I m so annoyed, I m so contradictory, so annoying, so contradictory?

Going to the outside for an internship will not only expand your horizons but also increase your work experience, which will be very helpful for your personal future career development. And yours he won't let you go, but it's out of his selfishness. He is afraid that if you leave for a long time, your relationship will be bad.

He doesn't think about your future at all. Think about it, is it him who is important or your future that is important. It is advisable to have a good talk with him and put your thoughts along.

If your relationship can't hold back even a little bit of time, it's too fragile. Even if you are together every day, there is no guarantee that your relationship will not deteriorate.

Don't be too stubborn sometimes.

This is a test for you

I think you will definitely find a girl who is more suitable for you through the lessons of first love.

If she had given up on you and the relationship, why would you have been holding on to it? It's not fair to her, it's to you

Feelings need to be single-minded, and it is a matter for the other two people

Nostalgia when you are nostalgic, abandonment when you give up, loss, maybe not come again, maybe you feel glad because you didn't choose that in the first place"Half"You've finally found one that's all your own.

Girls .

See if you're more important to your job or your boyfriend, and if you're sure it's okay to leave him, go if not, it's better to stay with him.

In your mind, who do you think of the two of you?

Or if you identify with him, let go of the idea and stay;

Otherwise, go and make your dreams come true.

Hello. It's just an internship, you should go, talk to him, he will understand.

You have to learn to measure, do you think it's worth giving up an opportunity for him?

It's worth giving up for the sake of your own future. That's all I have to say. Good luck.

No matter what annoys you, leaves you with no way to solve, and leaves you in a dilemma. As long as you clear your mind and distinguish the pros and cons, then you will be able to make a decision. So calm down and think about how to solve it, and if the matter is solved, it will not be annoying, and there will be no contradictions.

When you encounter something that you can't solve, try to relax and calm yourself. Think about what is causing your irritability, get to the root of it, and try to fix it.

It is advisable to go to the hospital to see a psychiatrist to solve the problem of upset.

Crying is a good thing, it is a way to release your suppressed and stressful emotions right now. I've cried. Calm down and take a look at what my sister said, I hope it can help you. Open your heart knots.

Your parents love you very much, hope you are well, and you will have a good future, this is the wish of every parentOn weekdays, your academic performance has always been very good, but this time you failed the exam. They were extremely nervous. That's why they blame you. I'm going to help you sign up for cram school.

Then again, today's competition, the real society. No talent, no education. Not really. Your parents also want you to have a good job and a decent income in the future. They don't want you to suffer later.

So you have to get their approach right. Maybe you feel that going to cram school is hard and tiring. I think it's still necessary when conditions permit.

Unless you know everything. Some people don't have the conditions to learn yet. Think about which one you are weak in your studies right now.

Targeted remediation, this is the true meaning of going to cram school.

If you don't get into a key middle school, maybe you yourself feel very regretful, and you are also wronged in your heart, and you are not relieved and blamed, and you understand you.

However, my sister solemnly told you that now is a critical period to really lay a solid foundation. Totally understood, understood. It will be much easier for you to study later on. With a solid foundation, you know what happens.

Smile at your parents and the people around you. It's the kind of smile that is full of confidence on the face.

Other than that. To give you a suggestion, take good class notes carefully and organize them into a book. You'll definitely be able to use it in the future.

It's nothing to worry about, think about it, there are many people like you in China, if you love to learn, then work hard! Make up all the previous loopholes, I believe that you will be able to get into a good university after working hard, and your parents will be impressed by the time. You must discuss with your parents about cram school, and you can report it if it is useful to you.

Blame is inevitable, do your parents think that if you go to general high school, you can't go to a good university, then prove it to them with your own efforts. Now don't be troubled, don't beg to cry. A bright future must belong to you, I wish you a cool and thin flower!

Feel free to ask questions if you have any questions).

I think you should first determine your goals, determine what you want to do in the future, what you want to do, whether you need to study, and talk to your parents according to your goals, instead of studying for the sake of learning, until you get bored with yourself!

Once you fail, the most important thing is to maintain self-confidence, as long as you want to succeed, hardship is inevitable. Parents always help you enroll in cram school for your own good, as long as you can overcome the difficulties in learning, it is the best comfort for them. So, don't be disappointed, don't be discouraged, and don't resent your parents.

What is the reason for not doing well in the exam after graduation, this should be communicated to the parents, and then a feasible plan should be formulated, so that the parents feel that your analysis is very reasonable, instead of blindly registering for classes in the case of the child's reluctance, let them distinguish that they want to register for classes and report in a targeted manner, but it does not mean that as long as they spend money to register for classes, the grades will go up.

The high school entrance examination is just a small exam, I didn't do well at the beginning, I entered the general middle school, at the beginning I was also very regretful and blamed, but gradually you will find that the general middle school and the key middle school are just two words different, even if you are admitted to the key middle school, the college entrance examination may not be good to **. Anla: Who said that if you don't get into a key middle school, you can't go to a key university

Your dad is just dissatisfied with your high school entrance examination results, which is why he is so nervous to help you register for classes. After all, he's also for your good. Have a good talk to Dad, you'll feel better. I guess it's been a long time since you've sat down with your dad to communicate.

