Is it worth waiting for a girl to wait for a guy to go to college?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Let's put it another way, you and he should know each other in junior high school, I guess your area is not very developed economically, high school male study, you can work near the school and often visit him, at this time he has no obligation to support you, that is to say, the cost of love to the man at this time is not high, and your birth makes him have face in his classmates.

    To the university his acquaintance increased pull. The world is not that small city, but a society with money and a good life, if there is a girl who is more beautiful than you and has a better family environment than you to enter his life, then the cost of falling in love with her will be lower than yours (referring to the same living level), from the maximum benefit, he will abandon you, don't believe in any nonsense like loving you forever, unless you and he get a marriage certificate now, or you will always be a passive party, and you may be abandoned at any time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    To wait or not to wait is not the point, you have to figure out a few questions before deciding to wait for him: Do you love him deeply? Is he in love with you dearly?

    Is he someone you can rely on for the rest of your life to grow old? If you figure out these questions, the answers will come out. Hehe, as an aside, if I knew that my girlfriend could wait for me outside of school, I would be quite impressed!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I advise you to waste your youth and wait for a boy. Girls have entered society, boys in school and other girls to develop a relationship is also said to be a certainty, as the saying goes, it is better to have a long time of love, or think about it!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's basically not worth it, and I'm not in favor of waiting.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This specific situation is analyzed on a case-by-case basis, depending on the boy's character, and it is recommended to go with the flow! Waiting is risky! If you meet a good one, you will marry, you say.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As long as you believe in yourself, you can see the green light of happiness. Believe in yourself, and believe in Him at the same time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In this case, there are many "Chen Shimei", so it is not recommended that you wait.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It is advisable to break up, don't wait any longer.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you like it, don't give up, I hope he loves you just as much and blesses you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hope you guys have good results!

    Bless it!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It seems that the time has come to test you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    More women than boys are admitted to university.

    According to statistics, more than 50% of students who are admitted to universities for bachelor's and even master's degrees are women. In other words, whether they are admitted to universities or graduate schools, there are more female students than male students.

    Cause. Language is also one of the most important factors in achieving good grades in the study of mathematics. When I see that many children are faced with application problems that they can't do, just ask them to read the problem aloud three times, and they will do it.

    This shows that the child's mathematics is not weak "logically", but "language" is problematic.

    However, the development of language processing ability in boys is generally significantly later than that of girls. Because the temporal plane in the brain of boys is smaller than that of girls, their language comprehension and expression skills are relatively weak. Studies have suggested that some 6-year-old boys have the same level of brain development as girls less than 5 years old.

    This gap narrows around puberty, but if a boy has already experienced too many failures in primary school, he will become discouraged and think that he is "not naturally good at learning". Then, even in middle school, when boys' abilities have matured, they often dare not put in all the effort because they are afraid of failing again and proving themselves to be "stupid" again.

    It is for this reason that if there is a boy in the family, parents need to start cultivating and exercising the child's language skills as early as possible. Including the ability to read and express, let the boys be exposed to language as much as possible, and help them make up for language shortcomings as much as possible.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    <> "When a boy meets this kind of girlfriend, marry him on the spot."

    Love to eat, love to make trouble, love to joke!

    People aren't very beautiful, and sometimes they feel a little silly!

    Honor your parents! Reasonable!

    A bit headstrong, straight talking, doesn't like to beat around the bush!

    Love to be clean, love to tidy up the house!

    Straight character, knife mouth tofu heart!

    Save face for you in front of outsiders!

    Although the boss is not small, his mentality is still like a little girl!

    Delicate mind cares about your attitude!

    When you're unhappy, you'll find a way to make you happy.

    Love to be angry, don't hold grudges, the only thing will be good!

    I love to cry, but I'm very coaxing!

    Light makeup doesn't like heavy makeup!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My university is an engineering university, and there is a serious imbalance between men and women, but for an economics major, I don't feel anything, because our major is a moderately balanced ratio of men and women.

    The same school, different colleges have different atmospheres, and the proportions are different, and more boys are not necessarily bad, maybe you are the flower of that class.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Whether two people can come together is not only the impact of the Shiqing academic return to the good calendar, there are many factors, the most important thing is whether the emotional foundation of the two people is solid, whether they trust each other.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Montaigne said: Passionate love can enrich the content of books, and books are people's most faithful friends. Children, read more books, read good books, the heart is full, and the pattern of people will be broadened. I believe that the girls you attract are also excellent.

    Love, the beginning is beautiful, the process is tiring, the ending is sad, and it is difficult to be sober.

    Please believe that the most beautiful love is worth your wait.

    What do you think? Do you have any better suggestions?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I know a high school friend named Big Flower. Gender female, the object is that she has small hair. A sunny and handsome 182 boy.

    Feeling a little love and love are probably different, he always feels the same feeling as being in love and not talking about it. As soon as she entered the university, a handsome guy in the same class attracted her, she said, she didn't like the handsome guy at that time, but she just thought the guy was more attractive. Later, I learned that this guy has an object, and the object is the same city as the big flower object.

