Can you tell me from the perspective of someone who has come before me whether I should be in love i

Updated on educate 2024-05-04
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Anyway, I also fell in love in high school, and it was in the second semester of the most dangerous senior year, but I stopped in time and ended my youthful relationship in time. I don't regret my decision at that time, now it seems that I really didn't understand what love was at that time, and now I look back at that relationship, and I only have one feeling, because I was young at that time. So I think it's not impossible to fall in love in high school, don't take it too seriously, there are still a lot of things to do.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Yes, but if it affects my studies, I think it's better to forget it!! You can only learn to suppress your feelings, otherwise you will regret it!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I liked someone in high school, and I told her about it after I took the college entrance examination, and then she thought it was too late and we couldn't do it, so she never accepted to be my girlfriend. (Later I found out that she liked me too) but we just missed it! I regret it now!

    Seriously, if you like it, you have to take advantage of it! But don't forget about your studies

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think. Just go with the flow.

    If you really like someone.

    It's impossible to tell yourself what to do.

    Just need to know.

    What to do is the right thing.

    Let him notice you.

    I'm not from here.

    I'm only 3 years old, but a lot of my best friends are in love.

    I think so.

    They want to attract people they like.

    They all work hard.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Go with the flow. However, the premise is that neither of them has too low IQ.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    As long as it's not in the third year of high school.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love put

    But with proper self-control

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's too young, even if you're in love, it's not mature, you won't have too good results, and you'll regret it if you can't get into the ideal school! Work hard, study hard, this kind of life will make you full and don't want to fall in love! So I don't think it's going to talk about it!

    I'm a sophomore now, and I just used my immature heart at that time to make my current self only have a bad second thought (I think this reason accounts for a large part)! Don't talk about it!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    High school is also a clear stage, if you don't like it and don't have a good impression of someone of the opposite sex, there must be something wrong with him.

    But what matters is why we like each other, in order to marry him, or to pass the boring study life, or to pass the pressure of peers, others have boyfriends and I don't, it's a shame. And what does your family expect from you? Entering a key university or learning a skill after graduation is still the last three years.

    But adolescent love is not necessarily complete, it may be curiosity about the opposite sex, it may be just appreciation rather than love. What you have to measure is what you expect from the other person, what exactly do you want from the other person, and how likely are you to end up together? If it were me, I would try to live up to my parents' expectations, because I once wasted a lot of my experience for one person in vain, and in exchange for disappointment.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    As long as you don't delay yourself, there won't be any chaos.

    There is no sin in love.

    But it's better not to. Because it takes too much effort. You can't help to.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm not against high school students falling in love.

    But it's just not against it.

    To be honest, it is already something that parents will not object to when high school students fall in love abroad, but limited to the over-conservatism of traditional Chinese culture, many college students have to hide their ...... when they fall in love

    I have a few things to tell you about when it comes to high school relationships.

    1 Almost all of them end up with a partner who will not be the first boyfriend or girlfriend.

    2 Almost all high school romances end within a short time of graduation.

    3. A large number of people's final partner will be someone you met in junior high school or high school.

    These three points have been proven countless times as true, and there is no room for refutation.

    The last reason is that college classmates come from different places, and the vast majority of college campus romances will eventually die in social reality, such as the other party's conditions, the other party's work, and the long-distance problem of lovers after graduation has always been the number one killer of romances.

    Therefore, those former classmates are more likely to come together in the end (not former lovers).

    Only if you really understand the above three points, and always protect yourself from doing stupid things, then I agree with both hands that you should fall in love.

    This is my true words, instead of blindly preventing high school romance, it is better to guide it correctly, to be honest, many people will always sigh at the immature lover in the past when they are really adults, and high school romance is a very naïve hazy good feeling.

    Correct guidance is the key to solving the problem, otherwise the more you object, the easier it is for rebellious children to cross the red line.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In high school, it is not recommended to fall in love and go to college and then find a partner, because finding a partner in high school will be serious, affecting your academic performance, and more than half of the couples will break up after graduating from high school.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think you should be in love, it's a good time in high school, and it's also the time when you're about to enter the adult world, so it's time to fall in love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This depends on yourself, if you meet someone you don't want to miss in this life, you can be one, but try not to affect your learning.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    We will run to their respective blue sea and blue sky, and this is the sleepiness and final goodbye before the long journey, thank you for accompanying me through that time, I know that there are too many people Wang Peiji too many things, it is a lifetime, it is a period.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think it's okay, although almost every school prohibits high school from falling in love, but it is undeniable that too many children in high school are in love, and if they fall in love at an ignorant age, they will be considered to have experienced youth in retrospect, and the opposition of parents and teachers will not stop you from falling in love, but there are pros and cons to high school love, when it becomes not so ideal, can you afford it, you have to consider all the situations well, don't regret it.

    But you also have to consider negative factors, there are similar problems during my school days, the boy urges the girl to study, the girl is too wild, refuses to listen, and finally delays the boy, if you have a conflict or quarrel during the study, it will also affect the mood, delay the study, if you don't handle it well or even break up, it can't be slowed down in a short time, and even affect the college entrance examination, so you have to be cautious and think, I have just graduated from high school, give you a little advice.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, yes, but it is recommended not to.

    Because high school has a lot of significance in our lives, the most important thing for us at this stage is to study, and everything else is secondary, so there is no hurry to fall in love.

