it tortures you at the same time, it may also dominate you to do something wrong, and even to destroy your money ex-boyfriend and his current girlfriend relationship, so you must dispel this thought, you must realize that he is no longer your object, he has the right to find his own happiness, even if you are uncomfortable in your heart, there is no right to stop it.

If you feel very uncomfortable, it means that you are still in love with your ex-boyfriend, so you will still be sad when you watch him with others.

If that's the case, you have to think that since he already has a girlfriend, it means that he has let go of this relationship, and what you need to do is to find the next relationship, start over, and live happier than him, better than him, and the reason why you feel sad is because you are not as good as him now.

That's how I felt when I first broke up with my boyfriend, who said that he was like a nobody every day, and I couldn't tell that he was sad at all, but that there was nothing between him and his colleagues. I'm sad to death at home every day, but when I know that he just pretends to be good in front of others, in fact, he himself is also very sad in his heart, I feel a lot better inexplicably, and I'm still thinking about whether this is the legend that I know that you are not doing well, and I am relieved?

My girlfriend said that everyone can have this kind of heart, I think if you have a boyfriend first, and your ex-boyfriend doesn't have a girlfriend now, he should be sad now. It's normal to be sad, but don't be sad all the time, you can try to do something you love to do, or put all your body and soul into your work, and you will forget about it after a while.

I had dinner with my senior sister that day, and my senior sister suddenly said that she had forgotten her ex-boyfriend's name. I think this is the real forgetting, that is, the man has a girlfriend again, and the senior sister knows, it is estimated that there will be no sadness, or a trace of wavering, because this person has completely disappeared from her life, and everything about him may have nothing to do with us anymore.

I think it's the same way, the reason why I feel sad may be that the time has not yet come, or you still have him in your heart. But don't worry, everything will pass with time, and so will your sadness.

There are two situations where she has just withdrawn from the previous relationship and can't forget her ex-boyfriend, and you have to understand why they broke up and why you are together. If you don't really like you being with you, then of course you have to be open and honest about the situation.

Second, she knocked on the side of you, she is not satisfied with what you have done, or you are not good enough in some places compared to his ex-boyfriend, at this time you have to use more snacks by yourself, girls will be more emotional, more patience to understand her, and tolerate her as much as possible under the bottom line of her own principles.

Don't feel that she is your girlfriend, everything about her belongs to you, two people together are based on mutual care and respect, not so much as to be taken for granted. She behaves like a child, and you can't help but be unhappy with the child's psychology and quarrel with her. It doesn't matter if she has his ex-boyfriend in her heart or not, what matters is whether you can give her more attraction than her ex-boyfriend.

It is recommended that you communicate with her directly.

It's very upset to say that this kind of behavior makes you very unhappy.

If you don't say it, keep it in your heart.

I've always been so used to it.

In the end, I was still stuffy in my heart.

I think it's better to talk to your girlfriend if you suspect in your heart, and gently tell her that you will be jealous if she does this, so that your girlfriend will feel that you care about her and will like you more, and if she is sensible and loves you, she won't keep talking about her ex-boyfriend.

Proper communication in love shows emotional intelligence and raises temperature.

Not necessarily, sometimes it's to anger you, women, they are a little emotional, in fact, they just want you to say something good to coax, women are easy to satisfy.

Just ask him, now living with you or with her ex-boyfriend, don't mention his ex-boyfriend all day long, the past is over, why do you want to do so much,

Because she thinks her ex is good, she mentions it, maybe you don't give her a sense of security, so you're afraid of always thinking of your ex!

Maybe she hasn't forgotten about him, or maybe she thinks you're not as good as him.

Probably hoping you did that to him.

If you're not happy, just talk to her. You're not happy.

Break up, lest she give birth to a child, give birth to a child, no one can tell whose it is, you say right, sooner or later she will regret it.

Sometimes, she is insecure and wants you to care about her.

Yes, I never meet my former boyfriend.

Yes, there should still be, because it's hard to forget someone.

She can't forget her ex-boyfriend in her heart, if you are tolerant, she will forget it slowly.

Love is selfish, I admit this, because I will not even be able to stand a friend of the opposite sex who is very good to him, but this may be mainly because of too much love, your boyfriend loves you very much, you have to believe in this, and he has also expressed his attitude, maybe you can learn to slowly overcome this obstacle, men will also have face, if you make too much trouble with him for a long time will be unhappy, this I have a lot of experience, but the appropriate can ensure your love, can let him know that you really love him, You can strengthen the solidity of your love, so that his ex-girlfriend feels that he has no chance, and he should give up after a long time, don't be too suspicious, then your him will feel that you don't trust him, saying these hopes can help you, just love him well.