    Gradually, the topic of conversation increased. The two of them took a car together to see the object, the two talked happily on the road, went to find the object together, and came back together, and over time the two became friends. Dahua couldn't help but appreciate the guy, but the guy didn't seem to have any special feelings for Dahua.

    Finally, one day, the opportunity came. Dahua went to dinner with the people of his own club, drank a little too much, and called the guy to pick him up, and the guy went. Dahua jumped up directly and hugged the guy, the guy was a little confused, and the guy didn't refuse, so he hugged him for a long time.

    Maybe it's because Dahua himself is beautiful and righteous. Maybe the guy also has a good impression of him, and Dahua finally confessed. The two of them struggled for days whether to be together or not.

    They say they will either break up their relationship or become lovers.

    Under the urging of courage, they couldn't resist their inner thoughts and decided to be together. In this way, they went from looking for a partner together to becoming an object. Once unexpectedly, he and her fell in love.

    They have been happy now. They all made sacrifices for each other, and the object of the big flower and her didn't even count the hair, and the object of the guy found another school of his own. All in all, the results are good.

    When you meet someone you love, you take the initiative, and having an object is not a problem. Feelings are not first come, first come, just follow the heart.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you really can't let go of that girl, you can choose to protect her silently. Wish her happiness, but don't disturb her happiness. I believe that in the near future, you will also meet your little happiness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Sometimes there will always be such a tragedy, and the girl I like has a boyfriend, and my personal advice is not to wait. You only have two choices, either be bold and dig into the wall, or just give up on her. There's no point in waiting for you, do you think girls will be with you even if they break up?

    Even if she's with you, you're just a spare tire.

    I used to fall in love with a girl who had a boyfriend, and I was very stupid at that time, and I said to her: "Although you have a boyfriend, I will always wait for you, and if I like someone, I will give up on her." During that time, I had a hard time, and I knew that there was no hope, but I still kept waiting.

    Finally one day, she broke up, I thought the opportunity had come, I went to boldly pursue her, a girl in the fall out of love, boys are often easy to enter her heart, in my company, she successfully walked out of the shadow of lovelorn.

    When I thought she might accept me, I boldly confessed to her, and in the end she rejected me. She told me, "At that time, I wanted to convince myself to accept you, but I didn't like you very much, and the forced relationship didn't end well, so we were still more suitable to be friends."

    Love can't stand the wait, you're just wishful thinking, now the girl you like must love her boyfriend very much, even if you are very good to her and touched her, but she still has no feelings for you. Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower. You fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, and there is no doomed result between you, and your waiting will only make you sink deeper and deeper.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I believe that when you are in junior high school and high school, you are strictly forbidden to fall in love on campus, and those who are caught will be severely punished, but when you get to college, will you hear such remarks again, "If you don't talk about that love for four years in college, then your college life is incomplete." But do we always encounter such a situation, the girl you like has a boyfriend, so the question is, should you wait for her?

    Maybe we've all heard the joke: Did you always think that no one chased you in high school because the school teacher didn't allow it? When you get to college, you will know that no girl chases you, it's not that the teacher doesn't allow it, it's just that you're too ugly, it's just a joke.

    But when you really see a girl we like, you should take the initiative to confess, but you often get this answer: "I'm sorry, I have a boyfriend". What do you do when you encounter such an embarrassing thing?

    Some people think that if you love someone, you should always love her, which is called single-mindedness, but I think that single-mindedness should be when you love someone, and you will always love her. The girl you like has a partner, should you continue to wait for her? Of course not.

    Do you think she's going to break up with her boyfriend? Do you think she'll be with you even if she breaks up with her boyfriend? Do you want her to break up with her boyfriend?

    Do you really love her? Or do you just want to possess her?

    Love is not simply a dinner party, love is not possession, love, is responsibility, understanding, and fairness. Love is not selfish possession, it is not unilateral giving. So, when you really understand what love is, you will know how to love someone.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower. If you have someone you like, you can boldly chase it, provided that people are not in love, if they have a partner, then bless her. If you wait, it will be immature.

    We have seen a lot of situations where the male and female protagonists are waiting in the TV series, and do you have the halo of the protagonist. What if the girl you like stays with her boyfriend until she gets married? Are you waiting?

    Like someone who is willing to give everything for her, it's right to want to be good to her, it's not wrong to want to be with her, the key is that someone has a boyfriend. You can't do digging the foot of the wall, but you're struggling with whether to wait for her.

    So what are you waiting for? Wait for her to break up and then go to comfort her and confess to her? Even if that happens, can you be sure she'll want to be with you?

    If that's the case, then what's the point of waiting? You only die until the moment she rejects you, don't you?

    Taking a step back, if someone has a partner, as a boy, you should be generous and sincerely bless others. What's the point of you, a big man, struggling with this question all day long? Although you fell in love in college, how do you know that people can't go to the palace of marriage?

    It's one thing to like someone in your heart, and when you encounter this situation, it's time to let it go, and don't wait until you hit the south wall to regret it. Maybe you've missed another fate while you're struggling with this.

    Life is like this, love is the same, when you are struggling with whether something should be done or not, you might as well think about it from other angles to avoid falling into a strange circle. There are many beautiful things in life, and you will meet better girls, so why bother with a branch of tweed.

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