Psychological master in! The gap between the rich and the poor is psychologically unbalanced, and ho

Updated on society 2024-05-14
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You have to think about whether you are worth 1,000 yuan, if you think it is worth it, then you think about whether you are worth 10,000 yuan, if you still think you are worth it, then you have to consider two things.

    One is that you have to consider that others are fools, aren't you afraid that you, a person worth 10,000 yuan, will run away. If others are not fools, there are some places where you do not meet the standard of 10,000 yuan, then how should you work hard to meet the standard. When you reach that standard, you will be able to get paid accordingly.

    The second consideration is that if someone does give you less than what you really value, then consider changing places.

    If you find that your value is not up to par, it is better to work hard to improve yourself than to be blushing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You should think that you are a newcomer, since you are a public institution job, you must be fine, and you have to scratch your salary slowly.

    Public institutions are also very dark, there are many unreasonable places, and the more you don't work, the more you take.

    In fact, you are unwilling to get such a little for a college student who pays so much.

    Three suggestions for you: 1. Rich work experience to improve personal ability.

    2. Lie down and taste the gall.

    3. Continue to travel in the enterprise and find a way to plan for your future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This may be something that newcomers in the workplace have to face, doing the most and gaining the least. The question here is, since when does your own worth start to equal your salary? If the sense of fulfillment comes only from the salary, it is difficult for us to find a job that really satisfies us.

    In fact, in the first 3-5 years of work, accumulating experience and network may be more important than how much money you make, after all, this is only the accumulation stage.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Enrich your spare time and focus on other places... Work hard... Also, think a lot of good things ...

    You've just graduated... Still young... People who are well treated have been working hard for n years...

    Maybe people, like you ... But, I always want to open something...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your parents have some problems in educating their children Everyone's talents and opportunities are different You can't measure the value of your children by your achievements and how much money you earn This may be the value of this society, but it shouldn't be used by parents to treat their children I think your parents don't have the heart to talk about it, they don't take into account your feelings, and they want to raise you with hard work, don't worry about these things with the elderly, they must love you in their hearts.

    You have to be tolerant of your sister She didn't do anything sorry for you It's just that your self-esteem is too strong It's better than you go back and forth and find yourself unhappy She gives you things and loves you As a sister Why should she show off to you She also wants you to live well Doesn't it If you look at her differently, it won't be so unbalanced If you treat her leniently at this time, then when you live better than her in the future, she will also treat you well.

    What you're talking about is your own knot, not a hurdle that you can't get over, if you look at people who can't find a job after graduating with a master's degree, people who can't afford to eat, families who have broken up, relatives who have died, don't they have a reason to be more miserable than you?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You shouldn't hate your sister, your sister didn't do anything wrong, she loved you This sister sent you something is a sister's intention, she was scolded when she had a bad time before, did you experience your sister's mood at that time? Biological sisters should not be jealous of each other, but support each other, so that each other becomes better and better, you love someone and one person will love you, but the feelings between relatives are the most selfless, your current jealousy is the reason for your parents, because the parent's education method is actually a little wrong, and the relationship between relatives is not fame and fortune. You should talk to your parents and believe that every parent loves their children, but sometimes the way of expressing love is wrong.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Relatives, there shouldn't be such a mentality as yours. I bought something to give you, it was because of family affection. Don't feel inferior, there are many people who are stronger than your sister. People can't compare, let go of your obsessions.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Read more Buddhist scriptures, this is how you live with money, this is how you live without money, don't live according to other people's thinking for a lifetime, don't regret it since you have chosen, you will meet the lover in your life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    All human beings are inherently unequal, so just be calm and do your best to do your best. Without a good mindset, there will be no good body. Actually, think about it.

    Does money represent everything? has money and spends extravagantly, but he can only overdraft his body, and he will not live long, not the same miserable. The key is to be calm, do what you have to do, and compare yourself with yourself, whether you are more optimistic, more progressive, and healthier than you used to be, so that you will be happy.

    Why are there so many professions in society? Because everyone plays in different fields, they all want to stand at the top of the pyramid, is it possible? Therefore, do yourself well in this life, and enjoy happiness in the next life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The gap between the rich and the poor has existed since ancient times, when the local tyrants divided the land, everyone was the same, and then the slow economic development was disgusted, so that some people got rich first, and then drove the national economy, and as a result, some of the powerful people got rich first; There are nepotism also driven; What if it doesn't matter? Gifts! The wise give gifts to those who are powerful, and they can also be taken care of, and some people will be rich; Stupid, going to work, part-time work, thousands of yuan a month is still very proud, in fact, people collect tens of thousands of yuan a month in rent, you can't even pay the rent!

    Who made you without eyesight?

    Now it's okay, those who have the right to eat have the right to fall off the saddle one by one, they deserve it! Who makes you hungry?

    I advise those who are still riding on horses to show off their might, and have pets in the villa, hurry up and vomit, it's better to vomit yourself, and when the gold chain becomes an iron chain, and when others press your head to make you vomit, the taste is very uncomfortable, and if you don't get it right, you will be beaten into the eighteenth layer of hell!

    Friends, don't be mentally unbalanced, they are more uncomfortable than us now!

    Also, don't be greedy if others get rich by their skills, you can get rich by learning your skills quickly.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Life is inherently unfair. And it is absolutely impossible to be fair. But our hearts can be calmer, not to compare, because the root of human inner suffering is comparison.

    Look at yourself, compare with yourself, make a little progress every day, you can be a little happier, then every day is happy. Participating in more volunteer activities and helping others is not comparable to showing off your wealth.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I also feel unbalanced, but there is no way to do it, only my own generation has worked hard.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's a manifestation of psychological unhappiness that reflects one's sense of loss.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The feeling of seeing others give the same as you, but gain more than you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You're stingy, you're selfish.

    It's just unwilling.

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