Is it true that women with strong personalities are not happy easily?

What a strong woman needs most in love is to regain the female power that belongs to her but has been suppressed for various reasons. Some women will need to show independence, strong purpose, and a personality that wants nothing from others because of their careers, but in the process of getting along with men, these traits are often inadvertently revealed. Even deep down, they have a desire for warmth and dependence as little girls, but too heavy armor and a poor personality will make men confused about you.

Therefore, in the process of getting along with her partner, a woman needs to welcome back the gentle and obedient feminine energy, slowly remove the heavy armor, allow the man she loves to see her vulnerable side and need to be protected, stimulate the man's male energy, and then be deeply attracted to this flesh-and-blood you.

Yes, my mom is very strong, so that our family doesn't like her, she is still complacent, she tells others outside, we have to listen to her as a family, and what my dad said is even more useless, I didn't dare when I was a child, and now I don't like her when I don't like her, she says anything dirty anyway.

Everyone's definition of happiness is different, and if you feel happy in your heart, you will be happy. Strong people are worried, which is not happy in the eyes of some people, but strong people may feel happy because they can find a sense of fulfillment.

My family is a typical male protagonist inside and outside, my father used to work in a state-owned enterprise that was about to die, and his monthly salary was pitiful. But these material problems do not affect the mother's worship of the father at all, most of the family's expenses are the mother's responsibility, and the mother's opinion is the main thing if there are any major things. But even if my mom made her own decision, she still had to ask my dad's opinion first, and with that little girlish expression, she had to ask my dad everything.

It looks like I don't know how to solve it, but in fact, I have already thought about it in my heart. Pretty happy mom.

The woman is strong, and the chickens fly and the dogs jump every day.

My wife was strong and finally divorced.

It's annoying to see nonsense, who owes you.

What kind of personality does the person you meet? The average person should be able to get some.

What I'm afraid of is not being strong, I'm afraid of having no bottom line.

Because a woman who is too strong regards her feelings as obedience, it is difficult to find a suitable partner, it is easy to ruin the marriage, and it will ruin the children.

1. Women who are too strong regard their feelings as obedience, and it is difficult to find a suitable partner.

A strong woman, most of them lack the company of close relatives in their life experience, they lack a sense of security, are prone to gains and losses, and require unconditional obedience and trust for each other, otherwise, they feel that this is not true love.

Second, a woman who is too strong can easily ruin a marriage.

The most important thing for a man is dignity and face, if you marry a woman who is too strong, you can't hold your head up in front of your family or friends. Many women feel that men should be more careful, otherwise they will be out of moderation. But in fact, men are also human beings, and they also need freedom.

If a woman who is too strong disciplines a man too strictly, the man can easily suffocate and may even betray himself.

3. A woman who is too strong will ruin the child.

As the saying goes, teaching by example is more important than words. Parents are the best teachers for children, and the formation of children's three views is also the earliest from parents. Daughters imitate their mothers, and sons imitate their fathers.

In a family where women are strong and men are weak, the daughter will learn from her mother, learn to be arrogant and unreasonable, treat the opposite sex arrogantly and disrespectfully, and form a "shrew", and the son will imitate the father and become timid and cowardly at home, bloodless, and dare not take responsibility.

A woman's strength, like a paper tiger, is strong on the surface, but she is actually very fragile on the inside.

The man who is really quiet doesn't want to quarrel with her, so there is no need to fight for a moment in language.

Women are mostly soft, but they are so soft that they can't be independent, and men don't like them, but if women are so independent that they don't need men, men also hate her.

A woman, professionally independent and emotionally dependent, this woman is lovely.

Women want to marry a successful man, but if a woman can turn him into a successful man, that is her real ability.

Otherwise, she can't guide her man well and shout every day that one day, he will become someone else's husband.

So, when it should be strong, it is strong, and when it should be weak, it is weak.

It's your man, and you should respect it.

The above quotes a passage from Mr. Tu Lei. Women are like water, and even more so in the family, where water is not only gentle, but also growling and angry, and those are only under special conditions.

The home is a place where the whole family feels cozy and relaxed. In a warm family, no one is stronger, only who is more suitable for what kind of things. The division of labor is clear, and everyone contributes.

Once one party is too strong, it is inevitable that there will be one who is ordained, and the generation of power makes the family no longer look like a family, and the generation of power destroys the harmony of the family. This family is the common beneficiary of all family members, and a sabotage has become a tool for exercising power for oneself, and the happiness of others is gone, how can they have their own happiness?

As the saying goes, husband and wife are grasshoppers tied to the rope of the family, they can run away from you, but they can't run away from me, unless they don't want this family, that's not what we want. This sentence is common to both husband and wife, if you want family happiness, goals, and directions, this rope will save each other's worry and effort.

There is some truth in this sentence, because often strong women do not use wisdom when they get along with husband and wife, they only know how to use brute force, so they bring the husband and wife to a deadlock that cannot be communicated.

And men are always too depressed in front of their strong wives, because they can't get the tenderness and understanding of their wives, and some men will make themselves more confident through extramarital affairs.

If at this time, there is a woman who is tender and amorous next to the man, then it is a matter of minutes for the man to betray the marriage.

