Why doesn t he always love me much? If you don t care about me, what s the problem?

If I don't love you, I won't care about you!!

What does it mean not to love much。。

It's supposed to be love, right, but you feel as if he doesn't love you?? His behavior seems to make you feel like you don't care much??

I think it's your own problem, suffering from gains and losses, which is a common problem of people in love. Because they care too much about each other, they will be suspicious, and once they are left out in the cold, they will think that in fact, to love someone is to trust him completely, and men sometimes do not express their feelings very much, just because they are men, unlike women who are delicate, they put love in their hearts.

You have become dependent on him, so you will care about his every move, word and deed. The most important thing for a woman is to be confident and energetic. When the sun returns, he will naturally be attracted back.

First of all, some people are not good at expressing their feelings, depending on whether you are this kind of person. Also, people don't need a reason to like someone, and there is no reason why they don't like someone, if you work so hard, he still doesn't love you enough to care about you, just let it go, go to the person who cares about you and loves you to love. Hope it helps.

The concept of love is very wide! Are you in a relationship with him? If yes, then he's too bad to even love his girlfriend, or is it your delusion? It's better to find someone who loves you than someone you love. After all, he doesn't have a place for you in his heart, and it's easy to change his mind.

It could be a problem of its own. Think carefully about what you are doing wrong. It's also possible that you didn't do a good job. There is no concern for her (him) in place. There are many more reasons.

Maybe you're not the right fit.

I didn't feel the seven-year itch.

Information asymmetry? He may not know what you want, talk about it and make yourself konwn to him

You didn't explain the process clearly.

Isn't not loving you the fundamental answer?!

Maybe he doesn't like you, maybe he has someone else, maybe he's angry with you.

Just ask him.

Don't pester him, be targeted.

Because you're not good enough.

1. Lack of security

Because of the lack of love, they are eager to get more warmth and care to prove that they are loved. Because of the lack of security, I always feel that men don't care about themselves, and make the other party love them more by "making trouble unreasonably".。This kind of woman, in terms of psychological attachment type, is called "anxious ambivalent attachment".

People with "anxious ambivalent attachment" show high separation anxiety from infancy, and they feel intense uneasiness after separation from their mother. When reunited with their mother, on the one hand, they tried to approach her on their own initiative; On the one hand, he rebelled against the comfort from his mother. It is not until adulthood that such a person develops this emotion towards his partner.

On the one hand, I long for the love of my partner, and on the other hand, I feel a great sense of insecurity all the time. As a result, I always feel that the other party does not love me enough, so I begin to repeatedly prove my importance and my position in the minds of others in the way of "doing".

Second, love is expressed in different ways

We always like our lover to be nice to us in the way we like, but we ignore that there is a fundamental difference between men and women when it comes to expressing love, and everyone has a different definition of love. This is also why many times boys think they are doing well enough, but women are still not satisfied.

Actually, there are many ways to express love and care. A woman should understand that maybe his love and care for you is not what you expect and you want. But love never needs to be right or wrong, because love is love, the form is just an embellishment, what you really care about is whether he loves you enough, not always entangled in the way he loves you.

If a man doesn't love you in the way you like, to care for you, and the different ways of expressing love don't mean that he doesn't love you.

3. Expectations are too high

In a situation where reality may be fixed, the happiness experience that a woman can obtain is inversely proportional to her expectation, and this relationship is: your happiness experience = man's actions and your expectations.

The lower the expectation, the higher the happiness experience, and the greater the expectation, the lower the happiness experience. If expectations are high, then the happiness experience from boys is relatively lowThus bringing the relationship between the two people to an impasse. Some women are largely because they don't manage their expectations well, so they always feel that they don't care enough about themselves. So, women need to remember that your experience of happiness depends on your expectations.

When you learn to manage your expectations and not put too much pressure on the other person, men will act instead, and often there will be a result that exceeds your expectations, but there will be surprises!

In fact, because of the relationship for a long time, that kind of love doesn't seem obvious, but it has been integrated into the bits and pieces of life, so it's not that he doesn't love you anymore.

I think the main reason is that the relationship has been in love for a long time, and I have lost the kind of relationship between each other at the beginning, and there is a gap between the front and back, so I feel like this.

Because after a long time, the relationship will feel tired, and there will be doubts, this situation is normal, you should communicate with your other half to understand, and the emotion will be better.

This shows that in your subconscious, you still can't let go of this man, hoping to know his life and understand his current state.

You don't love this man anymore, but you still want to pay attention to him, understand his every move, and from the bottom of your heart you don't accept separation, and even hope that the two of you can have a chance to start over.

Maybe it's still a little unwilling. However, if you yourself have decided that you don't love him, then stop paying attention to him, treat him as if you are an old friend when you see it, and don't let him affect your life anymore.

To answer this question, first of all, you have to make sure that you really don't like him? From a person who was once in love to fell out of love. When I first broke up, I kept telling myself in my heart that it was impossible for the two of you anymore.

There are times when we think we're ready to die. I don't like her anymore. I feel like I've done it gradually. But maybe at a certain moment, one of her messages will stir in your heart.

So, you have to face up to your feelings. As long as you really face your true thoughts, there will be a way to gradually forget about this person. It's like I knew I was following her after I broke up. I deleted everything about her.

Stop making excuses for yourself, it's always you who is sad in the end. It's normal to not forget, what you have to do, why can't you forget. Only by focusing on your true thoughts can you prescribe the right medicine, and I hope you will get out of this tangled state as soon as possible.

