Family troubles, am I wrong to deal with things this way?

I think the object of this speech is obtained, it should be that you first consider your husband's parents, and then your husband will consider your parents, they are all married people, this kind of life adjustment will not be ah, you don't care why your husband is against it, as long as you treat your husband's parents sincerely, since it is a good deed, don't make a bad thing, people's hearts are flesh and blood, for what you do for your husband must be seen in the eyes and remembered, of course, you will not treat your parents badly.

It should be treated equally, but if the conditions of the two families are very different, it is necessary to treat them individually.

Since they are all a family, they should treat their parents as relatives, isn't the purpose to let them all live well? What else do you pursue equality and inequality, small things, don't hurt feelings.

I've been married for a few years, hehe, that's how the general economic problem is handled.

Give my husband's parents subsidies and preferential treatment, and I will give some money during the New Year and holidays (not every month), 1,200 when I have enough money, and 3,500 when I have a tight hand. At the same time, I don't give money to my parents. In fact, the living conditions of the parents on both sides are similar, both are normal retirement salaries, although it is not much, but there is no problem with eating.

The reason for the appropriate subsidy is to make their conditions better.

The advantage of this is that your husband will also take good care of your parents, because no one is a fool, and they all know what to do. Two days ago, my husband took the initiative to change the rice cooker for my parents' house. Hehe.

So, don't fight, think more about your in-laws, there will be good returns.

I think what Tuantuaneer said makes a lot of sense.

Take a deep breath from time to time Relax your brain Divert your energy Work hard to study and work Some things Just let it go and let it go, your family can never abandon it Take a step back and be silent It will not hurt everyone but will solve the problem.

Think about the fact that you still have health and a lot of life, why not be happy. In addition, the best thing to do when you are angry is to go out and leave the environment that makes you angry for a while and it will calm down.

It can only be a soldier to block the water and cover the earth, and deal with one thing when it encounters it, and it is useless to escape or rush crazy. I've also encountered it, I'm annoyed to death, I want to quarrel, I want to do nothing. But you still have to face it, because after all, life has to go on.

If you love this family and your family, face it bravely. Also, let your loved ones know how you feel, tell them how you feel, and ask them for help if you need help.

When you go out of the house and change your mood and state of mind, you will find that the mood before and after the same thing is different, and you will even feel that how could you put such a trivial matter at ease. Life is short, and if you worry about such trivial things every day, life will be very boring. Come on, it's best to live the most free and easy self!

Well, friend, hello, family trivialities, small problems to solve, don't let him sprout. The best way to adjust is to solve the problem, everyone is comfortable, as for how to adjust? There's no shame in saying something soft, it's a family anyway. Take a step back.

Family chores are a problem we can't avoid in our lifetime, and using distraction methods can do more with less.

In fact, we should think more about it, the family is composed of two or more people, not a person's problem, a harmonious and happy family needs to be built by everyone, I suggest that you communicate more with your family, there is no communication that can not solve the problem. Hope to adopt.

These are all inevitable, think about nothing is a big deal, it can be solved, why bother to be in a bad mood for something that can be solved? Listen to the songs, go out for a walk, and when the time passes, love returns.

From the first birth to the end of old age, people have been in a state of confusion for decades, where does life come from? Where does death go? No one can answer that question.

Therefore, it can only be said that the confused come and go, and people pass in this confusion. Even husbands and wives and spouses are often unintentionally and seemingly accidentally; A lifelong career is always done in a foolish way, and there may not be a certain plan at the beginning, and it is rarely achieved by one's own ideas. A certain Western philosopher has a wonderful metaphor for this vast life, he said:

Somewhere there were two high mountains, and at the bottom of them was a deep stream, and between the two mountains there was a narrow bridge that led people to the bridge. Looking out of the mountains ahead, it was cloudy and misty, and it was confused; Looking far back at the mountain, it was smoky again; Look down. Depth.

Some people take three or two steps and fall into the abyss; Some people have fallen halfway through. Even if you approach the opposite mountain, you still can't avoid falling into the vast abyss. No one knows where it will go.

This is the best portrayal of the vast life. To study Buddhism is to have a thorough understanding of this confused life. This question of life, although it is not necessary to study it, is like a sea ship, from which the coast sails to a far destination, and can sail forward in the vast sea.

However, it is extremely dangerous to wander around without direction. Buddhism explains the question of where this life came from, where death goes, and how to go now, so that we can settle on the other side of the light.

Hope to all of you help dear friends.

In life, it is often a small thing in the family, and a little bit of it accumulates into a big problem, so it is recommended to be more considerate of each other. Also, it's a good idea to communicate often.

Life is one problem after another. Just solve them one by one. The days went by day by day. If you think about it in two years, you won't be able to recall any troubles.

Do your best to solve it, accept the reality if you can't solve it, and just love this family.

Empathy is a great way to resolve conflicts. Of course, it is also necessary to talk appropriately to relieve the depressed mood. In short, no matter how bad you are, your opponent will not feel sad about it, but the person who loves you will be sad about it.

How old are you? If you're married Well, don't complain, it's your choice.

If you're a kid, then don't think about things that are unrealistic, unattainable.

Relax your mind and adjust your mentality! Believe that life will be better!

Go out first and find a quiet place, think carefully, take a step back, open the sky! There is no right or wrong in family trivia!

The boat is naturally straight to the bridge, don't ask too much of anyone...

Think of each day as an important day and find out what makes you happy, excited, appreciated, and worked on it.

Calm down, organize your thoughts, and then do it with optimism.

First of all, it is necessary to understand that sometimes it is rare to be confused, and it is normal to run normally after getting used to it.

Be quiet, travel, talk to good friends, and trust Jesus.

After all, the old people in the family still want you to raise, they all say that raising children to prevent old age, you and your sister are their children, a bowl of water should be leveled, they blindly borrow money like this, and it is more likely that you will have to pay it back in the future, and besides, what does your sister think, this man has nothing, and he is cheeky to live in your house, how can she marry such a man.

To put it mildly, this is kicking the nose in the face.

A slap doesn't make a sound, your mother has a lot of responsibility for this.

She said a word. The girl who got married spilled the water, so the attitude of the old man determines everything, you have to negotiate with her, otherwise your family will be affected and must live separately.

And you're financially independent. That brother-in-law of yours can mix and mix, but you can't get used to him.

Hello landlord!

First of all, I wish you a happy and prosperous New Year

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Take responsibility, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. A point of communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the contradictions.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

Hope it helps

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