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Hello! First of all, feel sorry for your current situation! There are two possibilities for you to break up, first, you are really not suitable together, you still love her, but she has no feelings for you anymore, of course, this also includes the spiritual and material levels!
Of course I don't want that to be the reason! Second, maybe it's some misunderstanding or something, but your relationship still exists, and if that's it, it's easy to do, so you first have to tell me that you fall into that situation! Good luck and may there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married!
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Intentions, if you really fall in love with someone else, then there is not much you can do.
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She can only be better than her new boyfriend.
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Do you remember how you made him fall in love with you? Just do that. Or let yourself change on your own.
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Good horses don't eat back grass, landlord.
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I'll tell you, don't think about not loving me today, hum, gold worshipper, you wait for this, my lord will stone you to death with money.
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If she wants to score, what she does is useless.
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If you really want to win back the girl in the future, you must show 100% sincerity, care and understand each other.
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1. Second attraction, establish a new image.
Some men don't know how to get back a woman after a breakup, and they blindly stalk and fight, and as a result, things are even more stiff. When you have broken up, what you need to do is to calm down, it is better to take this opportunity to disconnect for a while, give her a quiet environment to slowly reduce the negative emotions towards you, and then change yourself in the future and re-enter her life.
2. Buy people's hearts.
The first thing to do when chasing a girl is her friends, and if you want to get your girlfriend back, it is necessary to buy her best friend. If you want to redeem yourself, if you can get the approval of your ex-girlfriend's best friend, it will be much easier next. Therefore, you have to sincerely promise your ex-girlfriend's best friend that she will be good to her in the future, so that your ex-girlfriend's best friend will recognize you, so once you approve it, your ex-girlfriend's best friend can persuade a few words at a critical moment, and the possibility of redemption is relatively great.
3. Get rid of your bad habits.
After the breakup, think back to what she used to inadvertently dislike you? Women usually inadvertently talk about your shortcomings, you can not be funny when you are together, now that you are separated, if you still want to chase her back, then you have to get rid of these bad problems, think back to when you were first together, how you were ruined. 4. Learn to identify with her preferences.
The world is so big, you can't find someone who fits you in everything. Everyone has their own preferences, and they are willing to be equipped with the intention to change for each other is to like, don't be a pedestrian who insists on going her own way, and start catering to her hobbies, there are very few people in this world who can match your preferences and dislikes 100%, even if they can match you, you may not be able to meet her.
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To take a very simple example, if a person used to be crazy about ice cream, tasting various styles of ice cream every day, and suddenly one day he felt that ice cream was not attractive enough for him, or even tired of seeing ice cream, then he was in a state of saturation with ice cream.
In fact, for many people, there is such a mentality, "The more enthusiastic the love, the more numb they will be to love after the breakup.""It's not that I don't want to love, but I can't be interested in love anymore. For them, love has become a "last thing to consider.""。
The other party wants to give himself a cooling-off period to change his mindset after the breakup. If you still launch a fierce offensive to save the day, the result will only be that the harder you try, the more bored you will become with the key belt, and the result will often be counterproductive.
If the other party is indifferent, or even bored, with your reversive behavior, many times it is not your "wrongdoing."", but "doing the right thing at the wrong time.""。
Therefore, it is advisable to give each other a cooling-off period and guide each other appropriately, and it will be smoother to recover.
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