I never thought things would turn out like this!!

It's your own idea that matters. Don't think too much about objective issues first, start purely from feelings, you can't lose anyone. And then there's your answer. If you force yourself to choose another one, you will only leave traces of rupture and will definitely break up in the future.

As for how to get rid of it, it's very simple, ruthlessly severing all ties is good for you and the other party. Dragging mud and water is the most troublesome. It also hurts him the most.

Whatever, because whoever you choose, you'll miss the other.

Red roses and white roses.

Probably every man has had two women like that, at least two. married a red rose, and over time, the red one changed to a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still "the bright moonlight in front of the bed"; married a white rose, the white one is a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red one is a cinnabar mole on the heart.

For women, too.

My advice to you: neither.

Whichever side is chosen, it is a great harm to the other side.

If you're not too selfish, take that into account.

Instead of hurting an innocent person, it's better to suffer a little yourself.

So that you will not be looked down upon.

One more point, don't stick to it, want to break constantly.

Before you have figured out which side to choose, whether to calm yourself down in the absence of anyone else and consider which man you want to be with.

Choose which one, and your future life will change so that you can't bear it. Of course, the family factor is also very important.

Of course, the most important thing is whether you will be happy in the future.

It's really inseparable, so you don't have to make a choice (the girl may be a bit of a loss), bore one of them, or can't wait.

Follow your heart and don't care what others say.

In the future, I will live for myself, not for others.

Cut through the mess quickly, there is always someone out,

If it were me. One kick to let you go.

I also think that I can't do anything well, but you can't deny that you have something better than others, everything is relative. Everyone has their own strengths, big or small, but you don't find out, I once asked a friend, do you know what you have in yourself?

He can't say it, he asks me, I can't say it, but if you ask him about my advantages, he can say something, so, have a little confidence in yourself, everyone has advantages, you just have to believe that I did it, it's the best, and others haven't done it yet?

Ha ha!!! snickering).

I think your father must have been hurt in some way, and there was a painful past in his heart, and he alleviated his pain in this way. You asked him to change without talking to him about his real problems at all. How could he change his heart if he didn't open it?

Try to talk to your father as much as you like, starting with him as a child, and maybe you will find something that has influenced him profoundly at some point in his development.

You should be newly blessed. His savings are most likely just what you're used to for the sake of you.

You think you've met a terrible father! And my father is one that makes me even more disgusting and disgusting! I won't say much about his glorious deeds!

One of them: I have an uncle who broke my teeth! He didn't say anything, maybe I could meet such a father!

I admit it, and I endure it! Endure until the day of revenge! Your dad didn't hurt you!

You're in luck!

Could it be that the root cause is that you are not communicating carefully?

Since it can't be changed. Just buy another refrigerator to store your own things. It's all elderly. Let him order it.

I can't change it, I can't see it out of sight and I don't bother with it.