Why did you choose to have a second child?

Updated on parenting 2024-05-05
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    For the sake of her daughter, she said that all aspects of life are very good now, but she lacks a little partner, and pays attention to pregnancy almost every day, at first let me give her a little sister, see that I have not moved, and now the requirements are not high, tell me to give birth to a little brother and little sister, as long as I give her a little partner, I am ashamed, I have stopped the fetus twice before.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I am afraid that the child will be lonely in the future, and when we are old, the two children can also have a person to discuss, if we want one child, the pressure on the child will be greater in the future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My mom and dad, father-in-law and mother-in-law are very fond of children. When the country did not open the two-child policy, we were already applying for a second child. Not only the old man likes it, but my wife and I like it very much.

    I also want to have children very much. Although they will bear more and pay more to have a second child, I believe that they will definitely achieve themselves in the future, and they need to create and work hard for their own life. No one knows what the future holds, but we still need to rely on our own efforts and struggles.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you only have one, both husband and wife will be only children in the future, and two young people will have to raise four old people and children, which is too stressful, and having two children will not be so stressful in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is a son who wants to have a daughter, after all, the daughter is intimate, the son has a daughter-in-law and forgets his mother, a child is afraid that he will be lonely, and there will be no one to share in the future, so he decided to have two children!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The eldest daughter, if she wants to have a son again, there is no succession to the throne! Honestly, right? But I gave birth to a younger sister, and I was just as cute. Now two years old, it's a king bomb!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The strength and prosperity of the country cannot be separated from our generation, and even more so from the next generation. The country's opening of a second child is the best gift for those of us who like children and want children!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I hope that both children and daughters will be complete, and Chinese people hope that both children and daughters will have a complete life, and if you have a son and want to have a daughter, you will want to have a son.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If there is an accident, it will be born! Didn't think about it that much! Now the eldest of the two girls, the five-year-old and the youngest, have just reached the full moon! The big one also likes the little sister! Call my sister a little cute every day!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe it's boring to have money and leisure.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    One child is too lonely, and two children have a companion, grow up together, and understand brotherhood.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Under what circumstances would you choose to have a second child?

    1. First of all, I want to give my children a companion so that they can have a better emotional experience. Around me, there are many parents who want to have a second child. They have siblings.

    When I grew up, I always felt that brotherhood was precious, so I preferred to have a second child. Many mothers who want to have a second child are especially supportive of Hooke's statement. Because of their love for their children, it is worth it to give them a companion when they are young and leave them a loved one when they grow up, even if they are tired and tired now.

    Secondly, because the husband and wife have a deep relationship, they both like children. Third, we are willing to pay for our children. A lot of people wonder why I have the courage.

    In other words, we are ordinary working families and ask for two treasures. Indeed, the economic pressure is much greater.

    2. After all, the cost of raising a baby is many times higher than that of the previous generation. Before giving birth, save enough money to live in a confinement center, and do not go to work for half a year after giving birth. Now, from the beginning of pregnancy to the end of confinement, it takes at least 40,000 yuan to give birth to a child.

    Under normal circumstances, at least 40,000 yuan is needed in the current fifth-tier cities, not including the milk powder to be eaten after the child is born. Parents who don't have the money to have children are irresponsible to their children. Bringing children into the world is not about making them suffer with you.

    And in order to have children, there may not be a way to continue with their last job, or there may not be a good future for them to continue. When you come back after giving birth, many of your old advantages are gone: if you used to work overtime and stay up late, then obviously you can't keep up with the team.

    Now he is also raising his daughter to prevent old age. However, there is also an advantage, that is, there is always a filial piety, which can make the parents' old age more secure. Otherwise, what will happen to them when they get old?

    Without a pension, I was really helpless. In addition, there are retired elderly people in the city who also hope to have an extra son. If you can be around to ask for warmth, it's better than a child running back and forth, right?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In my own family conditions are not bad, the financial ability is particularly good, and the first child is a daughter, I will choose to have a second child, now the pressure to have a child is very great, if there is no good financial support, having a child will make my life more stressful.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If the economic conditions allow, I will choose to have a second child, mainly to have one more child, and to help each other in the future, to avoid giving them some too much pressure, mainly depending on their own financial ability to decide.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If the financial ability allows, I will choose to have a second child, which will allow the child to get good care, and will also allow the child to have a good companionship and help.

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