What was the moment when you were lost and burst into tears?

Once, my favorite boyfriend left me, and I lost everything in an instant, I felt as if I had lost the whole world, I felt like I couldn't live anymore, I was about to collapse at that time, and tears came down uncontrollably.

We have been together for three years, and the good relationship is the envy of others, and everyone thinks that we will go to the end, but we still can't walk through the cruelty of reality and the ruthlessness of society, and we broke up. When we are together, we are tired of being together every day, eating, going to class, walking, shopping, he accompanies me, so I don't have many female friends, but he is very good to me, all the delicious food will be left to me, no matter who is at fault after the quarrel, he will come to apologize to me as soon as possible, coax me, hold me in the palm of his hand every day, for fear that I will be wronged a little, and will take me out to play, show off me to his friends, and see that he has such a beautiful, gentle and generous girlfriend, We even secretly decided to get married as soon as we graduated and start our beautiful and happy life. In the past three years, I have become accustomed to having him and feel that he is everything to me.

However, fate will never go as planned, he left me, because of a little girl who was younger than me, he betrayed the love between us, and even ignored our relationship for so many years, and resolutely left, I collapsed in an instant, and I was desperate for my life, tears flowed, thinking about our previous things every day, I couldn't let go, I couldn't forget.

Now, it's been a long time since that incident, and I've begun to slowly let go, but, after all, the three-year relationship is not something that can be forgotten, if I suddenly think about it one day, I will still think about it, be sad, and burst into tears uncontrollably.

When I was a freshman in high school, I was studying in my hometown at that time, and I received a ** from my mother saying that my father was sick and hospitalized, and then I took the train home overnight, and when I saw my father sick and emaciated, I couldn't help crying.

If you think about it, I'm still an emotional person, and when I touch my emotional bottom line, I really burst my tear ducts and my emotions can't be controlled by myself, I just want to cry.

Once in class, I suddenly thought that the distance between myself and the person I like is really super long, there is an unbridgeable distance and various difficulties between us, and I think that I am alone here and I think I have to try to get close to him, I must be with him through my own efforts, let him know that I know my existence, just such a little wish I am almost impossible to achieve, I feel really uncomfortable, language difficulties, family background span, think about it carefully, there are really too many impossibilities, These can only be their own wishful thinking.

For the person I like, these will really bother me, I don't dare to think about it, my heart is sour, especially at night, I want to cry, I especially want to cry, his future can't have me, my future must only have him.

There is also the fact that I can't see the appearance and news of my idol's illness, some time ago, I didn't swipe the message, but as soon as I turned on the phone, it was the news of his intestinal bleeding, and when I saw him again, he rushed directly to the work site from the hospital, and he still had a needle in his hand, and I really burst into tears at that moment. In fact, we all know that it's normal to be sick, but I know that he has almost no rest during this time, because they are participating in new song activities, appearing in the official café in the middle of the night every day, and they have to **, really the body can't support it, I can't see them sick, they are my weakness, I really can't help but cry when I see these bad news about them, because they are really important to me.

Speaking of which, there is one thing that I still remember vividly.

I feel like I've never been so sad since I was a kid, just once, when I lost my best friend, I really cried, I really couldn't help but cry. I once had a male girlfriend, and we had a really good relationship before, and I felt that in addition to my parents, he was probably the best for me, and I always thought that we must be friends for life.

After I went to college, he once came to play with me for three days, which was also my negligence, he had a girlfriend and came to play with me, which was obviously to make people jealous and angry. Later, I thought about it, and I told him, but he said that we were all friends who bought it, and everyone knew it, and there was nothing to know each other, so I was so naïve and passed.

When he got back to school, his girlfriend found out that he had come to play with me for three days, and then they started arguing and breaking up.

When I knew that they broke up, I really felt that everything was my fault, and I felt that I was the culprit, so I chose to be an ordinary friend or a best friend, I wanted him to keep his own love, so I chose to give up contact with him, and I couldn't bear to see them angry.

I told him that we should not contact each other anymore, although the relationship between us is very pure, but his girlfriend is very mindful, being a girl, I also have a deep understanding and understanding, so I can't play like he didn't have a girlfriend before, and I should keep my distance.

I still remember the chat record at the time, think about it, for so many years, there have been people by my side, has become a relative, suddenly lost really felt like the world was evacuated, I cried, he told me not to cry we will definitely contact again, but when I heard don't cry, I couldn't help it, it was really crying loudly, and the dormitory people were scared to wake up.

I may be an emotionally fragile person, and I feel more sad to die in the face of the loss of this friend I think will be a lifelong friend, and I feel worse than falling out of love.

If there was a moment that made me think about it and burst into tears, it had to do with my feelings. This little woman is not a beauty, but fortunately, she is cheerful and lively, and the person who pursues it has not been broken, but often people work hard a few times to know that it is impossible to leave, and everyone who is generous can also be a friend.

I have a colleague who is six years older than me, and we see each other every day at work, and he also takes care of me, and everyone gets to know each other over time. He told me about his background: he was from Hunan, his parents were forced to go to Xinjiang to make a living because of his bad composition, and brought his two elder sisters, but because he was a boy, he was reluctant to let him suffer, so he entrusted him to his aunt in Hunan, who also had her own son, so she didn't have so much patience with him, but the discipline was very strict, and the slightest mistake was beaten or scolded.

