At home, my mother in law and husband always love ghosts and are very tired, what should I do

Superstitious people can only be solved by superstitious methods. You find a more powerful character than "out of the horse" to see your mother-in-law's illness, and then leave a talisman or something, and then say it's okay, your mother-in-law will be fine.

My mother-in-law is also very strong, I used to be very depressed, and then I had my own job, and my income increased a lot, even more than her son, so I didn't have the same attitude as before, in fact, it mainly depends on your husband, and if conditions permit, you can also move to live. The mentality should be adjusted by itself.

My mother-in-law is the same, she speaks badly, she only scolds me all day long, my husband is a very cowardly person, everything depends on me alone, I have never relied on him, he loves to play games, the children don't care about anything, my mother-in-law compares me with other daughters-in-law every day, saying how much other people's daughters-in-law can make money, saying how much other people's wedding money has married, saying that her ancestors were unlucky to marry a daughter-in-law like me, I don't care what she says before, I ignore her, she is even more exaggerated and says several times a day, I went to my husband and said, my husband said that she was like this, she was like this, told me to ignore her, I told my husband to break up and he didn't want to do it, and I didn't want him to work hard to make money, I want to divorce but I have two children, what should I do?

I've been living at my mother's house for a month now, and I don't want to go back. Living with her is very tiring and annoying, and the psychological pressure is very high! I married out of town, my husband never paid attention to my parents, and he never even hit **, I tried to confide in her at first, but I couldn't, some of her words were too hurtful and extreme, plus they didn't care about my parents, and I didn't want to care about her.

She usually buys what she needs to buy when she gives some money, and I don't want to say a word to her anymore.

Like me, my mother-in-law is like this, so that my husband and I always quarrel and don't want to live with her at all.

The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a problem since ancient times, and I think you have to learn to think about your mother-in-law from the perspective of your mother-in-law, and at the same time, you must also learn to adjust your mentality and mood.

I feel that you should be yourself, as for the relationship between you, you can talk to your husband, of course, use some gentle words, be subtle, and leave the rest to your husband to communicate with your mother-in-law.

If she's just the habitual nagging of the elderly, then bear with it, after all, she is an elder, besides, what if we get old in the future, what if we also nag up" hehe.

If she is okay to find faults, then try to communicate with her well, understand each other, if it still doesn't work, then love what's wrong, just don't pay attention to her.

The old people love to complain, love to nag, listen more patiently, you will be able to find that the old people can teach themselves a lot of things, just tolerate each other, care more about the elderly, don't be annoying, the old people will care more about you, after work is very tired to talk to her more, just communicate more, people are easy to be moved when they are old.

The old people are like that, and so is my mother-in-law, and the most terrifying thing is that she can click on ---one thing and transfer it over for two weeks, and she always says something she doesn't remember, so she always repeats one thing, and I can memorize it every time I listen to it. The second thing is to mention someone when talking to you, saying that this person is not enough, every time my mother-in-law mentions someone, she has to tell you when you have seen this person, the home is **, and how to go, I want to find a piece of tofu to die, right?

Every time my mother-in-law sees me, she has to keep saying, but what can I do, annoyance is annoying, but think about it must be an old man, right, we also have old times, she has raised children for a lifetime, so she always loves to worry, and treats us as children, always thinks that we don't know, afraid that you will suffer if you don't tell you, always think that you are right, always want to tell us about your experience, in fact, think about her starting point is good, is a little too much, so it is better to tolerate it, It's a big deal to learn from me :) When my mother-in-law told me, I always nodded in agreement, and when I said "yes", "yes", "yes", etc., I should express my opinion, she thought I was listening, I was very happy, I listened to my left ear and the right ear came out, she said that I was happy, what should I do then, I should waste time and rest.

My mother-in-law is also nagging and nosy.

I used to listen to it, but I couldn't stand it anymore, and I said two words to her.

Me too.

Sometimes I feel like I'm fierce when I'm busy!

But I really regretted it afterwards.

So, I chose one method, and that is. Endure.

Listen to what you can. If you can listen to it, you can endure it.

Old people are like this!