Spare wheel. This is a very "hot" word in today's society. So what is a spare tire?

It probably means that he doesn't like him, but many places need him and can't do without him. In today's society, many people have spare tires, which belong to the kind of role that comes when they call and goes when they linger. To be honest, being a spare tire is sad.

can only pay silently.

Feelings that are not part of love. When people get along with people, in addition to love, there is also friendship. In today's society, there is a kind of relationship between many men and women, which is not like love, but also like love, which we call "blue face".

Or a confidante.

This affection can be told to each other, including the love of men and women. So it's very popular with young people today.

Subconsciousness. Already like him. There are many such cases, but I don't want to admit it subconsciously.

Nowadays, many people will slowly like each other after becoming good friends, but they feel that it is just a friendship between friends, in fact, this friendship has been sublimated into liking, admiration, but the friendship between friends is subconsciously unwilling to admit that they like each other.

Since you still have to pay so much attention, how can you be sure that you don't love!

In many cases, it is not a fact that you don't love anymore, but a kind of helpless compromise that you can't love. The feeling of not loving is a bland acceptance, since it doesn't matter if you don't love or not, even if the two parties keep in touch, there is no feeling of the slightest ripple in the heart, let alone the doubt at this time. Having doubts is actually a manifestation of not letting go of feelings, or a manifestation of one's current thoughts entangled in the past.

There is nothing about the attention itself that proves love, but the doubt is a continuation of the love of the past. Such doubts are negative for oneself, but denying oneself is attachment to past love.

If you don't love it, you won't have any questions about the past. The generation of love is a kind of entanglement of expectations and relationships, and here the attention is only surrounded by incomprehension, then it is the question of love. What is not love?

Not loving means that there is no incomprehension or residue, everything is understood, thought about it, and clear, which is the beginning of the present.

Therefore, this question is love, and the so-called self-perceived lack of love is just an illusion of self-deception or deception.

Although you can't be a husband and wife, you can still be friends, and you care about him, and that's probably why this phenomenon happens, and that's normal. People have emotions. For some reason, you can't get married. This is also normal.

This is normal, because there is a relationship between you, although you can't go on, but you can be a good friend, online. Help each other. This is quite normal. Favors. You can't be a couple, but you can be friends, it's normal.

In fact, this question is quite simple, even if I don't love it now, but after all, I have had a relationship before, and there are not many people who can treat it completely normally after separation. Even if you don't love it, a little attention may be over-interpreted.

Because you have loved, even if you break up and don't love, but he is still a part of your life, and you still can't let it go; It is still necessary to pay attention to his every move; I still want to know what he thinks...

I used to love each other together, although I don't love it now, but I still can't let go of it, so I still have to pay attention to him, and I feel better in my heart when I'm happy, and I'll be sad if I'm not good.

Because you want to love, you can't let go of her in your heart, you lock her up for anything, and first love makes it difficult for a person to forget.

In the first case, pay attention to him, hoping that he is not doing well and has a revenge mentality; In the second case, pay attention to him, see how he is doing, retaliate and fail, and no longer pay attention.

I don't want him to live better than myself, I want to observe his life all the time and compare myself. If the man had been doing well, it would have been deleted long ago.

The reason why I pay so much attention to her is that sometimes I feel inexplicable?

Actually, you're worried about her.

Maybe it's because you're unwilling, let it go, let yourself go, and if you can't think about it, you can shift your attention and focus on somewhere else.

Pay attention to him, do you get better or worse without yourself? It's just curiosity, but let's put away our curiosity and start a new life!

Although there is no love, the usual habit of caring is still there, which is a kind of dependence and memory left in my heart and mind for a long time.

After all, they have been together, and the attention may just be to see how he is doing.

Because of habit, because of familiarity, because of the imprint in the heart. Eventually, time will settle everything.

That's because you're doing something wrong in your heart, it's not that you don't love anymore, it's that you don't want to admit love.

I don't want him to be better than me, as long as I'm better than him.

Maybe I can't let go of it.

Summary. Hello dear I'm glad to answer this question depends on the specific situation, first, some people's personality is like this, he is born with this kind of character, he will not take the initiative to care about people, and it may be because he loves you less and doesn't care about you, so he is indifferent to your little things and doesn't take it to heart.

Why every time I care about him, he never takes the initiative to care.

Hello dear, I'm happy to answer this question for you, this question needs to look at the specific situation of the company, first, some people's personality is like this, he is born with this kind of character, will not take the initiative to care about people, and it may be because he loves you less and doesn't care about you, so he is indifferent to your little things and doesn't take it to heart.

Then why did he show my ** to his sister.

Hello kiss your**He showed it to his sister, it doesn't mean anything, some boys love to show off, and girls **let this look at that.

You also know that he usually doesn't take the initiative to care about you and shout to accompany you, some men have such a personality, do you feel that he loves you? Have you ever paid for it? Looking at the details, this is the most noisy and important Zheng Bang.

Some people are not good at expressing themselves and do not take the initiative to care about people.

If I ask you a question, you will tell the teacher the truth, and the teacher will make an analysis according to your actual situation.

It depends on whether there is action for you, it doesn't mean anything to care about it, some people don't care about people, but he does real things.

If he never pays for you, doesn't help you, and doesn't do real things, then he obviously doesn't love you and doesn't like you, so it's normal not to care about you.

If he pays a lot for you, and you are willing to help you when you are in trouble, then he just likes you and loves you, but his character is that kind of character, and he is born to care about people.