So his personality is very forbearant and he is not good at expressing himself. He thinks that I love to talk and laugh very straightforwardly and is very willing to approach me, and after a long time, I can see his thoughts about me, but I also know that it is impossible for us to be together, I am the only daughter in the family in the north, and my parents cannot accept me to marry far away from Hunan.

And the important thing is that I don't have any feelings of love for him, I have compassion and understanding for him, that's all. I also tactfully expressed my heart to him, but he not only didn't understand or pretended not to understand, but still didn't change from before. I can't say anything more. <>

Later, when I left the company and chose to start my own business, he resolutely decided to resign with me and accompany me to start my own business. I repeatedly stressed to him that we can't be together, don't make impulsive decisions because you have feelings for me, he said that he didn't mean anything else, he just felt that he was too timid to live freely, he appreciated my decisiveness and was willing to work hard with me, even if it didn't succeed, it was considered to have worked hard. I really needed a partner and said yes.

The road to entrepreneurship is really difficult, and his personality is really not suitable for this kind of work that requires pioneering work, all the external work is pressed on me alone, and slowly there are quarrels and estrangements between us......Until one time, because a customer complained about a project, I was out on a business trip, and he couldn't cope with it and asked me to come back quickly to deal with it. In fact, as long as you explain the reason clearly to the customer to find a solution, it is no problem, it is normal to be scolded by the customer, he said that he can not accept the work of exchanging dignity for money, and finally he chose to leave, I know that this decision is right, and there is nothing to retain, the company is still in the development period Everything needs a strong heart to face, I can't force him to do what he doesn't like. <>

When he sorted out his belongings, chattered and explained to me about the work, my heart was indeed at a loss, he put the key of the company in my hand when I couldn't say the taste in my heart, after all, every brick and tile of the company is our work together. I insisted on seeing him off, but the moment he turned to get on the train, I felt a sense of loss, and as the train slowly left the platform, I realized that I had already burst into tears......

In a stressful society, everyone's heart is very fragile, we experience all kinds of blows, and we face all kinds of people and all kinds of things every day, which are testing whether we have the ability to solve them, so that each of us has all kinds of unspeakable secrets, causing us to feel that this society is very dark, and that this society only has blows and no hope.

Most of us have experienced such a thing, we went to school for 12 years for a college entrance examination, we sprint for the college entrance examination, every day to live an inhuman life, there is family pressure on us and the pressure of competition between classmates make us have to study hard, even if each of us is desperate to study, everyone will think that they pay more than others, but in the end the result is indeed different, When we get a good result, we will be very happy because our efforts have been rewarded, but the probability of such a result is not great, when we have made so many efforts and still do not get the results we thought of, we will be disappointed, we will be miserable, we will think that the world is very unfair.

In fact, think about everyone's talent is different, maybe you are wronged here will have an advantage in other places, when we do a lot of things without reporting or when we can't achieve the results we expect, we will feel very disappointed and desperate, at this time a person may choose to suffer, because they feel that only this way is not ashamed.

Child, this society is inherently cruel, we live in such a situation every day, you have to get used to it, you have to practice the ability to build one, as long as you become strong from the inside, there is nothing to defeat you. Sometimes you are bored in the middle of the night by yourself, not talking to outsiders, and you feel that you are venting yourself. Just vent when you need to, don't hold yourself.

When I saw this question, I remembered a very bad thing that happened in my life. I used to have a relationship with a guy who was a confidant, and it was very good. When I was a child, I also had a boy friend who was about the same relationship, and our relationship was very simple.

I thought that even though I grew up, I might have another relationship that was not in love, but just pure friendship. So it was very, very good for him. At that time, he had a long-distance girlfriend who always went behind his back to find his ex-boyfriend or even spend the night.

When he was in great pain, I comforted him because I could understand his pain. He made several decisions to break up with his girlfriend, but it didn't work out. He was still reluctant.

At that time, I didn't have any other thoughts on him, I just wanted him to be happy.

Later, he wrote on Weibo once. Saying that I am good to him, he knows that if we can be together one day, he will make me happy to the end. From then on, I started to look forward a little bit, and it would be good if we could really be together.

Then I said goodbye to him, and on the train home, he sent me a WeChat message, saying that if I wait for him, he will definitely make up his mind to handle the relationship between him and his girlfriend, and hope that I can be with him in the future. I'm also happy in my heart, wouldn't it be better if I was with my confidant.

On the first day home, he said he missed me, and the next day, in the early hours of the morning, he sent a message saying that his girlfriend was back and came to his house, and he hoped that I would not be sad. At that time, I didn't know what a spare tire meant. All I know is that I'm so sad that I feel like I've lost something, our friendship.

Feelings, everything. Every time I think about him holding his girlfriend, my tears keep flowing. My heart hurts as if it had been stripped out.

That news opened a huge gap between us, and even if I could forgive the pain, it would never be possible to return to the old relationship.

When I was in high school, one day I was going to school from my hometown, and then I saw that my grandmother was very attached to me, and while holding my hand, she told me to take care of myself, so I was full of tears at that moment.

Sometimes I feel very wronged, or I miss someone very much, and I can't help but want to cry, which is a normal thing.