What do people who just break up and flash marry another person think?

Either for love, or for profit] <>

I think that people who have just broken up and have a flash marriage with another person can only have these two reasons.

One, being hurt by love. Sometimes, if you love someone very deeply, the kind of feelings that go deep into the bone marrow, then when you break up with him, this pain is also deep in the bone marrow. It is said that the best medicine for emotional wounds, the first is time, and the second is new love. <>

Time can erase all wounds, but the span is too great. If you want to get rid of the thoughts of him as soon as possible and get rid of the pain caused by this relationship, then you can only choose a new love. Actually, I've had this idea myself, and now I think about it and feel stupid and naïve.

At that time, I thought that if I broke up with my boyfriend in the future, then I would quickly flash marry another person, because my boyfriend should be the person I love the most in my life, and I don't think I will fall in love with another person except him, so if I can't be with him, then there is nothing to look forward to for marriage, if I want to forget him, I can only flash marry someone else as soon as possible, to restrain my thoughts about him. <>

I asked a few friends, and there is more than one girl who has this thought. Therefore, a person who has just broken up and flashed married another person is also likely to be because he can't forget his last relationship.

Second, for the sake of profit. If you flash marry another person for the sake of profit, then your previous relationship is just a game for him. Because I don't love you, after breaking up with you, I can quickly devote myself to a new relationship, if the conditions of the new love are very good, then flash marriage is very likely.

I've seen this kind of example in my life, it's about a girl, and in general, the guy is too cowardly and scumbag, and the girl can't wait. So those who just broke up and got married to another person, I personally think it's because they're too tired to wait. I feel like their feelings have been exhausted and they are in the process of waiting.

There is a couple who have been in love for ten years and still choose to break up in the end. Many people will feel pity and can't figure out why they broke up, in fact, the girl's side wants to get married very much, but the man's side does not give a correct answer. If the man didn't give an answer, it would be consumed like that, no matter how the woman forced the marriage, the man still didn't give an answer.

In the end, the woman's patience and energy were worn out little by little, and she paid ten years of youth, but she couldn't wait for the man's affirmation. She had no hope of waiting any longer, and ten years of youth had exhausted their relationship. So the woman finally proposed to break up, and the two of them also broke up peacefully.

Later, the woman met a man on a blind date, and she only asked the other party one sentence: "I want to get married now, can you marry me." The man smiled and nodded, and he immediately went to prepare for the wedding.

After that, they lived happily together, and now they both have a child.

So, a person who has just broken up and married another person. They may all have their own stories, can't they immediately devote themselves to a new relationship? Can't they find a haven of happiness?

Their hearts may have been scarred, they just don't want to expect any more, they would rather have a warm family, even if love hasn't come so quickly.

Revenge, you don't want to marry me, I'll just find someone? Or when fate arrived, I didn't think about it so much, but I suddenly met someone who wanted to marry her, and I got married in a flash? Or, I don't care, it doesn't make sense to marry anyone, I just want to get married, so I got married in a flash.

No matter how you think about it, the result is that you are married, and the object is not you, and this result is really not easy for you to accept. If you have a conflict because of the issue of marriage, you may already be one step closer, and as a result, all kinds of problems arise, and then you start to quarrel, and finally the marriage is not consummated. <>

This is a big blow to the person who especially wants to get married, and then I really want to get married, blind date, it feels right to meet, the conditions are good, since love can't go into marriage, then choose the right person to get married, no matter who it is, who knows if it will be very good in the future? So I chose to get married.

It's also possible that I just broke up with my ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend here, and I met someone over there who made him (her) moved.

So, if love arrives, nothing can stop it, and time is not a problem, no matter how long it is, only say the right person, how many people have survived for many years, and they have not reached the grave of marriage, but these people who feel that they are a lifetime when they meet, the red book will be in hand in a few minutes, and they may be given to each other for a lifetime. In this case, you may not think too much, you are completely carried away by love, and you still care how long you break up with your ex-boyfriend (ex-girlfriend)? I haven't had time to think about how to live with the current one?

