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Whether it is love or friendship, the ultimate goal is not to belong, but to understand and tacit understanding - to find someone who can talk while walking, no matter what.

When, no matter what the mood. Love is not something to be chased, nor is it to be found. True love can only be a natural event in life.

And the graceful waiting; It is the sound of the heartbeat when the four eyes meet when they meet in the water; It is a tired journey, unexpectedly falling into your hands.

The tenderness of the heart is connected with the veins. At the end of your life, you're looking for a pair — at the very least, a pair of ears that can listen to you. As long as you open it.

mouth, and he will understand you. This may be the happiness of a person. You can't tell why you really love someone, you just know when and where.

Ground, good or bad, you want this person to accompany you, the real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult time, after all, the relationship is to pay, and.

It's not just about getting. In this life, we may love more than one person, but we can only be one of them if we have the best. From now on, it will never be so hopelessly good to a person. Whoever doesn't understand you will use what he needs.

To love you in a way that is to be loved. Someone who understands you will love you the way you need to. Therefore, people who don't understand you often get twice the result with half the effort, and he loves it.

It's hard, you're hard. People who understand you often get twice the result with half the effort, he loves freely, you are happy, and in the world of two people, understanding is more difficult to do than love. So, let the person who understands you love you.

This is love that can't help itself.

Summary. Maybe he can't let go of you, or he thinks you're the best fit for him. If he has figured it out, it means that he can't do without you and loves you. I feel that you can slowly overcome the difficulties during the long-distance relationship through love.

At first, my boyfriend said that he couldn't leave me, and then he wanted to have a long-distance relationship, why did he suddenly figure it out.

It may be that he can't let you go, or that he thinks you're the best fit for him. If he has figured it out, it means that he can't do without you and loves you. I feel that you can also overcome the difficulties of Song Ze during the military service of the regiment through love.

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It's that I don't want to go out to work, but he wants to go out to work, so he has to be in a different place.

Uh-huh, I saw your reply.

He didn't want to be separated from me before, but then he suddenly figured out why he was again.

Mmmm, I see that the scum has received your reply. Then he may think that a long-distance relationship is not a problem for you, and he thinks that you can manage this quiet relationship.

Moreover, he may also realize that it is also a good choice to go out to work now, and he can better manage his relationship if he has an economic foundation first.

Good. If a man always says that he loves you, he can't do without you, and he loves you very much, is it true or false.

He gives me all my salary every month, does he really love me?

Uh-huh, of course it's true. Because it's an expression of love. Why do you doubt the truth or falsehood? Moreover, his salary is all handed over to you.

I think it's very fake to say that he loves me, you have to believe that you deserve to be loved, and you have to believe that he really loves you. You deserve it, and you deserve it. You may doubt what he said, but his wisdom is true.

It is not only to see what he says, but also how he does it. What your boyfriend said and did, it's all good.

You have to trust him.

This is my understanding. If you think mine is not comprehensive enough, you can talk about the situation in detail, and I can help you better

Yes, it seems that it is difficult for you to understand why you have such a "doing" performance at such a time, instead of cherishing this rare moment of togetherness.

1.Separation is an important issue that often stirs our emotions, and besides, the separation you face is not a simple separation.

2.The separation itself is sad enough, and on top of that sadness, you have to endure a lot of uncertainty, and the future of the relationship is uncertain.

This may make you feel great anxiety, confusion, fear, and insecurity.

3.Intellectually, you know that you should support his decision, but emotionally it is quite difficult for you to accept his departure, maybe this feeling of being left behind hurts you, and you have anger in your heart about this result, so you are punishing him in a way that is far away from him, and it is also a chain protection for yourself, protecting yourself from facing him, so that you can not face this complicated feeling.

4.This is how you deal with separation, expressing contradictions through action. If you can face up to all your feelings, not only love and attachment, but also resentment and dissatisfaction with him, maybe your goodbye will be more sincere.

Nine out of ten pairs of long-distance relationships can't reach the end, and the breakup rate is extremely high, and the reasons for the breakup are nothing more than two kinds, either empathy and other love, or the distance has cracks. I can understand that you are worried about breaking up with your boyfriend, but you have to understand that whether your boyfriend's work has improved or not will not directly lead to the two of you breaking up, you are afraid that he will not have the heart to fall in love with you after his work improves, so if his work does not improve, can he have the heart to fall in love with you? If his work doesn't improve, he'll be busier at work, okay?

If a man is not ambitious, do you plan to drink the northwest wind after him?

Since you're going to start a long-distance relationship, then you have to be prepared to chat only online, meet when you're free, chat online when you're not free, this definitely doesn't feel as good as being together before, if you can't stand it, then consider being in the same place, if there is no way to be in the same place at this stage, you can only be in a different place, then there is no way, isn't it?

I kindly remind you that long-distance relationships are already very bitter, and there are very few couples who can persevere, and it is particularly time-consuming, for the sake of insurance, it is best to talk to him about settling in ** in the future, and see if everyone has the same idea, you can have a long-distance relationship when you fall in love, and you can't live separately when you get married, right? Long-distance relationships have to have a deadline, right? Don't take one step at a time, in case the two of you finally persist for three or five years, only to find out when you talk about marriage that he is not willing to give up his job to come to your side, and you are not willing to give up everything on your side to go to his side, then you can only break up in the end?

After so many years of perseverance, in the end, you still can't resist the reality, you are both painful and exhausted of youth, do you feel no regrets?