Even if a man does not betray his marriage and has been suppressed for a long time, he will definitely rise up and file for divorce with his wife.

A woman who is helpless in life. A woman who has no one to help, he can only be stronger than others now, in fact, he is very fragile in his heart, and he will hurt at night, and he often sheds tears.

I don't think it's good for a woman to be too strong. Because a woman who is too strong will make the other party feel out of breath to communicate with herself, and it will also make some people want to escape. And women who are too strong are lonely when they go back and forth, and they don't like their state very much, but it is difficult to change the habit that has been formed.

The reason why I think it's not good for a woman to be too strong is because it is generally difficult for a woman to be happy if she is too strong. Because they always have some thorns in their speech, people who like her will be hurt by her. And people who don't like her will use this as an excuse to slander them.

Women who are too strong are actually lonely, because no one understands her, and they can only carry things by themselves. Sometimes the reason why you are too strong is because there is no one around you who can help you. So I don't really want to ask for help from others, and slowly I become a strong woman, but in fact, a strong woman is not happy.

Sometimes I also feel that life is a particularly painful thing, and living one day at a time counts as one day. I can't find a goal to strive for, and I feel that there is nothing that can make me interested or even happy.

A woman who is too strong is also unhappy in love. Because her strength will make her lover breathless. Sometimes it hurts to quarrel with women who are too strong, because they can always find your most vulnerable point and attack you.

So in the face of a very strong woman, most people will want to escape.

In fact, a strong woman also needs to be loved, and she can also be a little woman, just because there is no one to carry some things for them. She also wants to be hugged when she is vulnerable. But because she has been strong for too long, she keeps all those fragile things in her heart and protects herself with a hard shell.

This is also the reason why more and more people do not understand them, because they never show weakness to anyone. So even if you want to help a strong woman, you can't find a way. I hope that a strong woman can slowly let go of her pretense and use her truest side to get the love she wants.

If a woman is too strong, then the family will definitely not be happy. If a man is hard and a woman is soft, then the family must be happy; If a man is soft and a woman is hard, then the family is not far from being broken.

A colleague of mine, Xiaoyuan, is a very strong woman in an electronics factory. She does a great job both at work and socially, though. At this time, there was a new supervisor in the company, and Xiaoyuan was just the production team leader of this company, and it was also managed by this supervisor.

Later, time passed day by day, and the new supervisor Xiao Liu fell in love with Xiao Yuan, and Xiao Liu began to pursue Xiao Yuan in this way, because we all have a good relationship, so Xiao Liu often called us when he invited Xiao Yuan to dinner. In fact, at this time, Xiao Liu also admitted to everyone that he began to pursue Xiao Yuan, and Xiao Yuan personally knew it.

So they started to get closer, often commuting to and from work together and going out on dates together. No one knows what the hell is going on with them, ask if they are together? None of them admit it, they only know that they have a good relationship.

Xiao Liu and Xiao Yuan have a common hobby, often playing games together after work, but they can often be heard arguing with the stove. Xiao Yuan is a particularly strong girl, as long as Xiao Liu says something that satisfies Xiao Yuan, Xiao Yuan will chase after this matter.

Time flies quickly, two years have passed, and their relationship has become worse and worse, from the original pursuit relationship to Xiao Liu becoming Xiao Yuan's younger brother. Later, Xiaoyuan found a person she liked in her hometown, and quit her job and went home to get married within two months.

Since then, I haven't seen Xiaoyuan. After they got married, they could often see Xiaoyuan posting on Moments, saying that she was too bad, and sometimes she would fight with her husband, and quarrels were a common thing.

Through this incident, I know that women can't be too strong, otherwise they will definitely not live happily.

Wandering outside the home is a contribution to the family, and taking care of the home is also a kind of dedication, both of which should not be ignored.

1.You have to know what you want.

For many strong women, the most important problem they need to face is not knowing how to balance family and career.

They are accustomed to putting some of the rules of the workplace in their own family business, which is actually impersonal in itself.

Whether it is the male protagonist outside the female protagonist, or the female protagonist outside the male protagonist, in essence, everyone hopes that your home can become better.

On the premise of establishing this relationship, then you need to be able to negotiate and analyze some specific problems.

This is not the kind of quantitative assessment at work, but a manifestation of a pair of people who love each other to face problems in life together.

In other words, it is not easy for people who work hard outside the home, whether it is the coping of interpersonal relationships or physical fatigue.

Then, the other party should naturally help to share more, but this sharing should not be taken for granted.

The business process of marriage depends on whether the two people can work together, whether you care about each other, and more importantly, whether you can negotiate with each other.

2.There is no perfect choice in life.

People's energy is always limited, so people who value their careers will definitely neglect their families and vice versa.

However, since you have made a choice, please trust and respect the other person, and consider others not only for yourself.

If you say, love is only about the pleasure of two people. That marriage is more important, whether you have met a suitable partner.

There are no perfect options in life, and your partner cannot be an absolutely perfect person.

Everyone will have a temper, and they will have their own unbearable and regretful. Accepting each other and taking care of each other is a shared responsibility of two people.