I'm already married.

It's rare to see people who are so reckless, but they do exist. It is also possible to feel that you are older, you really see it, the past is over, and you will let go immediately, now is the future, choosing to get married is a completely rational point of view, if there is a suitable person, you will get married, and if there is no suitable person, you will wait, or it may be that you don't miss the past, it is the real past.

These are my opinions, I hope it will be helpful to you.

After breaking up, I will get married in a flash, which is with a kind of revenge, which means that I will break up with you, and I am still worried that I can't find someone else? It's also gambling on your own happiness. Not too much in favor of this approach.

Some people will get married in a flash after breaking up, probably because they were hurt in the previous relationship, and they really want to find a shoulder to lean on, and they don't want to spend so much time doing something that has no results in the end, so they will choose to get married in a flash.

is because they are already disappointed in the relationship and feel that it is a waste of time to spend time in love, so they will choose flash marriage.

Because these people no longer believe in love, they feel that falling in love is a waste of time, and if they are sincere enough, it is better to get married.

This is because the previous relationship has already hurt a lot, and they don't want to fall in love like this, so they will immediately get married.

This is because they had already found a marriage partner before they broke up, otherwise they would not have proposed to break up, he must have found the next person, and he would happily propose to break up.

As follows:

1. If you are too seriously injured and want to come out quickly, as the saying goes, if you want to forget a person, in addition to time, you are a new love, and a new love will be more direct.

2. When you meet someone with better conditions, she belongs to a woman who worships money more, and when she meets a diamond king, she will definitely get rid of her boyfriend immediately.

3. Revenge on your ex-boyfriend, some women and their boyfriends did not break up peacefully, they were dumped, in order to prove their market, it is not very strange to quickly find someone to marry.

4. The boyfriend is disappointing, he is disappointed enough to get married, he loves his boyfriend very much, but because his boyfriend has too many bad habits and can't see hope, he meets a scumbag woman and then meets a man with good conduct, and the advantages of this man with good character will be infinitely magnified, so he gets married.

5. Disappointment is disappointed in a person for too long, and he will leave quietly, maybe he has been disappointed for too long and has lost his expectations for a beautiful love, so he directly found someone he thought he could have a son and got engaged, of course, it may also be to obey the arrangement of his family.

Flash marriage is to infinitely magnify each other's advantages and completely ignore each other's shortcomings, which is irresponsible for oneself and at the same time, irresponsible for others.

This kind of "lightning marriage" behavior has a high probability of unhappiness. Of course, it is not completely certain that flash marriages are unfortunate, and this still has to vary from person to person. Some flash marriages do meet the right person, but some flash marriages are the beginning of misfortune.

Flash marriage is so irrational that you may not really see each other clearly.

The reason why flash marriage is irrational is because most of the people who get married in flash marriage are because of a momentary favor, and they hastily decide one thing and one person without seeing through it. Others can see clearly, but you are confused in it, and this marriage will only wake up from it on the day it ends.

I think there are too many reasons, why should they be separated if they really like it? If you have to find a reason, it can only say that they don't love each other enough, or that even if they love each other, they can't love each other. Of course, the concept of love in each era is not the same, but only the pursuit of RV love as a hard condition, has also made the love itself tasteless, I think it can not replace the love itself, if the man's conditions can not be met, the woman imposes the man's requirements, and can not communicate well, and the breakup is also reasonable.

And they have to hide before they fall in love. For example, a single girl and another man with a family break up because they were discovered. After the girl was heartbroken, the girl figured it out, and just happened to have a suitable one by her side, so she quickly moved into the next relationship.

Of course, there is also a situation where the girl may like more than this one at the same time, and after a period of dating, it may really feel inappropriate.