So talk about these now, so that it will not be painful in the future, if both parties can't reach an agreement now, and no one is willing to compromise for whom in the future, then simply take advantage of the long-distance relationship to break up, if the two of you have discussed, the goal in the future is the same city, then now the long-distance relationship is a little harder, stick to it, agree that no matter how busy you are every day, you will watch it at night after work, play a **, if you have time on holidays or weekends, let him come to see you, or you go to see him, understand each other more, be more tolerant, Since you're going to be in a long-distance relationship, in addition to work, don't let the game take up the time of the two of you, you have to believe that if the relationship between the two of you is deep enough, if you identify each other, no matter how difficult the long-distance relationship is, there will always be a day when the long-distance relationship will come to fruition.

The feeling of insecurity comes from a lack of confidence in your boyfriend, so you have to be honest with your boyfriend about your uneasiness, if the other party wants to be with you for a long time, then naturally take more time to accompany you to comfort you.

In fact, both men and women will care about these details, and they will care about whether you have a ta in your heart, and women may be more sensitive to this.

If a man does not have you in his heart, his attitude is obvious, he will be indifferent to your affairs, he will not care about your affairs, as if you are a person who has nothing to do with him.

And if that person likes and cares, he will naturally behave differently, he will be jealous, he will be unhappy, and he will make you to him through all efforts.

This is the difference between love and non-love, love will react to you, and when you see you with other members of the opposite sex, you will feel threatened, afraid that you will be robbed, and afraid of losing you from now on.

This reaction will make him nervous and will also make him jealous, and if he likes you, he will naturally want you to have him alone in your heart and you can't be with other people.

Therefore, it is very simple to know if there is you in a person's heart, and look at how he behaves when you are with other members of the opposite sex, and it will probably understand.

The person who has you in his heart will not be indifferent in the face of you, especially when he sees you with other members of the opposite sex, he will be very jealous and will feel hurt.

Maybe this kind of behavior of his is naïve, but if it weren't for deep love, he wouldn't have this reaction, his jealousy, his injury, but because he cares too much about you and is afraid of losing you.

Whether a person has you in his heart or not, you can see from this little thing, that is, to see if he will be jealous of you, and to see how he reacts when he sees you with other members of the opposite sex.

People are contradictory, when he is jealous, or when he minds you being with other members of the opposite sex, you feel that he is not generous enough, but at the same time you want him to be able to do this, because you know, he reacts this way because he has you in his heart and cares about you.

If a person doesn't care about you at all, he won't care who you're with, and he won't be jealous because of it, feeling threatened, and feeling that he is about to lose you.

A person who has you in his heart will definitely have an exclusive mentality, he can't stand your contact with other people at all, his heart will be very anxious, and his heart will be full of worries.

Through this little thing, you can also reflect your status in his heart, and the person who has you in his heart will not be unresponsive, because he cares, he will be nervous, and because he cares, he will be naïve.

You obviously don't have self-confidence, is your boyfriend in much better condition than you. People who don't have self-confidence are easily despised by others.

Long-distance relationships are indeed laborious. The odds are higher, do you see if you can go to your boyfriend? You don't have this kind of thought, your boyfriend will dump you, if you have this kind of thought, you make yourself better and make your boyfriend afraid of you. Make him even more afraid of losing you.

have already started working, it's better not to be in a different place, it's easy to empathize and don't fall in love after a long time. Go to his city and work with him for the future.

The marriage between men and women is really wonderful, not just waiting for the rabbit, men and women love, just the beginning of fate, maybe you are like-minded with each other, the three views of the same thought, this is just a good feeling, to find a boyfriend and girlfriend, talk about marriage, objective facts are very important, such as: temperament and talent, treat people and things, work ability, personality and attitude, economic foundation, living conditions, self-motivation, family concept, filial piety to elders, the right family, whether the two families agree, are the key, all have to be thoughtful, so, first of all, it is very important to be yourself, as for whether you can find a boyfriend and girlfriend, everything is providential, after all, marriage is not child's play, you must think twice.

In fact, you love him very much, so you have such an idea, I think love is a thing, you can't force it, it's better to go with the flow, the tighter you grasp something, the faster it runs!

If he loves you, what are you afraid of? If he doesn't love you, you're trying. You are in love with Him, and it will not come to fruition. Just go with the flow.

This concern is not unreasonable, but the career is important, and it is better to find a way to transfer to a city.

Let's go together, separation is not the way.

So scared, just break up.

Summary. Half a year together is not too long, and it is not too short.

told the other party that he was leaving, but he didn't keep it at all, which shows that he has long been mentally prepared for this. Or rather, I've been looking forward to this day for a long time. Because under normal circumstances, men will hold on for a while, even if it's just for show.

Of course, there is also a possibility that he has been prepared for a long time, and he will go wherever you go, so he will agree so simply, and he will not hesitate to live the life you want.

After a year and a half together, I suddenly told my boyfriend that I wanted to leave here to work somewhere else, and he agreed, which means.

Hello, dear.

Half a year together is not too long, and it is not too short. told the other party that he was leaving, but he didn't keep it at all, which shows that he has long been mentally prepared for this. Or rather, I've been looking forward to this day for a long time.

Because under normal circumstances, men will hold on for a while, even if it's just for show. Of course, there is also a possibility that he has been prepared for a long time, and he will go wherever you go, so he will agree so simply, and he will not hesitate to live the life you want.

Later, I asked him if he wanted to go with him, and he said what he was going to do.

I guess I wanted to separate for a long time.

Because it is a sister and brother relationship, most of the differences are not destined to break up.

Honey, sibling love is nothing. It's just that distance will really separate you.

Distance often produces not beauty, but loneliness and suspicion.

Because I had a fight before, the quarrel was very fierce, he proposed to break up, I kept it, he said that we are too different, no matter how good I am to him, we will not go to the end.

So my dear, since you have decided to leave, you might as well let this fruitless relationship end together. He doesn't deserve to be kept again and again.