We only have two key middle schools here, but there are many ordinary high schools, more than a dozen. I didn't play my best level in the high school entrance examination, but I still got in. Later, when the arts and sciences were divided, the head teacher said a sentence that made me very profound:

Even the worst score of those who are admitted to key high schools is higher than that of the best students in ordinary high schools, but in the end, not everyone in the key high schools in the college entrance examination can enter the university, but there may be many in the general high school, which is self-confidence, and three years will be crushed. "So, Ann.

Just like my friends said, your parents are also good for you, you have to relax your mind, and face your current study life easily, in fact, most children like your age are soaked in the holiday cram school, you are not alone in trouble, hehe, hold on for a few more years, and when you are admitted to college, you will be free, it's really like this, it's not an exaggeration...

1. You might as well work hard to tutor and get good grades, maybe your father won't report it to you.

2. You cry a lot, and then complain to your parents at home. He'll help you talk.

3. Pretend to be strong. For example, when you are sick, you have to insist on going to school, and then say, "I didn't study hard, I made you worry, I want to work hard, believe me!" "If your dad is touched, then you use the first two, the effect will be better.

Your dad cares about you, I hope you will have a future career, he also understands that art is not pressing, it is good to let you learn more knowledge, it will help you in the future, you have to understand the hard work of a parent.

Poor child....Why are there so many childhood troubles? Don't worry too much, worry about this kind of thing, solve some of it, the easier it will be in the future. Trust me, hehe.

Mom and Dad also want to be hello, you have to have empathy. Think about it from their position, and if necessary, open the door of your heart and talk to them about your ideas, and talk to them about your ideas, communication is very important. Otherwise, neither side will know what the other is trying to do. Maybe become an enemy in the end.

They are indeed for your good, I believe you are a sensible child, but you need to communicate with them, tell them what you think in your heart, you can tell your thoughts through your trusted relatives at home, and let them help you tell your parents, all in all, life needs to be positive, maybe you can't experience it, but this will really affect you, so I hope you are optimistic, some things can't be solved, don't force yourself to think, and communication is the best way, believe in you.

Ay. Normal. Adjust your mindset.

When I was in elementary school, my mother forced me to sign up for an English class and a dance class, and then I was caught skipping class and was slapped by my dad, and my dad hit me for the first time, so I think I have a shadow! Later, I didn't go to dance in English and didn't continue When I was in junior high school, my mother asked me to learn piano, but I didn't want to learn it if I regretted it now I really regret it If I knew my parents' heart back then, I am not a person with no special skills But I can play the piano and dance, and I can speak English very well Alas, it is useless to regret it, you can be bitter for a while, you can't be bitter for a lifetime, come on!

Hehe!! They are for your good! But you should still do your best! But you can also think about nothing! When the college entrance examination is over, you will be liberated.

We can understand your feelings, and you must be guilty of yourself right now, and you should find a suitable opportunity to communicate with your parents.

The Long March of 10,000 miles has just taken the first step, and the parents are both hoping that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes. Even if they are strict, they love you, and you have to firmly believe that. And your failure does not mean that you will continue to fail in the future, and taking it easy is a pleasure to be tutored.

Choose what you like. Go with your heart. Have a family meeting to share your thoughts with your parents. But you can't go wrong to listen to your parents before you choose.

That's how every student comes here.

In fact, the high school entrance examination is not a direct life-determining exam, if you really don't want to disappoint your parents again, you have to work harder in high school, since, your parents want you to go to cram school, it is also for your good, if you really don't want to go, you should make it clear to your parents, because the money they give you to go to cram school is what they have in exchange for sweat, you can't waste it, let alone live up to it, if you want to go to it, you should take it seriously, anyway, it takes that time, just calm down and listen well. Perhaps, in the future, you will find that your parents let you go to cram school for your own good.

It's great to do everything you do now. Be considerate of your parents. The high school entrance examination is nothing, and you can do your best in high school!

In fact, everyone has such troubles, and when I was in the middle school entrance examination, I was also a few points behind the key high school, and a few people could talk about it, because in the eyes of our parents, they were full of hope for us. Although our parents' starting point is love, after all, because of the different circumstances in which we live, they sometimes can't really understand our inner thoughts. Try to be considerate of your parents and try to communicate with them, but if you're like me and don't have the courage to do the first two, try to be optimistic.

Which parents are not good for themselves, although I signed up for a class when I was 10 years old, my classmates all kept three or four classes, and there was a person who was one year younger than me and all enrolled in 14 classes.

Tell you, I was transferred from the key class of the key high school to the ordinary class, you think how aggrieved I am, talk to your father, in fact, I am very hard-working, it is because of too much pressure from my parents and relatives, I have been suppressing my studies for two years, so that I fell into the ordinary class, now it seems that my parents understand, do not give too much pressure, but I am now happy to study, very efficient, but parents are for your good, and also advise your parents, too much pressure will make the child unable to raise his head, unable to raise his neck, don't complain, Study hard.

You should try to communicate with your family. It's not good for the teacher to force you like this, not only can't you learn things. It also harms physical and mental health! .It should be a combination of work and rest. Communicate with your family.

Pity the hearts of parents in the world, in fact, I have just graduated from junior high school, I remember that we have a huge bad junior high school, but their school actually has a high school entrance examination person who took the 12th place in the city, it can be seen that the key to learning there is a good or bad depends on the individual, and in the non-key middle school to study a little better, there will be a sense of superiority will inspire you to learn better, there is an old saying that would rather be a chicken head than a phoenix tail, seize the time to study, learn to be grateful to your parents is the king! If you study well and have a great future!!