In reality, there is no shortage of such girls, but before they meet the right one, they will first settle for it, holding the idea of riding a donkey to find a horse, and once they meet someone who is better than before, it is possible to immediately propose to break up. I've met someone like this with a girl who loves her boyfriend very much, but this girl is older than the boy. They have been dating for a long time, and the woman's parents are anxious and have been urging the girl when she plans to get married.

But the man was reluctant to propose marriage, the man always thought that it was too early to get married, and finally the girl felt that she couldn't afford to wait, and finally decided to break up. Later, after being introduced by his parents, he hurriedly married another boy.

In addition, it may also be to get out of harm. Replacing one relationship with another is the best way to get out of sadness. It is also a kind of inner self-comfort for some people: without you, I can still find others. I think I was so hurt that I did it.

Truly loving someone is that both parties have to pay for each other, they can think more about each other, face and take responsibility together, do not abandon or give up, and talk about a love that is even ordinary but can last forever.

Because breaking up is very painful for everyone, some people don't want to make themselves more painful, so they will find a random person to get married.

The main reason is that these people don't have much idea about relationships anymore, and secondly, because people want to be able to have a family of their own.

I think that some people will flash marriage after breaking up for the following reasons: first, it may be emotional impulsive; second, after breaking up, I knew what kind of person was suitable for me, and I quickly got married after I met; Third, it may be the urging of the family.

It's because of the mood that has been paid in this relationship, and after the breakup, I met a new person, I felt very interesting, and I didn't want to start a relationship again, and finally I would get married quickly.

It may be because after some people break up, they have already broken their feelings and think that they will not have love again, so they will get married in a flash and be with a suitable person.

Some people will get married in a flash after breaking up, which is purely a one-way thing, and want to use a quick way to get rid of the original pain, in fact, this approach is very wrong, after the flash marriage, you may be lucky to meet true love, but the greater probability is that you will make yourself more painful.

Because breaking up can really be very painful, some people will integrate into another relationship faster in order to alleviate their pain, and even choose flash marriage.

This shows that the relationship between the two people is still very deep, so they want to get a license to get married, and the breakup of the two people may be just impulsive.

It's because these people don't believe in feelings anymore, and they feel that falling in love has no results, and it's better to get married directly.

Nowadays, society is developing very rapidly, and many lifestyles and consumption patterns have become very fast, but the frequency of marriage and divorce has also become higher. Many young men and women get married in a flash, and the two have never gotten along at all, but unlike in ancient times, when they got married, they had to follow their husband's family, and their husband's family could not be divorced. Nowadays, people's sense of independence is very strong, so it has caused the phenomenon of flashing, and many women don't understand what kind of psychology it is for men who get married immediately after breaking up, let's take a look.

1.Broken jars, broken and broken

Many men have been in love with a woman for a long time, and their feelings have always been very deep, but when they finally talked about marriage, they separated for various objective reasons. At this time, men have a lot of scars both emotionally and psychologically, and they are eager to have someone who can quickly make up for the top in their hearts, so they will choose a quick flash marriage to spend the painful time of falling out of love, but this is very irresponsible to anyone and is not worth taking.

2.Save on the cost of love

When a man goes through a relationship and ends up failing, they will have a sense of boredom, like a game that has finally been beaten and finally failed. At this time, many people don't want to play from scratch again, and just want to know what the result is. Men who get married in a flash after a breakup also have this mentality, they don't want to be in love anymore, and they don't want to spend money and effort to fall in love anymore, they just want to get married quickly, and then enter the stage of living, but this kind of marriage is generally very fragile.

3.Urging at home

Although now free in love, free marriage, but many family members will still interfere with their children's marriage and love, when a man breaks up with his girlfriend who originally hoped to get married, the family will become very anxious and anxious, and hurry to find a new girlfriend and marriage partner for the man. And this time, in order to ensure that nothing goes wrong, men will be urged to get married in a flash, but they don't know that this is very risky.