Look for the root cause of the problem, reflect on yourself, and use time to verify the results of the reflection. Family relationships are very important, and without a stable family relationship, there is no stable foundation, and everything you do will be restricted. I hope you can have a harmonious family.

Don't be like this, become open-minded, think about it, if your husband always quarrels with you because of your mother, what do you think in your heart, the old man should be spoiled as a child, and I wish you a harmonious family.

I really have to think about it, no one wants to be like that, my husband doesn't want to, he also wants to live happily as a family, and his mentality is correct and good, sometimes no worse than his mother.

You're a stupid person,,, that's your own mother,,, your mother can't be changed,,, daughter-in-law can be changed... You still don't understand, don't always say that your mother-in-law is bad in front of your husband, try to understand the good side of your mother-in-law.

The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has a long history, and every woman has to face it. Quarreling will not solve the problem, but will also dilute the relationship between husband and wife.

Look at what the problem is, and communicate more with your husband. It is best to make an appointment with your mother-in-law to have dinner or something to communicate directly to solve the problem. I got along well with my mother-in-law.

I'll tell her what I think, and I'll tell her what she doesn't agree with. Of course, it's always a time of calm. Give it a try.

It's better for my husband not to be a peacemaker in the middle, he can't be fair and just, and it will only add fuel to the fire. Hehe.

Maybe you want your husband to listen to you for everything, or revolve around you. And your mother-in-law also wants his son to listen to her in everything and revolve around her. But I think that as a junior, you should be more obedient to the old. The so-called filial piety is to be obedient.

In fact, your husband is embarrassed and tired between you, so you should be more considerate and considerate of his difficulties and be more obedient to your mother-in-law. After all, it is an old man, and people are like children, so there is an old saying: people are old and young.

Everyone has a time when they are old, and when we are old, we will also have a psychological need to rely on our children.

Judging from the title, it boils down to your problem, when you have something to do, look at books and magazines or something, and improve your cultivation while diverting your attention.

If it goes on like this, I'll break out in a cold sweat for your husband!

It's better not to live together, and find a way to treat your mother-in-law as if she were your own mother, maybe it will be better.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a sin and a headache. As a husband, as a son of man, I am also helpless. Fortunately, my mother was very reasonable and made trouble with my daughter-in-law, so there was a more comforting situation.

In fact, the important thing to get along with is to understand each other and tolerate each other.

Normal.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the new era is not so beneficial. Take your time and be patient!

I'm from here, maybe I'm still young, maybe I can do better. First: the thinking of the elderly is not in line with our current society.

Second: The old man may have an opinion about you, but she will never harm her daughter-in-law. Third:

It's how you get along, whether you meet every day, and if so, how impatient you are when you meet. Do you hate other fun? You listen carefully, do it carefully and do it well.

Listen to everything, and we won't do what is wrong. Fourth: If your mother-in-law has a problem, she can't give your opinion, but you can tell your husband that your husband can.

It's up to you and your husband. Family affairs are actually very simple, but they can also make him very complicated. Yes, yes.

It's up to you to see for yourself! Maybe it won't do much for you, but at least it's not poison, thank you for adopting!

It shows that your husband did not "marry a daughter-in-law and forget his mother".

After the children get married, they live alone and have their own way of living.

If you go home often, or if you live together, something is bound to happen.

There are happy things and there are troublesome things.

Find your own position and recognize the relationship between everyone and the small family.

Take a step back when it's time to give in, and take a step back when it's time to retreat.

Even if the old man has done something inappropriate, there is no need to distinguish between right and wrong, and distinguish between you and me.

No one is a saint, and it is inevitable that there will be times when he is confused. , or when it contradicts your own opinions.

At this time, if you can recognize the essence of the matter, keep your own point of view, and respect the other party's opinion, you will receive good results.

If you can't reach an agreement, then seek common ground while reserving differences, after all, he has lived with his parents for a long time, has previous living habits and views, and it will take you longer to reach a tacit understanding.

I also agree with the statement on the first floor, you can refer to it.

The showdown first, just understand the reason, if it doesn't work, you can only divorce.