From what you describe, it's indeed your fault.

Your feelings are understandable, as long as you love him, you will not be able to tolerate these actions of his ex-girlfriend.

But you have to know that your boyfriend has done a good job and can't do it any better, so you don't have to be unforgiving, he didn't do anything to be sorry for you. And I want to remind you that if you mess with him, he won't find happiness in you, but on the contrary, his ex-girlfriend is very gentle and considerate to him, and if you continue to make trouble, you will push him to your ex-girlfriend.

You should change your attitude, first to show that you fully trust your boyfriend, and then to apologize for the previous behavior with him, but to explain that it is all because you love him and ask him not to care.

In the future, you don't want to make trouble anymore, you have to know that he is your boyfriend now, as long as you are good to him, no one can take it away.

First of all, you don't have enough confidence to defeat that woman, because you haven't figured out your identity, you are now his girlfriend, the heroine, and it is none of his business for his ex to harass him again.

You only have him who is more sensible and loves you more, he will know very well who he wants to choose to be with him, you don't make trouble anymore, if you are making trouble, he thinks you are not reasonable enough, you will only push him to others.

So, if you don't manage your relationship well and deliberately make trouble, aren't you giving others a chance to take advantage of? Why do you do that? It's worth the loss!!

Think about it!! Stop all your noise!! Cherish the people around you and learn to love him, so that he will cherish you more!!

That girl is really just a small obstacle, and if you are well, she will walk away with fun.

In fact, you don't have to lose your temper, because there is no need to prove that your man is a good thing, so someone will rob it! She's a slut, you can completely ignore it! She just wants you to lose your temper and break your relationship, so just call your family to hang up ** directly!!

Love is inherently selfish. Like my girlfriend, like angry with me, she always mentions that I have an ex-girlfriend. But it seems that I am also a tooth for a tooth.

I still care a little more...If you don't care, you don't care...

It's nonsense to say anything else, change your mobile phone number, and QQ is blocked.

It's very simple

In fact, it is already very good that you can think like this, it proves that your quality is very high, if the general quality is so low that people estimate that there are a lot of snickers, don't think it's an exaggeration, this is the Chinese.

As for what you want to do, it depends on how well you know her, but the person who does this generally has psychological problems and does not dare to face himself, so you better pretend not to know, she will take the initiative to contact you if she is really in pain, and you will look at it comforting, in fact, there is not much difference between people and animals in this regard.

First of all, I want to say that you had better stop dating such a person, it will have a great impact on your future, career and mental health, even if she is a friend, she will be classified as the most marginal level.

Secondly, if you really don't want her to be hurt, it's your best bet to wait and see.

Finally, I wish you to find the love that truly belongs to you, and a peaceful life, hehe.

Actually, what if she is also in trouble?

Also, after all, you are a boy and she is a girl, and you are too far apart, and her difficulties cannot be told to you at any time.

So let's ask her why, it's better to figure things out than to regret it in the end...

Now that you know that she betrayed you, although you like her very much, you must know that it is tiring to like someone, so it is better to be a person who is liked.

There is no right or wrong in feelings, now pursue it, there is no point, since you break up, don't contact it, unless you can really let go of each other, otherwise, this is a kind of harm to you, live well, no matter how deep the love is, it is also in the past, what can you do, break it, you don't belong to each other after all, emotional things, we can't predict, I believe you will meet a girl who loves you, as for you and her, leave it to the past.

Hello, I'm also a girl, and if I meet someone like this, I actually want someone to care about him, even if you don't want to be with her now, but even if you're a friend, you should be polite and show concern to her.

A woman will compare two men.

( o ) Wow! What a man!!

Don't do anything, I hope it's not ...... misunderstanding

It's me, I'm not a bird.

your. No wonder you were a tortoise, born.

Since I don't want to be with her anymore, what else is there to be sad about, only to bless her.

The landlord is really a good man, since she abandoned you first, in fact, it stands to reason that no man can care about her like the landlord. It's her current boyfriend who chooses herself, whether her boyfriend treats her well or not, that's her choice, she has to bear for her choice, just be like a friend, and don't have to show too much concern.

You don't owe anything, she deserves it.

If it's divided, just do nothing, that's it.

Silently pay attention and help appropriately if she gets into trouble. After all, if she doesn't have a good time, you won't be happy.