Why do I always want to take things off and do it?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The character is not decisive and strong enough, and the action is not enough. However, the personality can be corrected, try to take the initiative to do things, and act early. Just as reading books before college is a cramming passive acceptance, after going to college, you have to find things to learn on your own. Tips:

    1) Find a small notebook and write down a few things you have to do every day, and do one is to cross out one until you get into the groove.

    2) Get closer to some people who are active in doing things, observe and learn.

    3) Make a specific plan when you are conscious.

    A little feeling: For people who stand still and feel sorry for themselves, although others don't say it, they look down on it from the bottom of their hearts. Hope you aren't.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Agree with the statement of the first floor, the situation of the landlord was actually made by a poet thousands of years ago.

    It is "Song of Tomorrow", which is written by Wen Jia, the son of Wen Zhengming, a famous genius in the Ming Dynasty. The poet exhorts people to cherish their time, not to waste their time, and not to waste their time.

    Song of Tomorrow. Tomorrow after tomorrow, tomorrow is so much.

    I'm going to live tomorrow, and everything will come to pass.

    If the world is tired of tomorrow, spring will go and autumn will come.

    Look at the water flowing eastward, and watch the sun fall in the west at dusk.

    How can a hundred years be tomorrow?

    Please listen to my song of tomorrow.

    Explanation: Tomorrow has passed and there is tomorrow, and tomorrow is really so much.

    If you wait for tomorrow all your life, nothing will be done.

    If people are dragged down by tomorrow, they will age quickly after spring and autumn.

    In the morning, watch the river flow eastward, and in the evening watch the sun set westward.

    How many tomorrows can a person have in his life? Please listen to me sing "Song of Tomorrow."

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Are you a Libra???

    If your self-discipline is not very good, it is best to use other methods to restrain yourself! Let your parents help themselves and help restrain you!

    Actually, you are lazy in thinking, maybe you can be a little stronger in will.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Instead of putting things off and letting the things you don't want to do always hover in your mind and make you miserable, it's better to reduce the pain and make decisions on the spot to complete the task.

    In fact, the real way to "escape" things is to complete them decisively, so that you can make room in your heart to do other things!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I've felt this before.

    The best thing to do is not to want to.

    For example, what time are you going to read a book or something?

    You're going when it's almost there.

    Don't think about anything.

    Remember, don't think about anything.

    The more you think about it, the harder it is to correct.

    You can only rely on yourself for this kind of thing.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If this happens again in the future, tell yourself that there is no going to be a good future if you continue like this.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Tomorrow after tomorrow, tomorrow is so much, I live for tomorrow, everything will come to pass.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In the MV, Jay Chou plays the role of a street gangster who has a crush on the fruit girl Hebe who is setting up a stall, and once he saw the little ruffian talking to Hebe and touching Hebe's hand, he waved his fists at him, leading to a conflict; Later, another teenager came to talk, this time hebe signaled with his eyes that he would solve it, and then sent the other party fruit, easily sent away, hebe said to Zhou Dong: Look, isn't this solved? 」

    But Dong Chou can't understand the mind of the fruit girl, and if he doesn't change his habit of fighting bravely, sometimes he is beaten badly, hebe will feel sorry for his wounds, and the two have a sweet relationship; Once Dong Chou went to the hotel to fight, Hebe happened to come to him, and he could only watch as his lover was arrested by the police.

    Finally, Dong Chou set up a stall to sell kumquat lemons, and a child on the street came to buy drinks, only to find out that the child's mother was actually hebe, and said with emotion: I changed myself for her, but it was too late. 」。

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Jay Chou is a gangster, hebe is a girl who sells a Taiwanese drink (similar to milk tea), Zhou often goes to her to buy, and it will be good to come and go, and then a gangster boss also took a fancy to hebe, the two of them were in a hurry, and were arrested by the police, squatting for a few years to reform themselves and sell the same thing as hebe, one day a child came to buy, Zhou looked up after getting it, hebe held the child's hand and smiled at him, hebe has married a woman. I think the meaning of this song is, take a step back and open the sky, don't be so impulsive in everything, and you can be with Hebe at the end of the week.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Chou Dong is a gangster on the street, and he loves to drink the juice sold by Hebe.

    For the sake of the rumored girlfriend Hebe, "Jay Chou" Jay Chou and the thugs were jealous and fought, but Hebe still didn't hug the pipa in the end, married someone else, and left the sad Jay Chou ...... in vain

    Jay Chou sells fruit juice when hebe sells fruit juice.

