Why are you not successful? The reason why things are always unsuccessful

I think there are a lot of factors. First of all, the individual. Learning ability, self-discipline, mentality, pattern, personality and so on are all intrinsic, without a good learning ability, without good self-discipline, mentality, without pattern and good habits to succeed is very difficult, unless you are really lucky.

External factors: environmental influences, time, relationships and capital, if you look at success from an objective point of view, these are all things to consider, but there are other factors as well.

Success in life includes two contents: one is the success of being a person, and the other is the success of doing things. The two are a progressive relationship, sometimes a mutually reinforcing relationship, without the success of being a person, it is difficult to have success in doing things.

If you are not successful in life, even if you succeed in doing things by chance, I am afraid that you will eventually lose the success you have achieved. Being a human being is the foundation of success. It is basically composed of three elements:

One is a good body, the second is to have a good character, and the third is to have a high ability. A good body is not only a healthy body, but also the most basic routine qualities such as walking, living, sitting and lying, manners, words and deeds. In addition to the often said "benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom and faith", there is also the most noble character, that is, "for his spirit", a selfish person, a mercenary person, it is difficult to do things with half the effort.

Always fail, because it is related to your thoughts, if you have done things from childhood to adulthood have more failures and less successes, then when you do things, you think of failure as the result, and your heart is to accept failure, and feel that it is normal to fail, so you will always fail.

A person always fails and does not succeed, success is big and small, maybe you don't have the ability to do a big thing, but I don't want to believe that you can't do a small thing, no great ability, then start from the most basic things you can do, I don't believe that there is nothing you can do in life, I don't believe that a person will always be a failure, start from the simplest, cheer yourself, overcome the shortcomings of your character, all aspects of imperfection, do a little bit of small things, build up your self-confidence, believe in the success of small things, It will drive you step by step to develop better in the big way.

The low success rate leads to a high level of failure. The so-called success means that you are perfect in all aspects, whether it is what you do or work, and there are no shortcomings. However, it requires you to accumulate experience, and in the process you have to have failures, which is not a bad thing, because every failure you make is your next success.

The factors of unsuccess include both subjective and objective factors. This is all factors covered. The specific situation is analyzed on a case-by-case basis, and each is different.

In general, personal hard work and perseverance are more than half of success, and other factors are also indispensable and ignored. I'm afraid that the unsuccessful factor is also such a situation.

The most important thing should be seriousness and persistence. The old saying is actually very reasonable, everything is only afraid of seriousness. Seriousness is an attitude.

Persistence, how many people have lost on the road, persistence is easy to say, but it is really not easy to do, it may be easy to insist on one thing for three or five days, three or five months, but persistence, thirty or fifty years, a lifetime, it is really difficult. But there is no doubt that as long as you persevere, there will always be gains, and the results may not be as expected.

Failed people are always looking for reasons, successful people are always looking for a way, since you know that the reasons for your failure may be those aspects, then you must work hard through learning, continue to persevere to find a way to succeed, get rid of failure.

Success is about achieving the goals you set. Meaning to achieve the goal or ideal of the result, success is actually a feeling, can be said to be a positive feeling, it is a state of self-confidence and a sense of satisfaction after everyone reaches their ideals.

There are many reasons why things are not successful, but one of them can be that people are too persistent when doing things.

What is Attachment? What I understand is thinking too much, such as fame, profit, and self. With the above-mentioned attachments, the mind cannot be still, and the words and deeds will also sway from side to side.

There is a story in the Zhuangzi that says:

There is a carpenter named Ziqing, and what he usually does is to make a shelf for wall clocks during sacrifices. Although the work was very simple, everyone was amazed when they saw what he made, and felt that the shape of the beast on it was as lifelike as a real beast.

When the local ruler heard of his ability, he called him to ask him for the secret.

Ziqing said: "I'm a carpenter, what tricks do I have?" It's nothing more than me fasting before I do any shelf, so that my mind can calm down.

On the third day, I can "forget profit" and throw away all those thoughts of gaining fame and fortune for myself, and on the fifth day, I can "forget my name", whether others praise me or slander me, I don't care anymore, and on the seventh day, I can reach the state of "forgetting myself". ”

With this mentality, I took the axe and went into the mountain. Because my heart is pure, I can see at a glance which wood grows like a beast, and then I cut it back and process it with my hands, and it becomes what it is now. This is nothing more than Tianhetian, what kind of trick can it be called!

The above text is excerpted from the book "Cruelty is Youth". It is also a daily update.

What should I do?

If you're more focused than your opponent, you'll be able to leave him behind.

Concentrate on the "extreme". People's energy is limited, and it is possible to be successful only by doing one thing in a down-to-earth manner.

Only by focusing on one's core areas and concentrating resources on what one is best at can one make a big breakthrough, Ren Zhengfei said. Dedicate yourself to it, work hard for a long time, focus on it, and improve every day, you can reach a very high level and achieve an extraordinary life.

When people are anxious, they must be in the wrong direction: or vain and attach too much importance to external evaluations; The first is to be in a hurry to achieve results, and seek results without planting causes. The two are entangled, and fear will arise. There are no distractions, and we are determined to move forward.

If you don't succeed in doing things, it's not because of poor ability or bad luck, but because you ignore two can'ts.

Success is an excellent giveaway, and when you work hard to make yourself excellent, success will come quietly.

Don't be discouraged. Don't ignore this very ordinary but implied success.

Success is as simple as that. As long as you achieve something in one area.

Even if this point is insignificant in the eyes of others.

It will also give you a lot of motivation to keep going.

Perseverance will come naturally.

The key to the problem is yourself, you have to know how to think about the factors of failure, you can't blame others, this will only make yourself further deep, since you don't succeed, then try again, you have a failure experience, you should not be afraid of anything, you should learn from the previous lessons, think about how to do what you want to do better.

Success is an excellent gift, when you work hard to make yourself smarter and better, the success of the limb will quietly come.