    Falling in love can be a distraction for us, and although you think you can control yourself well, you need to know that falling in love not only takes time, but also energy. When you have something else in mind besides studying, it will definitely affect your learning. Don't underestimate the impact of falling in love on people's moods.

    When you get along well with your significant other, you are in a good mood, you can study more attentively, and your learning efficiency has improved, which is of course good. But can you guarantee that you won't quarrel with each other? Do you still have the heart to study after the quarrel?

    And what if you break up in your junior year of high school? Can you make sure that you study hard when it's time to study and don't want anything else? So, I don't recommend dating in high school.

    Of course, I don't disagree, after all, everyone has their own choice, and we are not the parties who cannot understand their feelings. However, those who start a relationship with a curious playful mentality are really not right. Although my boyfriend and I were together in high school, and the results of the college entrance examination were considered normal, I still don't recommend being distracted from falling in love during such intense studies in high school.

    It is precisely because of my experience that I understand the impact of falling in love on learning.

    Of course, for high school students who are in a relationship now, I will not suggest that they separate, but I just hope that their relationship can always be good, not contradictory from time to time, and it is not good if the mood swings are too great.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is no absolute right or wrong answer to the question of whether you can fall in love in high school.

    I've seen a lot of high school students around me, including me, who have affected their studies because of this. Of course, there are also some because they are in love, and then two people study and communicate together, and their grades have improved significantly. Therefore, you can't judge right and wrong in this matter, the key is that it varies from person to person.

    For me, I think that my relationship definitely affected my academic performance in high school. At that time, I was doing well in school at first, but then I fell in love with a girl in the class. There is no way, after all, it is in adolescence, and it is very difficult to suppress your inner emotions, so I began to pursue it.

    Of course, at that time, early love was still forbidden at school, so you could only send messages and chat to enhance your relationship at night after school. Of course, the hard work paid off, and after a period of hard work, I finally caught up.

    Of course, after catching up, you will spend more time on daily communication. At that time, because I had never been in love, I was very afraid of losing it after I got it. In the evening, I usually send messages and chat QQ.

    There's nothing to do every day, it's just nonsense. And then because of this, the homework or something was also delayed, or it was just hasty. The results are okay in a short period of time, because the foundation is still there.

    But after a long time, it will not work, the learning progress will not keep up, and the knowledge points will not be remembered. Slowly, it also revealed a decline in grades, and at that time, neither parents nor teachers knew how it would decline, and it was very incomprehensible.

    Of course, my example does not mean that all people who are in love are not good, I have also seen people who started falling in love in high school and then entered the palace of marriage in the end. Some may be caused by fate, attracting each other, even if they are born with a pair. So, if true love really comes, there's nothing to refuse.

    After all, many people nowadays, in society, it is difficult to find someone who is suitable for them and can go to the end together. But in high school, when everyone was still very simple, they stayed together until the end, which was really not easy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The high school years are the best waiting for my era, and the teenagers of this period are the most beautiful, beginning to understand something, but the city government that has not yet been contaminated in society still has a trace of innocence and impulsiveness.

    High school is a very contradictory period, facing the most important threshold in life, that is, the college entrance examination, of course, you should devote yourself to your studies, but at this age is also the age of the beginning of love, feelings have also begun to sprout, in dealing with feelings and learning problems Many young people have no experience, so they make choices at will without thinking, but later regret it. When they are upright and young, every teenager will yearn for a pure and vigorous love, will be eager to run with their favorite clothes in the rain, will snuggle up with her in her heart with milk tea in her hand, and want to go out together, to travel, to experience the landscape, but the reality is not close, everyone's love in high school will not be long-term, because high school is very short, and then you will enter college and start a new life, and the influence in college will soon make the love in high school end.

    Love in high school is difficult to have results, only leaving a memory that is difficult to look back, which may cause one of them to be hurt a lot, at this time the person who falls in love with you is different when you grow up and mature, not everyone will grow up with you, in the process of growing up in life, because of all kinds of influences, so everyone will change, and many people's concepts will also change, so love may collapse in an instant, and it will never return to the sweetness of the beginning, Because that person has changed, he can only leave endless pain and difficult wounds for the party he loves. Therefore, for the sake of both parties, for their own future lives, and to be responsible for both parties, in high school, try not to fall in love and study hard, and don't let yourself meet someone you want to take care of for your life when you are incapable.

    High school is an important stage, and it is also a stage when you have to face many important choices, so you must be cautious about love and life, and don't leave regrets and pain for yourself and others.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Since childhood, teachers and parents have taught us not to fall in love, because it is not good for both of us. But should high school students fall in love? This has caused many parents and students to be very confused and confused.

    But there are also some people who have not been exposed to the correct education since childhood, or are addicted to Korean dramas and **, and have a great misunderstanding in love, thinking that love is more important than anything else, which is what teachers and parents are most worried about. First of all, it can seriously affect the results of two people. All I think about the other half is all I think about, but what about going to class?

    And some people are eager for vigorous love, and even imitate some bad scenes in movies and TV series, which will be very harmful to themselves. And the love in high school often doesn't go to the end, most of them are waiting for a breakup, and whether they can bear the result of a breakup is also a big question. Some people even commit suicide by jumping off a building, cutting their wrists, etc., because of a breakup.

    I think it's okay to fall in love in high school, but you have to have self-control and find a balance between love and other aspects. If you don't have a correct understanding and a clear understanding of love, I think it's better not to talk about it.

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