    In the MV, Jay Chou plays the role of a street gangster who has a crush on the fruit girl Hebe who is setting up a stall, and once he saw the little ruffian talking to Hebe and touching Hebe's hand, he waved his fists at him, leading to a conflict; Later, another teenager came to talk, this time hebe signaled with his eyes that he would solve it, and then sent the other party fruit, easily sent away, hebe said to Zhou Dong: Look, isn't this solved? ”

    The prodigal son turned back to set up a stall Hebe is married.

    But Dong Chou can't understand the mind of the fruit girl, and if he doesn't change his habit of fighting bravely, sometimes he is beaten badly, hebe will feel sorry for his wounds, and the two have a sweet relationship; Chou Dong once went to play billiards with Hebe and touched Hebe's hand. Then don't let that little ruffian beaten by Dong Chou bring people to find trouble for them. Dong Chou fought with them, the boss of the little ruffian couldn't win and left Dong Chou, and then took people to smash Hebe's fruit shop, and Dong Chou took people to the hotel to find the boss of the little ruffian to take revenge.

    Later, he was arrested by the police, and Hebe could only watch as his lover was arrested by the police.

    Finally, Dong Chou set up a stall to sell kumquat lemons, and a child on the street came to buy drinks, only to find out that the child's mother was actually hebe, and said with emotion: "I have changed, but it's too late!" ”

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Just look at the MV. It's rare for people to listen to songs so seriously. Listen to the song and hear the sadness. I thought I was alone.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No. Probably hebe's. Because in the end it was said that "it was too late".

    But I was very happy to see Hebe's last expression, and there was no embarrassment, it may not be.

    MV is good looking when there is suspense, so that you have room for imagination. It's not good to break everything up.

    I love the song and the video.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think that ending should be a good ending.

    When Jay Chou was taken away, Hebe seemed to have something to say to him.

    I think I just want to tell him about the child.

    Later, when Hebe saw Jay Chou again, he was not surprised at all by his change and smiled at him.

    It means that she has forgiven him.

    After Jay Chou said the sentence "I've changed it, but it's too late", hebe should want to say.

    Actually, the child is yours.

    is like the children of Tony Leung and Xiao Yaxuan in Infernal Affairs.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's not. It's hebe and someone else's raw digging.。。。

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The last sentence says, "I've changed it, but it's too late" means that the kid is not his

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    "I know you're not wrong with me, we just forgot how to step back."

    Film: Pure Love Story Heartache Index: Shouting Love Scene in the Center of the World:

    Diary of Memories Lyrics: Song Jianzhang (warhead) Nanquan mother's warhead Song Jianzhang's words, simple and profound description of a pure love, this is the sadness and regret that everyone who has loved, after listening to the majestic love drama, Jay Chou's guava love song, catchy and beautiful melody, is an excellent variety of guava, and it is also very suitable for KTV crazy K when you fall out of love!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Learn a skill or develop a hobby by heart.

    Someday, others will find out how good you are.

    And I've been thinking about it lately, and I've found that a lot of people don't feel confident because they care about what others think of them (I suspect you may be a non-assertive person).

    So when you choose something, but later regret it, remember to find out the many reasons that made you choose it, and be unwavering.

    Good things are icing on the cake, and bad things are taken as the test of life!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Think about your strengths and strengths, think about what you are worthy of admiration, or how helpful you are, so that you will find that you are happy inside. Or think more about your words and deeds, in fact, people are not so terrible.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, when you encounter something, don't be afraid, it doesn't matter how much time you spend, you must figure it out, remember, it is you who want to do things, not let things do you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Try to do something about everything, and maybe there will be unexpected results. Build self-confidence, start with facing it, start with exercising yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When you do things in the field you are good at, you will gain a sense of accomplishment and confidence when you get better and better

    Encourage yourself to believe in yourself and do it with the same passion in other things, it's hard to do something bad

    Also, you have to pay attention to this matter, and when you really care about a person's things, you won't back down

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Find someone worse than yourself to work with, confidence**, but a little lacking in morality, but also in moderation.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's not that it's difficult, it's your mindset that matters. When you overcome difficulties, you will find that difficulties are not terrible. Say to yourself: i can, i am greatest!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    A precept, or tradition, that the Bloods must not show their true colors to the face of humans. This rule explodes in the inquisition of evil creatures.

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