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It's normal to care about what others think of you, and it's good to understand what others think of you, and to accept and correct your shortcomings when you're right, which is very good for your own growth and development.
As for the situation you said, the main thing is that your subjective consciousness is too strong, and some lack of self-confidence, there is a saying in psychology that is very commonly used called "accept others, accept yourself" You can be more sincere to contact with others, communicate with each other, absorb different views and opinions, you will find that you may be told that others have not thought about how you are or that others have evaluated you as badly as you think.
In addition, don't deny that you are not confident in yourself, it is precisely because you are not confident and do not evaluate yourself well enough that you will subconsciously think that others have opinions about you. It is recommended that you examine yourself more, find your own strengths and weaknesses, compare them, see if you have more strengths or weaknesses, and how to improve, it depends on your own outlook on life and values. When you realize that you have a lot of good qualities, you won't care too much about what others say about you, and you won't be bothered by your own imagination.
Believe me and believe in yourself, you don't have any mental abnormalities, just a little bit of self-confidence and open communication with others. A 19-year-old boy should be full of sunshine and energy, he should not stay in his imagination space, live a positive life, you will definitely be happy, don't worry anymore :)!
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Figuring out other people's thoughts is the foundation of being a person and doing things.
Sometimes, though, when you've got the upper hand over something.
There's no need to overthink it.
If you live a cautious life, it is really torture, and the human spirit will break.
You might as well find an opportunity to let the parties come out, everyone has a drink together, exchange feelings, and have a harmonious relationship, and many small things will not be taken to heart.
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Actually, since you can ask this question today.
It proves that you are very sensible, and you see your problems.
So, now that you've seen it, the question.
I also know that it is a problem in my heart.
Then you'll be able to fix it.
Be confident, everything is ok
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Look at books, maintain a happy physical and mental health, talk more about things at home, and give yourself enough confidence in what others don't think.
Which age to do which thing is a certainty.
You are a student now, do your duty first, give up excessive psychological pressure, and these problems will be solved.
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You live on a stage, a stage that you create for yourself, you are an actor on the stage, and you are also an audience under the stage, and you imagine others as your audience. This is a common psychological phenomenon in adolescence.
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You are a person who cares more about others and does not have enough self-confidence; It's good to be confident, think that you are a very good person, and don't care so much; Go your own way and let others do the talking.
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You care too much about what other people think.
Or maybe you're too narcissistic.
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Communicate more with others, and you won't be overly suspicious of others.
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Know yourself and don't live in the eyes of others. Find yourself and stay true to yourself.
I often use my own thoughts to make assumptions about what others think of me"In psychology, it is called ejection, whether the fish is happy or not, only the fish itself knows, how do you know whether the fish is happy or not?
It's not the clouds that move, it's not the wind, it's your heart that moves!
The happiness of life depends entirely on one's perception of people and things; Because life is made by thoughts.
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No, most people, the spirit is too nervous and boring maybe.
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It's the reason for not being confident enough, and when you make yourself very confident, this problem is solved.
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I'm like that sometimes, and I think a lot, I'm doing this.
What will happen to others, in fact, others don't care at all.!
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From the perspective of professional psychology, this may be a kind of paranoia, but you don't have to be nervous, even if you have some psychological problems, this is very normal, and now the number of people with psychological problems is quite considerable, not to mention that you can feel that you may have psychological problems, which means that it is not bad. You should think about whether you are overstressed in any way, and decompressing yourself is one of the signs of mental maturity. If you don't feel better for a while, you can consider seeing formal psychological counseling, which is generally very effective.
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I'm a year younger than you, but I probably won't be able to convince you. But like you, I've always been like this because of the school atmosphere, but I'm much better now, and I'm trying to find someone I can fully trust, such as a lover, and tell her my confusion, after all, it's right by my side and can help you better. I should look at the open point and be confident.
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That's self-inflicted troubles, caused by too much worry.
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You're normal! I thought it was good to go my own way and not care too much about other people's eyes! Lu Xun once said, "Go your own way and let others say go", you might as well think about it like this! Maybe you'll be a lot happier!
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Normal, I do this sometimes, but it doesn't matter, it's okay to think it's okay in your heart, don't let other people's thoughts affect your own principles of life.
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Go and be a monk. Learn to recite scriptures.
It should work well.
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It shows that you have grown up, but you have an inferiority complex in your bones.
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I think that's normal! Just don't overthink it.
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