There is a saying that if you can't change it, you will learn to enjoy it, and your attitude determines whether you are happy or not!

I'm the same, I can't help it, I occasionally go back to my parents' house to live for a few days, try to save money to buy a house, and strive to get out of the sea of misery as soon as possible.

Hehe, how many parents-in-law want to live with their daughter-in-law, it's not too troublesome.

I also felt very depressed and uncomfortable.

Live in a house with your husband and enjoy the world of both of you!

Discuss with your partner to move out, and now how can there be a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living together, do you understand Adu.

You go out to work, and the children are brought by your parents-in-law, so that you can avoid some trouble.

It's good to get used to it, and when you get old in the future, your daughter-in-law will do the same, set a good example.

It's okay to go out for a walk, make friends, and work, otherwise you will be derailed from society.

No matter how much you want to move out, you can do it, filial piety comes first, stay closer, and take care of it. We can often eat together!

Think about the child, just put up with it.

Why do you live with your mother-in-law and father-in-law, don't you have a house, or do they have to live together?

What to do? That's going to ask you about getting along with your parents-in-law.。。

The child asks your in-laws to take you out to find something to do, and I do the same.

You can come out and live on your own for a while and feel it. Each has its own pros and cons, so try them all.

What do you think annoys your mother-in-law? In order to avoid contradictions, you can also have less contact with her, usually everyone can be polite, don't escalate uncomfortable emotions or some small contradictions, so as not to cause family disharmony. If your husband's emotional intelligence is relatively high, you can also communicate with your husband, hoping that it will be better for your husband to point out some aspects to your mother-in-law.

If you still don't understand, you can ask us.

It's all like this, there is no real mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who have no barriers; But they all suppress each other's emotions and tolerate each other; Even if it's for the sake of morality, it's okay to complain to your lover, provided that your lover can digest it.

Less contact with your mother-in-law, if she annoys her, you should not have heard it.

It's really annoying, from giving birth to a child, managing the east and west, I wear a ripped jeans and say that I, the family is not out of money, I wear such pants for you, I wear sandals to go out to eat, and say, it's amazing, it's enough to wear it at home, don't be embarrassed outside, I'm angry, I go back, I can be angry for a long time, when I spend money, it's not easy for his son, my husband doesn't mind me spending money at all, every time I talk bad things about my husband behind my back, saying, marrying a daughter-in-law is not to let the leisure come, Co-authored and waited for me to serve them, I said, I married to live, but this day never includes my parents-in-law, I just hope to live my little life is enough, I, husband, baby, always healthy and happy, others, love whom, money is earned, how much money to spend is our own business, after I married my husband, our in-laws have not taken care of our affairs, so, she does not want to get involved in our affairs!

I think you can look at your relationship with your mother-in-law with another mentality, maybe it will be better, you hate her very much, it can only prove that your mentality is not good enough, it is recommended that you can adjust your mentality to improve, such as the following practices, maybe you can improve your dislike of your mother-in-law:

1. Be tolerant of your mother-in-law. I think this kind of tolerance is the respect for the elders, the filial piety to the elders, when there are some frictions in the life of two people, with love to tolerate, think about the family is not easy, your mother-in-law brought your husband to this world, only to have your happiness, so think about how angry the mother-in-law is, you can also be relieved and endure it.

2. Don't have high expectations for your mother-in-law. Maybe I heard a lot of girlfriends' mother-in-law around me, how good you want your mother-in-law to be, I think everyone has his choice, your mother-in-law does not have to be good to you, dedicated to your small family, so if she does well, then you should be grateful, if she is not too good, then don't be demanding!

4. Keep an appropriate distance from your mother-in-law. On the one hand, it is necessary to strengthen the connection with the mother-in-law to enhance the relationship, but the grasp of the relationship needs to be relaxed and moderate, you and her are too close, so it is easy to catch fire! Any intimate relationship is prone to contradictions, and friends can slowly eliminate the estrangement through time or something, and the mother-in-law's words are more painful!

Don't have no scruples about saying anything just because you have a good relationship with your mother-in-law, this is a big taboo.